I think that just about everything that happens in our lives is based on choice. I think that at any point and time, depending on how close you are to making a decision, some things can change but, I think that a good psychic should be able to tell if you're going to "Waiver" in your thinking. The problem as I see it, if you order a per minute reading, you are too focused on the fact that you only have a few minutes ect.. I tend to look at my readings as a bunch of time that I'm requesting. I certainly do not think that I can get a good reading with someone in just a few minutes so I pay attention to the amount of time I'd like with that psychic and WHERE I am going to purchase that time. I think that their private sites are better because you can schedule a nice amount of time and have it over the phone but not a per minute thing. Most of the readings I've had have been done this way and I find that if the psychic is still answering me, they don't just end the session at the 15 minute mark. I don't feel rushed and I like to have my questions ready before I call. I don't like doing the rushed OMG I have a question thing, I think I give off a bad vibe with ANYONE when I feel that way. But I'm also basically bipolar so, LOL.