No One Predicted This: How Psychic Readings Failed Me

[Lys]

I met someone this fall, and we started seeing each other. I really felt a deep connection with this person, and I truly saw something long-term. A lot of things happened, including many things in his life, and I don’t really want to go into too many details. Then he went to stay with his family for the holidays. We didn’t see each other for quite a while. Toward the end, I started to feel him becoming distant, and eventually he ghosted me. I didn’t hear from him for a week and a half.

I was really hurt. I felt absolutely awful. I fell into a deep depression, trying to understand why, what had happened, what went wrong. Eventually, I decided to call him from a private number just to finally get an answer. We were able to talk on the phone. He apologized for his behavior, for ghosting me. But he told me that he had decided to move back and live elsewhere, in another province (hometown) close to his family and friends, because he feels happier there.

I’ve spent a lot of money recently on psychic readings, trying to understand what was happening and whether he would come back or contact me again. But no one—no one—saw this coming. Some told me it was due to external factors and that everything was very unclear, others said he wasn’t ready or whatever, but no one saw this. No one.

I’ve tried rereading my readings with Yona a million times to try to understand. I’m still trying to understand. I’m not sure if they’re really talking about him, if he’s going to come back or not. I’m extremely confused. I don’t understand anything. Someone even told me they would be very surprised if he came back.

I feel so broken. My whole life, I’ve been rejected by every guy. I’ve been single for so long, but I truly felt something with this person. And now the circumstances make it so that it just won’t work. I feel so stupid for having spent all my money, because now I have no money left. I’m poor, I can’t spend anything anymore. All of this for shitty psychic readings that no one saw coming.

[mliva34]

Sorry you went through that.

I had a friend who was calling and even took out loans and I told her to stop. It was a lot of money. I think it was her addictive personality and other mental stuff going on. But she called nonstop about a guy who she was seeing for some time and she would catch him message other people and even cheated on her. But readers told her that he wasn't cheating.. I felt bad because I feel like at one point she was getting readings to try and understand how could they possibly predict those things when the opposite was happening.

[PJpilar]

Get your own lenormand or tarot cards since it will pull from your energy directly

[jackY]

You have to be careful when you do your own tarot-which I do! You have to ensure your energy ISN'T in the pull. If you can't separate from the situation and question and can't release outcomes, you can't do your own cards.

Get your own lenormand or tarot cards since it will pull from your energy directly

[Mina]

Have you considered the possibility you’re going thru a trauma response?

I heard this saying: chasing someone who doesn’t want you back is a trauma response 💣

It’s not entirely true, but it’s up there with “if they could they would” which I’m sure is some outlandishly maggot local favorites

Here’s the solution: be kind to yourself, forgive yourself for not being with someone (or forgive yourself for not having boyfriend… in Latin culture this can psychologically be a huge hang up), work thru the stages of grief with a professional in therapy.

Try to understand you’re chasing a FEELING. And while feelings are valid (they’re not wrong or bad) they’re wrapped in perceptions and beliefs. What I’m reading is here is a belief that if you don’t have this connection, this one connection, “you found it, it’s lost”, and your life can feel like death and meaningless. So your response to not having money for psychics is totally understandable. But… it sounds like an addiction, or a trauma response… or whatever it is does not sound healthy or loving to yourself.

Being kind to yourself will also hold a kind boundary that is loving and unique to yourself that will say “no I won’t put myself in that situation” or “wow that was nice connection, and this separation sucks but I can hold myself to go through this grief without despair” - AND IT FEELS GOOD! There are times when I felt anger, disappointment, heartbreak, but held myself and it feels so good! It’s the top 10 best ugly cries -a coming home to myself. However, I needed help, help to walk me thru the growing pains separation (but not psychic help). And I hope you don’t read this the wrong way but when you do put yourself first it is HUGLY attractive. Even what you wrote about this person saying they’re depressed didn’t surprise me because in a way it also speaks to areas where perhaps you’re not putting yourself first. I bet you when you do do something outside of having a relationship that you have neglected this guy will come back because: a healthy mindset is attractive… but by putting what psychic say first, searching to see if they were right (which most you are asking are wrong- even the heavy hitters have failed me) spending every dime you have left to soothe a feeling … you’re neglecting yourself, it self abandonment.

