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Bark angel:
Somnus' response in another thread prompted me to ask this question to those people here that are calling readers about a relationship issue, that have either discovered from psychics or know themselves that there is a third party.

I wonder how often that third party is classified by psychics as being "manipulative"?
Have your readers expressed this about a  third party or not?

melancholia:
Well, I maybe should quickly clarify that in my particular situation, the woman in question has a history of manipulating men to take care of her and then dumping them when something better comes along. In my case, she originally left my boyfriend to go back to her ex-husband, and didnt come back until he dumped her all over again for trying to take advantage of him - facts I verified not only from the boyfriend but by seeing other communications he had with her daughter and future son-in-law, both of whom were telling him he dodged a bullet when she left.  So at least in this case, if the psychic wasn't seeing her real motivations, they may have at least picked up on the fact that I had seen her described that way.

That being said, I've considered the very real possibility that they say "manipulative" to make you feel superior to the person in question and give you hope that if only your significant other would just see her for what she really is, things would get better.

That's my two cents, anyway.  I'd be curious to hear everyone else's takes on this, too.

bstalling:
Seems to be standard practice. When they do that and try to make your SO a saint at the same time, that is when you know they are bsing. I called a reader out in a review once for it. Of course, got threatening emails.

sagitira:
this was also my question. i don't understand why every reader once i say there is a third party they will say she is manipulative and plays on his emotions etc. i mean when i first started calling psychics i believed that. but now i'm like ok, so you say he doesn't really love her, he wants to be with me but doesn't know how to get out of the relationship, he doesn't want to hurt her etc...now i'm thinking: if he loved me he would do proper action to be with me, he would break up and he would want relationship with me. i've been strung along for 2 years like this. i'm slowly opening my eyes and start realising that this man will never leave....

readers who correctly picked up 3rd party were:
lady persephone - told me straight there is another energy around him and also says she is manipulating him and that he doesn't really love her sees them breaking up...
msdream228 - saw 3rd party before i said anything, also said same thing the girl manipulates him and sees them breaking up
cookie: i'm speechless what this woman picked up on her own without me saying a word i have to say..however i'm not counting on predictions to happen as i do not think it will pan out the way she saw = outcome was positive for me but been there for 2 years readers were saying same thing and nothing happened. present and past was almost 100percent accurate.
aurora - she saw 3 woman in the first few seconds of my call, said totally same thing. outcome was positive for me but i was not happy with the reader, did not find the reader ethical at all.

others did not see another woman around but when i said there is someone they all claimed that the girl manipulates him that he doesn't really love her ..

so...i'm wondering how can you not love someone but be with the person for 5 years? i cannot understand it. has someone had personal experience of being with someone and not loved the person? i find it hard to believe to be honest.

also i found one thing. on keen readers will put on their page notification that if they are not available they recommend certain psychics. i noticed that on lady persephone's recommendations there are if i remember correctly readers like msdream228 and barbara4846. could they share notes? any opinions? i'm only asking as i spoke with ladyp first and only then i read with msdream who also picked up on the third party but her reading almost mirrored the one i had with ladyp...i'm very suspicious now after having read with so many psychics and hearing about sharing notes..

Bark angel:
I don't believe that sharing of notes between readers is as popular as has been alleged.  Even when the readers are in the same group. What would be their incentive?  This is a business. Let me ask you, would you "give" another business person the edge over your business and all the information they might need to develop or hook a client that is yours to them?  I sincerely doubt that.  If I were a reader I would not share information so that a client would feel a natural affinity to another reader, even if that reader is in my group.  Why? What would I gain from doing that?  Nothing!

I think what is more plausible is that this "business" attracts the same sort of customers.  I'd be inclined to bet that most women that call about a man issue are either:
1. wanting a man to take the next step and commit
2. wanting to get a man back that they've lost.

If in scenario 1. then within the first minute or less of a reading a good reader can ascertain if that is the case with a simple question to establish if the couple are in contact and relating or not.
If in scenario 2. then if a reader determines that the man has been lost, unless it's a male caller, chances are it would be natural to presume that it is to another woman!

Having said that, I have had the same success with 3 of the 4 readers you mentioned sagtira.

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