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sagitira:
makes total sense i too did that in the first months of my relationship with him...sadly as you say those butterflies went away as time went mainly cause he never showed signs of leaving his girl. but then again why if as he said his girl doesn't turn him on why is he still with her? is it really that there is not much drama so he is comfortable, plus he gets to cheat on her and bs her? maybe that is really true and he is too comfortable, too familiar with her.
yes readers say they will break up - they had been saying it for 2 years now...different timeframes so this is what makes me believe that this will never happen. plus now something happened (i don't wanna put out too much info) which totally changed the whole situation and he will not leave her now - if he did he would be biggest jerk ever. i can only wish he did leave her but then i'm thinking even if he did would i take him back? probably not...it might sound selfish but after his treatment past few months i would not take him but..but i still want them to break up...pretty screwed i know..:(

i only wish i could do what somnus did and cancel my keen account before i will become addicted again (due to the new situation i started calling them again) now i'm starting to realise i have to look at the reality and not dream about what if....i need to live now, arrange my future according to what i see not what the readers tell me...

imagine all readers (apart from Kisha) told me i should wait..i didn't like that at all..i was saying i wanna move on now...the answer was even if you do and i see you distancing from him , he will be back and you will take him back....Kisha was the only reader who told me he would not end up with me period....and that i should try and move on sooner then better...this was also only advise that sounded more in tune with me...funny thing is kisha admitted she initially did not see third party...

Bark angel:
People stay in relationships for all sorts of reasons.  Obligation, guilt, financial security, love, comfort - you name it.  It does not always mean that 2 people are in love.  However, if for reasons other than love, when other issues come along, and they do, then the strain placed on the relationship often times becomes too much.  A lot of that I believe has everything to do with "how" the relationship ended.  That tells me enough from which to base the readings.  As I have said all along on here, my readings are simply another filter or overlay that I place over the situation as I see it myself. 

If a reader tells me something that I find completely impossible, improbable, or out-of-character, I dismiss it immediately - regardless of who gives that information to me.  It could be from my best reader - I would dismiss anything that does not resonate with me.  I am a realist but I believe in the gift that talented psychics have.  Furthermore, and this is simply my opinion...I often scratch my head wondering why psychics can see the past and present with much more acuity than they tend to for the future.  I disagree, Wholeheartedly!!!

I believe that we direct the psychic and offer confirmations that help them to interpret the signs, images, phrases, snapshots that they get for the past and present.  It is with that additional information provided by us that we have the ability to state, "aha!  She got it, she nailed it..."   

The future is a different situation.  We can't help to guide the psychic with their bits and pieces to put it into a clear picture, so we are left with their interpretation of what those snippets of information really mean.


--- Quote from: sagitira on December 28, 2013, 10:49:22 PM ---makes total sense i too did that in the first months of my relationship with him...sadly as you say those butterflies went away as time went mainly cause he never showed signs of leaving his girl. but then again why if as he said his girl doesn't turn him on why is he still with her? is it really that there is not much drama so he is comfortable, plus he gets to cheat on her and bs her? maybe that is really true and he is too comfortable, too familiar with her.
yes readers say they will break up - they had been saying it for 2 years now...different timeframes so this is what makes me believe that this will never happen. plus now something happened (i don't wanna put out too much info) which totally changed the whole situation and he will not leave her now - if he did he would be biggest jerk ever. i can only wish he did leave her but then i'm thinking even if he did would i take him back? probably not...it might sound selfish but after his treatment past few months i would not take him but..but i still want them to break up...pretty screwed i know..:(

i only wish i could do what somnus did and cancel my keen account before i will become addicted again (due to the new situation i started calling them again) now i'm starting to realise i have to look at the reality and not dream about what if....i need to live now, arrange my future according to what i see not what the readers tell me...

imagine all readers (apart from Kisha) told me i should wait..i didn't like that at all..i was saying i wanna move on now...the answer was even if you do and i see you distancing from him , he will be back and you will take him back....Kisha was the only reader who told me he would not end up with me period....and that i should try and move on sooner then better...this was also only advise that sounded more in tune with me...funny thing is kisha admitted she initially did not see third party...

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sagitira:
true, i often wonder about same things, past..present spot on, future completely opposite sometimes.
your point about relationships is interesting. i sadly dont have much experience in that area i have only dated one guy longer time was too busy to even date and when i got involved in this situation i didnt even think of consequences..just fell for him...knowing he has a girl...big mistake, one i will never repeat again....ever...but i'm learning the hard way..trying to understand dynamics of some relationships where other person cheats, why..etc...why psychics cannot pick up third parties..and of course why do they always see their gf as manipulative..

guess only time will tell what will happen. and yes i also dismiss what psychics tell me if it doesnt' sound true to me even if it is my favourite psychic as even they got predictions wrong. so this time i am listening ot my intuition and not waiting for him any longer..i still think about him all the time but no longer reach out to him...it is very very hard to let go though because we work together :( i have to see him every day at work in one office...trying to let go of someone like that seems like impossible. moving jobs is not an option for me at all sadly (cannot explain circumstances but its impossible for some time)....so if we still work together months later i will at least be able to see who was right and who was wrong...and of course report...from what i saw so far probably no reader will be right on final outcome but lets see what happens...

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