Please don’t spiral and tire yourself out for a reading with so and so
He’s already responded and he choosing his mental health first but you need to too

[Mina]

I met someone this fall, and we started seeing each other. I really felt a deep connection with this person, and I truly saw something long-term. A lot of things happened, including many things in his life, and I don’t really want to go into too many details. Then he went to stay with his family for the holidays. We didn’t see each other for quite a while. Toward the end, I started to feel him becoming distant, and eventually he ghosted me. I didn’t hear from him for a week and a half.

I was really hurt. I felt absolutely awful. I fell into a deep depression, trying to understand why, what had happened, what went wrong. Eventually, I decided to call him from a private number just to finally get an answer. We were able to talk on the phone. He apologized for his behavior, for ghosting me. But he told me that he had decided to move back and live elsewhere, in another province (hometown) close to his family and friends, because he feels happier there.

I’ve spent a lot of money recently on psychic readings, trying to understand what was happening and whether he would come back or contact me again. But no one—no one—saw this coming. Some told me it was due to external factors and that everything was very unclear, others said he wasn’t ready or whatever, but no one saw this. No one.

I’ve tried rereading my readings with Yona a million times to try to understand. I’m still trying to understand. I’m not sure if they’re really talking about him, if he’s going to come back or not. I’m extremely confused. I don’t understand anything. Someone even told me they would be very surprised if he came back.

I feel so broken. My whole life, I’ve been rejected by every guy. I’ve been single for so long, but I truly felt something with this person. And now the circumstances make it so that it just won’t work. I feel so stupid for having spent all my money, because now I have no money left. I’m poor, I can’t spend anything anymore. All of this for shitty psychic readings that no one saw coming.

IF THEY WANTED TO THEY WOULD.

Bwaahahahaha
It’s too easy!

In your case: he could and would but CHOSE anything and everything else to get away from you. Don’t blame them. Heck even I would donate to his lobotomy go fund me page! … even if we’re the inflicted trauma response to your choice. Just remember that YOU CONTINUOUSLY CHOOSE INSANITY!
You’re not wanted and still come back! Bwahahahahaha 🤣 🤣 🤣

[Lys]

Have you considered the possibility you’re going thru a trauma response?

I heard this saying: chasing someone who doesn’t want you back is a trauma response 💣

It’s not entirely true, but it’s up there with “if they could they would” which I’m sure is some outlandishly maggot local favorites

Here’s the solution: be kind to yourself, forgive yourself for not being with someone (or forgive yourself for not having boyfriend… in Latin culture this can psychologically be a huge hang up), work thru the stages of grief with a professional in therapy.

Try to understand you’re chasing a FEELING. And while feelings are valid (they’re not wrong or bad) they’re wrapped in perceptions and beliefs. What I’m reading is here is a belief that if you don’t have this connection, this one connection, “you found it, it’s lost”, and your life can feel like death and meaningless. So your response to not having money for psychics is totally understandable. But… it sounds like an addiction, or a trauma response… or whatever it is does not sound healthy or loving to yourself.

Being kind to yourself will also hold a kind boundary that is loving and unique to yourself that will say “no I won’t put myself in that situation” or “wow that was nice connection, and this separation sucks but I can hold myself to go through this grief without despair” - AND IT FEELS GOOD! There are times when I felt anger, disappointment, heartbreak, but held myself and it feels so good! It’s the top 10 best ugly cries -a coming home to myself. However, I needed help, help to walk me thru the growing pains separation (but not psychic help). And I hope you don’t read this the wrong way but when you do put yourself first it is HUGLY attractive. Even what you wrote about this person saying they’re depressed didn’t surprise me because in a way it also speaks to areas where perhaps you’re not putting yourself first. I bet you when you do do something outside of having a relationship that you have neglected this guy will come back because: a healthy mindset is attractive… but by putting what psychic say first, searching to see if they were right (which most you are asking are wrong- even the heavy hitters have failed me) spending every dime you have left to soothe a feeling … you’re neglecting yourself, it self abandonment.

Please don’t spiral and tire yourself out for a reading with so and so
He’s already responded and he choosing his mental health first but you need to too

Thank you for you answer I appreciate. I’m finally able to have an appointment with a psychologist so I hope that will help. I just can’t stop to read my readings with Yona because I’m sure she talked about him and he will reach out and comeback but I will have a choice to make. But I’m scared nothing will happen