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Is anyone else feeling shitty like me

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cj:
I feel so bitter towards life. love. and everything else that comes along with it. Seriously...I get that we need to learn lessons but why does everything have to seem so impossible.

I feel like I have no sense of clarity and no idea where to go..what to do...and where to take this long hard bumpy road. Im sad again...like really really sad again. It almost feel like the day that I found out about the whole preg/baby thing.

Libra:
Cjean: You should look into finding a good healer. Everything that happens in life is about a relationship. A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOURSELF.

kirakira:
girl, we've all been there  :(  I was not so long ago so I can remember clearly, and all I can think to tell you, after being able to look back, if you can decide to let it go, it will sort itself out.  It's a decision to take care of yourself and look out for yourself and to stop the hurting.  You've given your power away, now take it back.  And it's not just the words and the clever sayings, it's an honest turn for the better and a leap of faith.  The saying about one door closing and another one opening, I have to bring that one up because it's the truest one in this life, it's just how it goes.  Life is full of mystery and things we cannot understand, shit that feels too unfair, but you pick yourself up, dust yaself off and start all over... ain't no thang.  Find a good ass friend and do something fun.  It's Saturday night and you're in NYC, just let yourself.  Either that or go get a Chinese back massage for an hour, that's totally what I want!  And hey!!  be excited wondering what angel's doing right now!!! haha!!!  That woman was with the same man for 20 years!  woo hoo!!!  ;)

cj:
you're so right Kira..unfortunately though Im so broke...so I have nothing to do tonight. I'll just be calling it a night and sleeping all this sadness off...

I've been here before...and not to say anyone else's pain is less than mines..but theres a baby involved..letting go is one thing but seeing the person you want happiness with, happy in their own stages and changes in their life makes it even worse. It feels like my heart keeps falling apart everytime I pick up some of the pieces

kirakira:
Exactly though, there's a baby involved.  And if you let yourself live your best life, you'll be hitting those stages too, and you won't feel the same way about him when you're in love again -with a man who's just for you, with a baby that's yours, etc... trust me!!!

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