Psychic Effects on POI and Relationships

[beachgal214]

This is something I am curious to get a dialogue going on and hear your perspective s and real life experiences if possible..

Anyone open to sharing their musing on what multiple psychic readings to do the poi, and how they can impact the flow of the relationshi p?

I would imagine, yes, they would drain them energetical ly - but to what extent?  do they know they are being read on (assume no) but do they feel that it is the caller (us) draining them and how do you think its felt?

another question I have is - say this does impact the relationshi p- this is something I go back and forth on and would love some other perspective s.  Part of me thinks yes these readings could impact the relationshi ps energy and flow- however a lot of these relationshi ps that are called on, or looked into, are challenging ones in that the POI is not giving clarity or consistency so we are seeking answers.  So to say the relationshi p would fare well without the calls is hard to imagine too.

anyway. just looking for people to share thoughts on how multiple readings can impact, to what extent, how much is too much on the POI and does it keep them hanging (conversely, does it keep us on their mind??).

My personal thoughts are - this is a topic that recently came to mind based on a post I read and I hadn't given it much thought until now so I am working it out in my head but I do believe it would drain them, and I do think it might keep them on the hook.

I am personally having a hard time letting go of a relationshi p that needs to be let go of and so I feel I probably keep him around minimally (not in a capacity that is supportive to me in anyway) but in a way that just keeps me hanging on. I am working to detach. But I feel the readings I get probably make him feel bound to me in some way but not in a way that hes going to actually change his ways, or be with me.  I think I am just mores on his mind or something. but not in a way that will make him change if that makes sense.

Letting go of this relationshi p has more to do with my own fear of not finding this connection (however toxic it is) with someone else.  I feel connected to him in such a strong way but at the same time I see how inconsisten t he is with me and how I deserve so much more) but the actual soul level stuff was so much more than I have ever experienced .  strange.

anyway I went off on a tangent there but if anyone has any thoughts on how reading impact POI -id love to hear it!!!  the detachment stuff I am working on separately

[russianred]

This is such a fascinating topic to me, and I hope that others will join in...

I know that if I feel that I'm starting to detach a bit mentally from POI and then get a reading, I find myself feeling right back in the same headspace of longing and hoping after the reading.

Can they feel that we're getting readings?  I don't know.  My gut tells me that maybe they can somehow feel a binge with just so much desperate energy being directed toward them...

I love your point about how we are often calling about complicated or challenging relationshi ps anyway so it's hard to say that the readings are making it any more challenging than it already was.

I think that as we back away from readings it's a sign that we are ready to detach and THEN that detachment, if it's genuine, I think sometimes brings POIs back... like every action has an opposite reaction... so maybe it feels like putting an end to readings resulted in the POI's return when it was really about our own detachment.

[Cranberry88]

I find this topic very interesting yet mysterious to an extend that we could possibly know 10% of whats really going on.
in my religion, getting a reading is something forbidden. However, due to some complicatio ns i have in life i ended up getting readings, one after the other which still isnt an excuse for me.
going back to the topic, i believe psychics does give u a "True" insight of whats going on but your reaction towards the reading might not necessarily fix things hence its always good to react naturally on incidents.
 
6 months back i had an excellent relationshi p with POI where i literally stopped readings completely, but out of curiosity i went to one of my top readers just to see what would happen next. 2 weeks later our relationshi p crashed down for a SILLY reason. we havent been talking now for more than a month. So yeah. that is something to be considered (atleast to me) 

[russianred]

I find this topic very interesting yet mysterious to an extend that we could possibly know 10% of whats really going on.
in my religion, getting a reading is something forbidden. However, due to some complicatio ns i have in life i ended up getting readings, one after the other which still isnt an excuse for me.
going back to the topic, i believe psychics does give u a "True" insight of whats going on but your reaction towards the reading might not necessarily fix things hence its always good to react naturally on incidents.
 
