Problem people

[Cfisher]

Ok, I'm not really the type of person to whine about anyone, and I don't even really know if this thread is really *appropriate* but under the spiritualist reader thread, I really felt like Zee went completely over board with the personal attacks directed straight at me. Like WAY over board.

I get it, people have issues or a really bad social skills, but I don't think that from my posts that anything I said was so incredibly mean or personally attacking and she's taken it that way.

I was so incredibly shocked by her original response that I thought I'd better explain myself. So I thought I did that so they knew I had no intent to harm. But her response AFTER that posting was just down right messed up.

I, for one, don't want to see such meanness on here, what about you guys?

I mean ok, fine, if I hurt your feelings or said something so completely offensive, sure maybe I deserve a little banter back, but I don't think I did anything too bad there with what I said and I was quite appalled at her responses.

[Cfisher]

Clearly, I'm still pissed.

I agree with both of you but it just doesn't seem like anyone from this forum heeds this advice. Instead, many weigh in on the situation and six to eight people find it necessary to admonish the attacker, which in my opinion just continues to fester the negativity.  I’ve witnessed it numerous times and have learned from it all the same. 

the best course of action is no course of action.

If this were true, then no one should be adding more fuel by attacking the attacker (two wrongs don’t make it right).

I don't know how or why I came across this but holy cow. Yes, I'm harping. I'm still stunned.

K, enough of me. I'll stop right now.

[positivethoughts2]

It's so toxic I can barely force myself to read the posts anymore.

[Synergy]

Hi everyone.

This is exactly why I am so over this place.  I don't understand why they always have to be on attack.  I've seen posts where they claim that we have "cliques", but they clearly have created one of their own.  A day can't go by here without these petty disagreements.  I know that I have participated in a few, but sometimes I can't help speak my mind when I see some of the nonsense being posted here.

I used to check the forum all the time. Now I only check periodically, and when I do, I often wish I hadn't.  I can't remember the last time a newbie posted a useful review. 

I'm sorry you're the new target, Cfisher. 

[aef2929 P]

I hardly come back here anymore and it's a shame.  Sorry but Zee brings all kind of negativity and should be banned from this forum.  Accusing me of being Syd Saeed...I mean really I've been on this board since before it's birth when we were on the complaints board a group of us together.  I have close friends I've made from the beginning group and they will tell you I am certainly not Syd Saeed and Healer certainly knows that too!  This forum and before this used to be a productive place where we shared and took care of each other.

[Luckystar]

I am confused about who started the "kool-aid" phrase anyway? There are always going to be negative people on here unfortunately. Aef don't worry, we know you are not Syd.

[Synergy]

In my opinion, a bully is someone who comes on to a psychic review forum and judges other forum members due to their own skepticism.  I've provided support, advice, understanding, and recommendations to many forum members who have found themselves in difficult situations. I feel good about that. 

This happens to be a thread about Kisha, but I have also shared many other recommendations (QueenofCups18, Gaylene, Aurora,  LadyP, LadyAshley, etc).  I can accept when readers are wrong.  While all the readers I just listed have been right about certain things, they also have been very wrong about others.  My disagreement with began because I clearly asked you what your expectations are from psychic readings.  You've been asked this by other forum members as well.  Based on your posts, it appears as if you are expecting readers to be 100% correct on every detail, and that's not going to happen.  This is what sets you off and you start making accusations about "drinking psychic kool-aid" and making excuses for readers.  I don't make excuses for them.  I am simply REALISTIC and, most importantly, non-judgemental.

Say what you will, but a person who joins a psychic REVIEW forum to preach skepticism and mock other forum members is a bully.  That is you, not me.  Your last few posts about living and not needing to call psychics are awesome FOR YOU.  There are plenty of people who believe in psychics and will continue to call them no matter how much you make fun of them or admonish them.  Since you won't be calling anymore, I guess you won't have anymore reviews to post, and we won't have to deal with your negative, judgemental approach.

And thank you, Jordie for the kind words.   

[Synergy]

Sorry, veterens.  I posted that in the wrong place.

I agree with everything you posted, aef.  This forum just isn't what it used to be. 

[aef2929 P]

I agree JDD needs to go too....if you can't share productively you don't belong here. 

[SomethingBetter]

Can healer ban both of them?

[Cfisher]

I agree about zee, very negative. JDDs last post has also gone too far. She referenced scorpiogirl and that psychic kool aid phrase. I am highly suspect about that phrase because it was originally used on Annie's blog when zee started the Annie crap.

Woah... Mind my French here but what the fu** did jdd do regarding scorpiogirl?

I'll go search myself, but scorpiogirl is actually someone I Talk to offline and is one of the sweetest, nicest people I know and like many of us has been through the thick of BS in her life experiences.

Not only that, but offline through many emails back and forth between us personally, has been such an enormous amount of encouragement for me personally as many of you on here for me have been as well.

Hearing this is just utterly disappointing.

AEF, I agree, I don't think there is one Vet that would believe that you are Syd.

I'm sorry ladies, but I just walked out of one of the most the most toxic working environments and the last thing I need to see on here is a bunch of negative, mean spited people on here picking on and poking at really wonderful positive people who don't deserve that shit. Now I'm super pissed.

The attacking shit that Zee slammed with me with under the cookie posting was one thing, fine I got attacked, not going to take it personally, but if JDD is going out of her way to hurt someone else's feelings just for the heck of it? She deserves to be banned.

This forum should be a place where one can feel safe sharing his/her views. I'm seriously sick and tired of seeing constant strands of bi***y girl shit around here.

