Calling all Veteran Members

[admin]

Hi all, this is the list of the current Veterans.  Please let me know if you guys are OK with this group.  Thanks!

[admin]

Her site made me smile because it's full of medicine ads!  It appears she got attacked by spammers too lol.  I remember those days!

[Luckystar]

moneta and angelguided are older members who may have stopped with this site completely because their predictions never happened.

i am pretty sure both of them were married or separated and were hoping for a reconciliation.

[admin]

By the way, to get back on topic.  I would like the opinion of you all.

So, as you know, I went to Europe for 3 weeks.  Before my trip, my SM and I talked about her coming to visit me.  She wanted to come right away (she was sad and crying, etc), but I was on my way to Europe.  So we decided we'd postpone the visit for after my trip.  I emailed her some info on the airline tickets, and she didn't respond.  So, I just left for my vacation without talking to her, just sort of wondering why she got quiet again.

VJ recommended me to not email her when I was traveling and said she would contact me.  She did.  She emailed me when I was in Paris.  I didn't respond, but on the way back home, I had a lay-over in her country, and I couldn't resist after a few beers with my friends.  So, I emailed her and said if she could write back really fast, then I could stay a few days and see her!  I didn't think she would respond, but I thought it was the right thing to do instead of just passing through and not making any effort at all.

Well, now it's been about 11 days, and she hasn't responded.  I thought maybe I would get a delayed email like "sorry, but I didn't get your email in time, let's make plans for me to visit you soon."

The other thing is that her ip has changed, her city has changed.  So, it worries me she went back to the other guy, but VJ thinks she moved out of the boring town back to the main city for a happier stay and better job.  It was really boring where she was.

So do I just stay silent or let her know I am planning on moving to Paris for a while to study French and live life without her.  I was thinking I could say "it would be nice to see you before my move to Paris."

Any ideas?  Her email when I was traveling was just short, like, "I'm glad to hear you are doing well, when is your trip?"

The email before that said we'd probably get back together and she was still single.

Thanks!







 

[admin]

I have had quite a few pms but am not getting email notification of them, I was before. Is this happening to anyone else?

Thanks Jordie, I'll check on it.  I haven't received email msgs either.

[admin]

Well, from the beginning she never liked my vacation plans.  When I told her I was going, she called me off the hook and emailed me to ask if I met someone new.  She thought I was going with another girl.  But when we finally talked, I told her no, I was just going on a tour.  I am too nice!

[admin]

One way to be evasive is to say, "That's none of your business."  That is what my sm used to say to me.  I said that to her once, and she was stumped on what to respond with!

[Cfisher]

You could totally do the *it's none of your business* line, but then you are being clear that you are tying to be evasive. My thoughts are always like this, of I didn't give a flying shit about having this person in my life how would I react to them? I'll tell you how, with total and complete confidence. That's how. I have found over the years that with guys that have been completely entranced by my amazing charms that I just answer things with confidence, don't care what they think, and guess what happens? They start liking me more... I mean hell, I am amazing, hot and the sexiest woman on the face of the earth (that's what I tell myself... Lol) and really, what's not to live about me? I ride a crotch rocket and can hit a a baseball for goodness sake. Sorry, running rancid with my pretend ego. But truly it is all about confidence. Even with this guy I'm hooked on at the moment and cannot seem to let go of (it's just time, I know that will get me thru it) but even with him, I stump him sometimes because I'm just straight up with my info. Ya, I'm into him, but no, I could careless what he thought... And let me tell you, knowing this, keeps him hooked as well...

[admin]

It's nice that you can hit a baseball!  It's great to remember how amazing we are sometimes.  I would list my talents too, but I only allow 140,000 characters to be posted at once, so...but I'll tell you this, I almost played professional baseball, so your post caught my attention : )

[admin]

Hi Guys, I am reading through the forum and some PM messages that were all deleted.  I wasn't here for a lot of the drama, but I see that Blessed had a nice reading with Annie and then she started to recommend Annie to all her friends on this site.  To me Blessed was being sincere.  Some of you started to wonder if Blessed was Annie, but she wasn't.  Then, someone with username Gratitude started bashing Blessed and saying she had issues, etc, but I don't know why.  I think that was some misunderstanding in live chat.

