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[Lys]

HELP

I don’t really know what to think anymore, so I’m coming here for outside perspective.

Over the past few weeks, I’ve had many psychic readings about my POI because I’ve been feeling very confused and anxious about the situation. Most of the readings were on PurpleOcean, and two were on Bitwine. Almost all of them said similar things: that he would reach out again soon (except 2 was negative, Ari and Hilary80), and that I shouldn’t contact him, but instead wait for him to come to me.

The problem is… I haven’t heard from him in 5 days now, and it honestly feels like I’m being ghosted. That makes me even more confused. Part of me really wants to text him, because doing nothing feels awful. But at the same time, every psychic keeps telling me to wait and not reach out, and logically I guess that makes sense too.

Now I’m stuck between:

– trusting the readings and waiting

– or listening to my own instinct and writing to him

I don’t know what to believe anymore. I’m also feeling really bad because I’ve spent a lot of money on readings. I’m not even working right now, I don’t have much money at all, but my anxiety kind of took over and I kept searching for reassurance.

I feel lost, anxious, and confused. I don’t understand what’s happening or why I suddenly have no news from him, especially coming from someone I felt a connection with. I don’t know what to do anymore, or how much weight I should really give to these readings.

Has anyone been in a similar situation? Any honest advice or grounding perspective would really help.

[frozenfox]

Hey, listen. I'm in a similar situation, POI hasn't reached out in 6 days. We have a great connection, everything was going so well for the first 1.5 month until this past week. I felt her pulling back and so asked what was going on, did she meet someone else, etc. She said she'd answer later and... hasn't. I gave myself a week to send a follow-up/check-in message about how it's making me feel and decided that I am okay with whatever happens. If it ends, then that means we weren't a fit as I thought. If it doesn't, then I get what I want which is clarity. Either way, I am ready to move forward, however that looks like.

What's important is how you authentically present yourself. Reach out to your POI from a place of compassion. Tell him you feel like he's pulling back and ask if everything is alright or if he's no longer interested. Then proceed from there. If he responds and explains, great! If not, either move on or give yourself another time limit to send a final message for closure if you need it.

HELP

I don’t really know what to think anymore, so I’m coming here for outside perspective.

Over the past few weeks, I’ve had many psychic readings about my POI because I’ve been feeling very confused and anxious about the situation. Most of the readings were on PurpleOcean, and two were on Bitwine. Almost all of them said similar things: that he would reach out again soon (except 2 was negative, Ari and Hilary80), and that I shouldn’t contact him, but instead wait for him to come to me.

The problem is… I haven’t heard from him in 5 days now, and it honestly feels like I’m being ghosted. That makes me even more confused. Part of me really wants to text him, because doing nothing feels awful. But at the same time, every psychic keeps telling me to wait and not reach out, and logically I guess that makes sense too.

Now I’m stuck between:

– trusting the readings and waiting

– or listening to my own instinct and writing to him

I don’t know what to believe anymore. I’m also feeling really bad because I’ve spent a lot of money on readings. I’m not even working right now, I don’t have much money at all, but my anxiety kind of took over and I kept searching for reassurance.

I feel lost, anxious, and confused. I don’t understand what’s happening or why I suddenly have no news from him, especially coming from someone I felt a connection with. I don’t know what to do anymore, or how much weight I should really give to these readings.

Has anyone been in a similar situation? Any honest advice or grounding perspective would really help.

[Lys]

Thank you for your answer. We are in the same boat. It’s so sad I just cry all the time. I feel if I never text something I will regret but I’m scared if I do something predictions will not happen. Have you had readings about that? If yes it was positive or negative ? You can send me a private message if you want

[frozenfox]

Thank you for your answer. We are in the same boat. It’s so sad I just cry all the time. I feel if I never text something I will regret but I’m scared if I do something predictions will not happen. Have you had readings about that? If yes it was positive or negative ? You can send me a private message if you want

I haven't had a reading in 3 years since Kisha retired I worked on myself and anxieties and learned how to follow my intuition more. My intuition is strongly telling me that I need to do this for myself. Do you have a discord? I can show you me and POI's messages and what I plan to send her tomorrow. I can also share some of my predictions that Kisha made that I believe to be playing out.

[Lys]

Yes I have discord I will send you a message