6 months back i had an excellent relationshi p with POI where i literally stopped readings completely, but out of curiosity i went to one of my top readers just to see what would happen next. 2 weeks later our relationshi p crashed down for a SILLY reason. we havent been talking now for more than a month. So yeah. that is something to be considered (atleast to me)

Thanks for sharing your story.

You know, I don't know if I even truly believe in psychic ability, but you brought out a good point about how I do think that sometimes these readers can give us a more objective perspective on our situation.

Playing devil's advocate for a second -- did you seek out that reading just out of total curiosity or did you get an intuitive sense on some level that things weren't going right?  If it was more the latter, the breakup might have been more of a manifestati on of that already existing energy than anything having to do with the psychic.  But, again... who knows.

This is a fascinating topic.  All I know for sure is that it's better for my own mental health to get spaced out and planned readings.

[SarahM]

Yup this is something i always wondered about as well. Can the other person "feel" anything when we're constantly getting readings about them? This is unfortunate ly one of those things that we'll never get an answer to lol...

[russianred]

Bumping thread in hopes of receiving more thoughts...

I thought this was a great thread idea and have wondered about this a lot.  It's been a big motivator for me to stop getting so many readings.

[russianred]

So so so so true.  Every part of this -- that it cannot be forced but also that it is the way to having someone return if he intended to return anyway.  I like what you said about how if the person is gone permanently, he's gone permanently whether you hold on or not.

[Sincity2]

I think they can definitely sense in a way when we are getting readings on them.

I’ve noticed every guy I’ve gotten a reading on has somehow changed on me, and not for the better, almost as if the readings have put a jinx on the whole situation. That’s why I will never get a reading on any future relationshi p.

[Ninacy]

I agree with all the previous posters. If a person is an empath like you or emotionally sensitive especially, they may not be able to tell on a conscious level that you are having readings on them but they will feel that you are wondering about them subconsciou sly. Personally, I didn't exactly feel that someone was asking psychics about me, but I sensed that a guy in the past was doing some sort of spell work and remote seduction to seduce me--it definitely felt that something was off and that "I had to get physical with him" but it didn't feel natural.  At one point, I felt overwhelmed by these intruding energies and I literally wanted to puke...it was really unsettling but he realized at some point that I wasn't responding well and stopped.

They will also feel a void when you stop asking about them and will probably get back to you, not because they realized their mistakes and want to confess their undying love, but because they feel a void or in other words, a shift in the energy and their ego is wounded and seeks validation. Once they get it, 90% of the time they will switch back to their old ways and go cold on you again. This is often the case if your ex is a borderline, narcissisti c or plain mentally unstable yet emotionally sensitive.   

[Sparkle002]

My POI knows I read about him. He even asks me what comes up (heck he may as well pay for these readings lol) but absolutely nothing has affected the situation between us when I do get readings.
Even when I read on him prior to us recognizing our connection - he didn’t sense anything I’ve done regards to that lol

[WinterElf]

One of my favorite people on youtube, Agnes Vivarelli, said the one time she called a psychic, she was devastated by the news and didnt eat or sleep much for a year. Imagine that... a manifesting guru getting serious depression after one psychic reading... 

A reader in 2018 said I would never go back to Europe to meet someone and the more often i read about it the worse the outlook became and I didnt hear from them during that time.  I start doing a few manifesting techniques and like magic, they come back into my life. 

Over the years, the POI always pulled away after I got a reading and just a lot of unlucky things happened.  Maybe they could also feel the neediness too that I felt after a reading because I wanted the really positive stuff to be right and I put up with things that I should not have put up with, just to have this dream come true that the psychic told me about. 

It is kinda sad because for some with talent they could tell when i would hear back from someone  but as time went on, the predictions manifested less and less along with the time spent with my crush. 

  It also prolonged relationshi ps that I could have cut off without further thought but the psychics would say stuff like, he is confused and going through a hard time.... he really loves you ... blah blah. 

No matter the energetic effects, an entire situation cut off from reality is stuck in your head about how you think things are going... and i feel like that is the most dangerous part