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Fidget1028:
Hi All,

I've been avoiding the forum for a few weeks to get me over the hump of not calling psychics anymore. I haven't gotten a reading from anyone for about a month and have been off of Keen since June. I just consolidated all my debt (most of which came from readings) and I'm finally somewhat financially stable. I plan on keeping it that way, so coming to the forum is something I need to limit so I don't get the temptations.

So, nothing anyone has predicted has come to pass from a relationship standpoint. No man, new or old has entered/re-entered. Some timelines haven't passed yet, but it doesn't look promising at all. I'm not putting myself out there because honestly, I need to work on me for a while. A new person would be a diversion, but it wouldn't be fair to them if I know I'm just dabbling with them to occupy my time. I'm really doing well though despite it all. As I said, my financial outlook is better, I've reconnected with some solid empowering friends. I'm setting goals for myself that don't include a partner at the moment. I'm busy, but busy in a productive, self-improving way. It occurred to me at some point that I need to pull my crap together before I can even offer myself to someone else. Let's face it, when you're a hot mess, no one is really going to want that. LOL

I meditate (which really reduces my stress), I care for myself, I set goals now, I work hard at my job (which I didn't for a while), and I sleep better. I won't preach to anyone here who isn't in the same place as me. I understand the addiction (and the denial of it) very well. I'm a grown ass woman who got sucked in by a lot of shills. It's pretty embarrassing. I mean there's a reason for why we don't share this addiction with others. I hope whatever path you take, whatever choice that you make, you all love yourselves first. I think most of us were brought to this place by some sort of trauma. Work on healing yourself and don't get sucked in like I did.

I'll check in on occasion. I do lurk to see how everyone is and I'll reply to PMs. I just can't allow this addiction any more space in my life. I'm pulling myself up before I hit rock bottom.  ;)

happyk:
Good job, Fidget. I'm doing the same. Good luck to you.

Zzib:
Same Boat! No one predicted anything for me, spent thousands, I’m financially stable now that I stopped with the readings.
But literally out of all the readings no one was right with the outcome and no one predicted contact

sawthelight:
Same boat!  I’m actually mortified that I spent so much money and believed these psychics..they were wrong on pretty much everything

Jeninmd2:
Good for you, Fidget - I'm really happy that you are feeling like you are making progress!  Wishing you lots of peace and happiness, whichever path you take in life ❤️

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