Then I see that Annie was angered that she got some many referrals from Blessed!  Then a bunch of nonsense happened.  To me a lot of this seems like misunderstandings. 

I'm not sure why Annie got mad that she got a lot of calls from people on our site, but I now have an idea.

I think what happened was that she advertised a $10 price (to Blessed) for low income people and Blessed spread the word about this.  Then I think Annie didn't want to do so many calls for only $10 and she became furious that Blessed told so many people about her special offer. 

I think that is what happened, but Blessed didn't mean any harm.  She was raving about Annie and trying to bring her business, but at the same time, she was telling others about the special offer.  So Blessed was trying to help both sides and ended up getting in trouble.

This could have been avoided if Annie had told Blessed only one person or two could have had that offer, but I don't think Annie had any idea of how many people Blessed was going to refer, so she didn't say that.  I don't blame either here, but you can see what has happened.  If I was Annie, I wouldn't want to do tons of cheap readings either.  Now, I see why "Newgirl" didn't get her free or discounted reading, and I see why Annie did some research to see if she was really a low income person.  So when Annie saw Newgirl had spent thousands on readings, that is why she denied her.  It's starting to make sense now.

This is just a case of a bad communication somewhere and everything turning a totally wrong direction.  For example, one time at Thanksgiving my family played a game.  Someone told a short story to the person next to him and it went all around the room.  By the time the story came back, it was totally different.

I haven't read the rest yet!  But it's a good start.

[Cfisher]

How does Annie know that @blessed has spent thousands on readings? Has @blessed made loads of comments on readers and that's how Annie realized she's not a *low income* person? Sorry, I'm just so shocked over here that Annie would take the time and research a person in order to not give a discount for her readings... I barely have enough time in a day to post on here! jeesh!

Hi Guys, I am reading through the forum and some PM messages that were all deleted.  I wasn't here for a lot of the drama, but I see that Blessed had a nice reading with Annie and then she started to recommend Annie to all her friends on this site.  To me Blessed was being sincere.  Some of you started to wonder if Blessed was Annie, but she wasn't.  Then, someone with username Gratitude started bashing Blessed and saying she had issues, etc, but I don't know why.  I think that was some misunderstanding in live chat.

Then I see that Annie was angered that she got some many referrals from Blessed!  Then a bunch of nonsense happened.  To me a lot of this seems like misunderstandings. 

I'm not sure why Annie got mad that she got a lot of calls from people on our site, but I now have an idea.

I think what happened was that she advertised a $10 price (to Blessed) for low income people and Blessed spread the word about this.  Then I think Annie didn't want to do so many calls for only $10 and she became furious that Blessed told so many people about her special offer. 

I think that is what happened, but Blessed didn't mean any harm.  She was raving about Annie and trying to bring her business, but at the same time, she was telling others about the special offer.  So Blessed was trying to help both sides and ended up getting in trouble.

This could have been avoided if Annie had told Blessed only one person or two could have had that offer, but I don't think Annie had any idea of how many people Blessed was going to refer, so she didn't say that.  I don't blame either here, but you can see what has happened.  If I was Annie, I wouldn't want to do tons of cheap readings either.  Now, I see why "Newgirl" didn't get her free or discounted reading, and I see why Annie did some research to see if she was really a low income person.  So when Annie saw Newgirl had spent thousands on readings, that is why she denied her.  It's starting to make sense now.

This is just a case of a bad communication somewhere and everything turning a totally wrong direction.  For example, one time at Thanksgiving my family played a game.  Someone told a short story to the person next to him and it went all around the room.  By the time the story came back, it was totally different.

I haven't read the rest yet!  But it's a good start.

[Cfisher]

Pro baseball? Holy balls dude! (um, ya, baseballs that is) and as for my talents, I'm completely BSing. I'm attempting to HELP my self-esteem and I made a joke about it... Like a total complete joke...  I'm not an egotist, I'm just a jokester type... Don't worry, you'll get used to me lol!

