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Is anyone else feeling shitty like me
Beachgirl333:
Angle
One reason why I hate FB is because people can go on your page and know what your doing thats if you post everything you do. I met someone on Nov. whom I was talking to on the text which I hate because I am too old to be text. I feel that if you are going to get to know someone PICK UP THE PHONE! So I would keep my conversations breif with him over text. Finally after the holidays he asked me out to dinner. But occasisonally I found myself looking on his FB to see what he was up to. One night I was out with him to dinner and I noticed before he picked me up that his friends were asking him to go to the casinos. So I was worried I wouldnt see him. But we did go out and while I was out with him he asked if I wanted to go to the casinos. I never let on that I was looking at his FB page.
With this guy...I think you should just enjoy whatever happens. I think you may have scared him by letting him know you know about the friday's club night out. All I know is that if someone wants to be with me so bad he will do that. Thats is why I am not ;listening to any of the psych anymore. They tell me my SM wants to be with me that I am his true love well....where is he? wHY ISNT HE KNOCKING DOWN MY DOOR? I have been sick with pnemonia for 2 weeks now. He has not seem me at work for over a month. He knows something is wrong. If he really cared, if I was really the one he would have been here with me but he's not so screw him! And dont assume that because some girl is on the dating website at the same time he is they are dating...do you know this for sure? have you established a serious commitment with him? If not then you should be dating other people. may be you should just distance yourself from him and if he calls ignore his call no one says you have to pick up the phone or respond to his text. Sorry to hear this. I hate when they can goout with their friends when their sick but they postpone a date.
Libra:
Angel, I must agree with Beachgirl, Im not a fan of FB, I used it at some point, and found out that it served me and other people as a spying tool, and that makes your mind nuts.
As far as the new guy, he is probably overwhelmed with you, thinking wow I met this great girl, and we have so much in common, now what? And that is making him confused. You have to give it time Angel.
Luckystar:
"Angel, I must agree with Beachgirl, Im not a fan of FB, I used it at some point, and found out that it served me and other people as a spying tool, and that makes your mind nuts.
---ugh, this is true i need to remove myself from fb...i already made sure i dont have a facebook wall but there is way too much going on online and some of its just for people to make a show...
"As far as the new guy, he is probably overwhelmed with you, thinking wow I met this great girl, and we have so much in common, now what? And that is making him confused. You have to give it time Angel."
----well libra, you sound much more tolerant that i am...i would have assumed he made me a back up plan like you angel, and that would not fly with me...so i guess it depends on how much you like him and whether you feel like going through a "maybe... maybe not" dating scenario.
AngelGuided:
Thanks Beachgirl, Libra, and CSK! I know we're not exclusive, that's not really what bothers me, it's just the fact that he made plans with me and I don't think it's right to blow me off?!! If he were dating some, I wouldn't blame him, but it seems like he's in active pursuit. I could be wrong about the dating site, it's just that there's been a pattern of it and it goes on for hours just like when we were chatting Monday night and it's been every night this week? I can't help but think there's a reason he's backing out of our plans? He may be confused, I don't know? I really don't think he knows what he wants? Despite everything I've been through, I still know who I am and for the most part what I want out of life. I guess not everybody is able to do that?
cj:
not everyone is able to do that angel..thats why you have to keep on keeping on....I'm doing that and taking a jumbo glass of margarita's with me! *cheers :)
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