This is OUR forum people. Maybe it's time that WE cleaned up the nastiness.

[Cfisher]

Ok. Sorry for jumping the gun there. Although I did just go back and read under Kisha. Man oh man, the BS just continues with her and zee...

@synergy, she took it too far with you. The rudeness, it's really appalling. Proud of you for saying your piece and calling her out. She is a walking contradiction. It makes me wider if she has any friends in her real life with the way she talks on here.

I vote Zee and JDD2003 are banned from the forum. That's my two cents. Way too much bi***y girl shit and *mean girls 3* crap out of both of them. That's my two cents.

[SomethingBetter]

Kisha doesn't work for everybody, that is not the issue but JDD is pretending it is.

The issues are:

1) she is putting down others here by saying "I am not dependent like others here. They are holding on to pending predictions so they are defensive. I don't care like others here BUT.."

My arguments, are as follows: you are a rude ass person who puts others down when, pot meet kettle, you are on a psychic site review site, so you must care.

2) she says Kisha is shady and unprofessional SO SHE CALLS FROM ANOTHER SCREEN NAME???!!

My arguments: you don't think she was shady or unprofessional cause you are bothering her from another account. She blocked your ass probably for being crazy like you are in here. To me it's akin to meeting a guy. Texting him all the time, then he stops responding to you. And when he does you text him from your friend cell and he miraculously answers. It's YOU, honey. It odd and stalker ish behavior.

3) she DOES contradict herself.   

My arguments: she said she called Kisha because it was shady and unprofessional to block her, but earlier she said she called her from the other name cause she REALLY needed to know about a friend. Liar and a contradiction. She said she's only called Kisha a handful of time. She posted her she's called her 2-3 times in October alone. We are only 2 1/2 weeks in and she is probably lying about that too and has probably called more.

She is a skeptic, but is stalking a reader who has been right for her.

Loops and Miracle pointed out the oddness of calling someone who blocked you, buy he ignored it. I pointed out her contradictions and holier than thou attitude and she totally ignored it. She WANTS to attack Syn and I don't get it.

I think the koolaid reference is just popular tbh. I wan both of them banned and I hate Esteellita's teeheeheeing bullshit too.

[Cfisher]

Ok. I agree. But then I must be considered a stalker as well, as I have done the same things as @jerkoff
1) nsj blocked me right off the bat from both users I have on keen. I found her website and read with her. After a few calls I enquiried as to why she blocks callers right off the bat? She doesn't like the energy on keen. Period. But, I'm still sort of stalkerish I think? Because after reading all of her feedback I was determined to read with her. Not only have I been looking for *the one who got it right* for me for the last 15 years, but obviously she's a very valuable person and has really become a friend to me after reading with her since January. Amazing lady.
2) I have two keen accounts. I always try a reader from both and apart in time. This is just my own personal test. If the reader isn't consistent I don't read with them. After blowing so much money, after been completely scammed by so many readers on keen, my system works for me. I've tested it over and over and now there are only three people on keen that I would say are even remotely accurate. So, as far as I'm concerned, I used my own method to figure out which readers were the best for me.
3) I have done the same thing for kisha. She blocked me on one user and so I tested her from the other a couple times. She's had a couple of things come true for me, but more wrong than right. I have thought about contacting her from her personal website as now she's completely blocked me from both users, without any rhyme or reason and I deduce her thought process as to I never left her feedback. But, I probably won't call her, because I just don't want to blow money on a reader that hasn't been consistently right for me personally. But that doesn't mean that in the future I won't give her another shot. Kisha reads with visionsbyvicky who has glorious feedback. I tested her and found a completely polar opposite reading from both readers. But she's good for kisha. Wth? Oh shmeh. Lol

I for one think that JDD and Zee have treated others so poorly and been so terrible towards others on this forum. Such atrocious behaviour wouldn't be tolerated in a workplace, with my friends, my family. The two of them should get together and rip each others faces off. Maybe than they will stop bullying others.

And I agree with SB. The last posting I saw by Estrillita was so rude. It was directed right at synergy and she's the third of the mean girls 3. She's probably not a bad person per se, but she got completely sucked in to the bullying shit and I just thought it was shocking to see that. It's so disappointing to see pack mentality and high school stuff on a forum with a group of adults.

The toxicity of the three of them? And I'm wondering when we are going to start seeing them get together and start ganging up on others. It's truly disheartening.

Everyone has a story, everyone has had good and bad experiences. But the main focus, in my opinion on a forum such as this, is to be able to share some experiences and some laughs, to be supportive of others, to build relationships and trust with people that you have a commonality with. I for one feel very fortunate to have found sich a great group of people that have some of the same interests as I and think that I should feel free to express my opinions without getting bashed.

I had thought when I started with this forum that I was going to find what I was looking for and I did. And I found some wonderful people to share some laughs with as well. But I've also found that people that are in so much pain will go out of their way to lash out at other people without having a principle behind it other than to lash out.

I've also has the discussion with other people on here that won't even bother with the forum anymore because of all the toxicity.

On a happy note, I am going to have a glass of wine lol

[Cfisher]

Holy shit. Are you sure Zee isn't sandy Esther? My oh my.

I shake my head over here and think why? I don't get it at all. What the heck is the purpose behind the pot stiring and hatred? Honestly, I don't understand.

Granted I'm sitting here on my ass and am bored as hell, but the last thing is ever do is spend time concocting up ways to be mean to someone else. I really don't understand and I can't see any logic behind it other than to be mean and spiteful. Who does that shit?

Clearly, someone in desperate need of serious medication. That's crazy stuff Jordie. Crazy.