It's nice that you can hit a baseball!  It's great to remember how amazing we are sometimes.  I would list my talents too, but I only allow 140,000 characters to be posted at once, so...but I'll tell you this, I almost played professional baseball, so your post caught my attention : )

[admin]

How does Annie know that @blessed has spent thousands on readings? Has @blessed made loads of comments on readers and that's how Annie realized she's not a *low income* person? Sorry, I'm just so shocked over here that Annie would take the time and research a person in order to not give a discount for her readings... I barely have enough time in a day to post on here! jeesh!

Hi Guys, I am reading through the forum and some PM messages that were all deleted.  I wasn't here for a lot of the drama, but I see that Blessed had a nice reading with Annie and then she started to recommend Annie to all her friends on this site.  To me Blessed was being sincere.  Some of you started to wonder if Blessed was Annie, but she wasn't.  Then, someone with username Gratitude started bashing Blessed and saying she had issues, etc, but I don't know why.  I think that was some misunderstanding in live chat.

Then I see that Annie was angered that she got some many referrals from Blessed!  Then a bunch of nonsense happened.  To me a lot of this seems like misunderstandings. 

I'm not sure why Annie got mad that she got a lot of calls from people on our site, but I now have an idea.

I think what happened was that she advertised a $10 price (to Blessed) for low income people and Blessed spread the word about this.  Then I think Annie didn't want to do so many calls for only $10 and she became furious that Blessed told so many people about her special offer. 

I think that is what happened, but Blessed didn't mean any harm.  She was raving about Annie and trying to bring her business, but at the same time, she was telling others about the special offer.  So Blessed was trying to help both sides and ended up getting in trouble.

This could have been avoided if Annie had told Blessed only one person or two could have had that offer, but I don't think Annie had any idea of how many people Blessed was going to refer, so she didn't say that.  I don't blame either here, but you can see what has happened.  If I was Annie, I wouldn't want to do tons of cheap readings either.  Now, I see why "Newgirl" didn't get her free or discounted reading, and I see why Annie did some research to see if she was really a low income person.  So when Annie saw Newgirl had spent thousands on readings, that is why she denied her.  It's starting to make sense now.

This is just a case of a bad communication somewhere and everything turning a totally wrong direction.  For example, one time at Thanksgiving my family played a game.  Someone told a short story to the person next to him and it went all around the room.  By the time the story came back, it was totally different.

I haven't read the rest yet!  But it's a good start.

Hi, you misunderstood.  Annie did not research Blessed.  She began to research all the referrals who were asking for the $10 special.  Her offer is a bad business design because how is she going to know about their income?  Anyway, she checked online about one of the girls who asked for the discount, and then she saw the girl left a lot of reviews on Keen, so she assumed the girl had lots of money.  So, she refused to give the girl the discount, and then the girl wrote on our site that she did a background check on her!

That led to the mess.  So basically, I am getting slammed because of all this.... very stupid.

[admin]

Today my programmer said he can get all the chat from the beginning of time.  So, it's on the database.  I'll have him search for "kool-aide" to see if someone typed that.  Are there any other searches you guys think might lead somewhere?

[admin]

Annie had a blog on her site, don't know if it is still there. Was something about blessed stalking and harassing her. She did not come out an say her name in the blog, but the way she ended it pointed to blessed. I think she said something like have a BLESSED day. Anyone remember the details better?

Sorry, I didn't mean to frighten anyone, so I'll re-post this in a different way.

Here is the current ban list and yes, their IPs are banned, but they can still get back in by using another IP or cell phone.  I think the system bans all IPs they logged in with though.  So the ban is pretty good, but not perfect.

1.  WaitingOnFaith
2.  Blessed
3.  HoneyCup (aka PsychicWhore, PsychicJunkie)
4.  Wakeupcall

If any of these banned users contact you, I would ignore them and report them to the admin.  They were banned for numerous reports by the members.