A few approaches that have helped me:
I created a journal with four columns:[/b] 1) The advisor's name, 2)date called, 3)what was relayed and predicted 4) any validated outcome
I realized that after several months, years of getting readings (well over 200), there were only two instances where predicted outcomes happened. You can do the math....that leaves 80% of readings being rubbish and just an outlet to relay my emotions. And, that wasted 805-90% of money I could have spent elsewhere. These advisors did not have answers I couldn't have received on my own.
I prayed more. It's uncanny, but I have received the answers from I sought from advisors through prayer. I'm not saying everything has gone the way I want it to. But, in situations where I am perplexed on why I haven't received a promotion, etc.....the answers have come through prayer. As an example, my company hired a woman as a VP and she made my life Hell. I had barely any interaction with her but she made it so I was left out of important projects that would propel me forward. She was hired out of nepotism. I must have wasted $3K on calls related to her. It's when I stopped calling and just prayed for either answers or serenity that I learned the woman was fired.
We can't control our lives, but we can control how we seek answers and who we rely on for support. So, this is what has worked for me.
Good luck to you.
