Apologies
The word “report” in English has a different tone. I grew up speaking a different language but my brain now thinks in English so the tone sounds like “I “MUST” comeback and tell her”. And I took offense. Granted it’s subjective to culture and upbringing and I’m sure many did not see it that way; but are appreciate if you share.
Personally, I believe share when you are done, less eyes on the matter. When you speak of your desires may it be with confidence but the many lurkers have the power to give doubt and throw bad ju ju. Is it silly? Yes. But I find when I talk less about the things I want the more they come true. Again just personal opinion. 🧿 🪬