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Love2lovenj:
Glad to hear you are in a good place Fidget.  So sad that so many of have and are going thru the same thing.  Its financial and emotionally draining and in the end leaves you with nothing to show except an expensive bill.   So yes we need to love ourselves first before we can share and get the love we need and deserve. Hugs ❤

SomethingBetter:
Fidget, you were doing exactly what I thought you were! That’s going to be my next step as well, separating from this board.

But I’m glad you as well as lovefash, made similar posts. I’m trying to declutter my brain from all this mess.

My timelines haven’t even passed yet, officially, but I am already preparing myself for the letdown. I wish that weren’t the case, but I have been on the receiving end and seen it too many times not to be prepared. Even the good ones have really let me down in the past.

No one even predicted I’d have a boyfriend! Could we be two ships passing in the night? Absolutely. Matilda saw a good surprise. Maybe it’s a coincidence. Cookie saw me letting go and dating. Reasonable. Yona saw me having options around me. Yeah that seems reasonable too.

But no definitive prediction. The bf and I are moving fast, I’ll admit that, but it’s we get along so well.

I find everything you’re doing, from no readings to meditation to better sleep amazing. It’s the same thing I should be doing and hopefully I start soon.

I am very happy for you.

Chelle9054:
❤️ this! Good work focusing on you! I’m even more empowered by your actions as I’m attempting the same road by focusing on me as well. You. Go. Girl!

Fidget1028:
Just an update on my status...

So I consolidated by debt with a loan and I'm back to a better financial place. I've avoided readings (YAY!!) since the first week of August and that was just one reading, not a binge. :)  Today I "jumped the shark" and went to Home Depot and applied for a project loan. I'm going to have my crappy bathroom completely remodeled. I'm waiting for the contractor to call so I can get an estimate for the loan. It's no longer a luxury to do this, but it's getting to be a necessity as my bathroom is beginning to fall apart. I can't believe in my wildest dreams that I just may be able to do this. I know it sounds crazy, but I'm so damn excited!!

So, just for giggles, here's who actually predicted that this would happen. Note, that at the time of the predictions, I in no way thought it could happen...either financially or even that I had the motivation to even look into it. I'm feeling like a new person since I stopped all the readings:

Kisha: said I would be working on my home projects, basically out of necessity. Her timeline was for March, which was kind of true, I did fix some minor stuff in March, but it's really ramping up now that I got my finances in order.

Yona: She really hit the nail on the head although I didn't understand it when she said it in July of this year (oh Yona!). She said I would be bouncing around some creative ideas that weren't stupid or daydreams. I am not financially ready "yet", but I will be.

Rusty: Although most of the read was of a romantic nature, she said a card flew out (Knight of Wands) which is her go to card for a house move or for "doing your house up". I told her that there is no way I'm moving and that I don't have the money for home improvements. She said "well maybe just let me know, but it looks like house stuff coming up". Well lo and behold...

Anyway, that's my current status. :) I'm doing my "don't need no POI" happy dance of glee at the current moment. LOL

Sparkle002:

--- Quote from: Fidget1028 on September 07, 2019, 10:27:32 AM ---Just an update on my status...

So I consolidated by debt with a loan and I'm back to a better financial place. I've avoided readings (YAY!!) since the first week of August and that was just one reading, not a binge. :)  Today I "jumped the shark" and went to Home Depot and applied for a project loan. I'm going to have my crappy bathroom completely remodeled. I'm waiting for the contractor to call so I can get an estimate for the loan. It's no longer a luxury to do this, but it's getting to be a necessity as my bathroom is beginning to fall apart. I can't believe in my wildest dreams that I just may be able to do this. I know it sounds crazy, but I'm so damn excited!!

So, just for giggles, here's who actually predicted that this would happen. Note, that at the time of the predictions, I in no way thought it could happen...either financially or even that I had the motivation to even look into it. I'm feeling like a new person since I stopped all the readings:

Kisha: said I would be working on my home projects, basically out of necessity. Her timeline was for March, which was kind of true, I did fix some minor stuff in March, but it's really ramping up now that I got my finances in order.

Yona: She really hit the nail on the head although I didn't understand it when she said it in July of this year (oh Yona!). She said I would be bouncing around some creative ideas that weren't stupid or daydreams. I am not financially ready "yet", but I will be.

Rusty: Although most of the read was of a romantic nature, she said a card flew out (Knight of Wands) which is her go to card for a house move or for "doing your house up". I told her that there is no way I'm moving and that I don't have the money for home improvements. She said "well maybe just let me know, but it looks like house stuff coming up". Well lo and behold...

Anyway, that's my current status. :) I'm doing my "don't need no POI" happy dance of glee at the current moment. LOL

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I love it! This is pretty cool Fidget!

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