OK, I might as well have just thrown money down the drain and trying to have any decent meeting with her. I don’t know why I tried a third time despite the first two readings for being wrong on contact predictions. I guess I just read her feedback and thought well she must be right. But while she correctly picked up that there was a third-party there’s really no other evidence that she provided any specifics to verify anything. Not only that but she just turned her prediction from first telling me a couple weeks ago that I would hear from him in a couple days to now telling me that I won’t hear from him in response and that the third-party will last up to three years instead of her previously telling me within this year. So yeah, I can’t recommend her and I can’t believe that I went back to her again.
thanks for sharing….!!
but tbh I don’t understand the point of asking for contact predictions? isn’t it more useful to know the overall outcome ? even if they contact you it might mean anything. is it because there’s something people wanna say to poi when they contact? like I never understand the point of spending money to know when someone will contact you?
btw from experience it’s really hard to pin down timelines even with really good readers. and things could change based on behaviors.
By that logic then why get readings at all?
If it will happen then why worry?
Also when you or then every relationship in life ends then why waste time worrying when. Because every relationship ends
I just think if it were easy and that simple…
The thing about the anxious mind is that it cannot handle time well; sometimes telling our brain let’s check on this 10 min later, because it acts like a hook of certainty and can compartmentalize. Sooo if contact was 3 days (or something small) then the anxious mind could relax.
But CC cannot do grand overall outcome predictions
I’m also bummed I had prediction with her that she gave and said less than week and it didn’t happen; when I called again a week later asking about contact she said yeah it’s possible.
Womp
Womp
Ok thank you I see the reason now why people ask for contact predictions (was a genuine question
) …timings are so hard to pin down tho…. Ari has been right about timings for me twice before for very short term prediction (like within a month) but she told me herself I didn’t ask her specifically
No worries
A rant about the anxious mind and short time predictions. The way I understood it (via coach Lee bad gimmicky dating advice) Giving your anxious mind a task it can bite down in smaller tasks… (but of course it’s misguided via calling psychic)
If I can rest or believe (I’ve also tried this with manifesting) if “I will hear from so and so in 3 days… 2 weeks then my brain can relax, I can focus on being present and put this on the back burner. I can deal with this later versus “hey where is it”. And sooooo when the timing goes by that it’s been 3 days, it’s been 2 weeks “huh where is it?” The anxious mind is then forced to say “ok do you want to deal with now? Or better yet where’s another hook so I don’t have to feel this disappointment?” Where’s that dopamine short time hit.
That why I like short time predictions. There is a short time gratification the mind can grasp a quick dopamine hit it MIGHT get.
Totally random I started habit tracker journal… I’m in week 3 and while it’s helped me with workout goals, my bad habits are in full swing.
But the brain is wanting a dopamine hit it can grasp…
And yes most of my prediction when they came true there was no direct asking it was given, and no expectation.
But yes when the timing is further than one can handle or the disappointment is forced to face reality in the present then yes it’s frustrating
