I told her I think he’s talking to someone and asked her about their relationship and she was quite detailed - ‘he’s just keeping doors open; there really isn’t much going on’ , he’s just wanting attention and ego boost; he’s thinking about distancing her’.
I never asked her directly ‘is there a third party?’
Last time when I read with her she picked up something like ‘there are other pretty girls around’, ‘he like female attention and ego boost’