Who is the most brutally honest, no sugarcoat reader that has been right?

[jackY]

YW!

The only one I mention in the forum on Keen is Lotus Blossom. She's very open and friendly, but never sugarcoats. She'll tell you straight up if something isn't going to work out. In the way back, the majority of advisors told me that I was going to marry this guy I was super stuck on. She was the only one that said nope. He's not your guy. I was shocked and mad at her, but she was right. He actually ended up moving across the country for work with zero considerati on for me. Yikes!

Judging by the lack of responses, I guess there aren't a lot of brutally honest  , no sugarcoat readers on Keen.

Thank you Jackie!

[gemmaasks]

I personally wouldn't go for readers that comes off as "most brutally honest, no sugarcoat readers " because they can give you bad news in the name of being "honest." Ive had many readers who gave me bad news (hes not ready to commit, there's a 3rd party, etc) and they weren't correct at all. On top of that, they would preach and say "im just being honest with you." it's like your gfs giving you advice. I don't need to pay for this. I can get this pep talk for FREE.

My go-to reader is CP's Lillian.  She has specificall y pinpointed name initials for me. She has also told me my poi hung out with someone when we weren't talking. She told me what she saw - the good, the bad, and the ugly. I know this reader works for me so I stick with her.

[Late bloomer]

I personally wouldn't go for readers that comes off as "most brutally honest, no sugarcoat readers " because they can give you bad news in the name of being "honest." Ive had many readers who gave me bad news (hes not ready to commit, there's a 3rd party, etc) and they weren't correct at all. On top of that, they would preach and say "im just being honest with you." it's like your gfs giving you advice. I don't need to pay for this. I can get this pep talk for FREE.

My go-to reader is CP's Lillian.  She has specificall y pinpointed name initials for me. She has also told me my poi hung out with someone when we weren't talking. She told me what she saw - the good, the bad, and the ugly. I know this reader works for me so I stick with her.

True both can be wrong, but I would much rather a brutal no sugar coat reader over a fairytale reader, which most by far are.  I find that the fairytale readers tell you what you want to hear, maybe because they are afraid you will leave them a poor review if they make you anxious.  I would rather be prepared to get hurt than forever be hanging on to  the hope that something that is gone or never was will in time be mine. 

[Mina]

I think this post has huge fallacy

I wish you guys would understand “brutally honest” doesn’t mean accurate either.

Both fairytale and brutally honest can still be wrong

[mliva34]

I think it's a trauma response based on past experiences . And we utilize such forums like this to help us navigate through those negative thoughts by actively looking for positive reassurance and reading people's positive experiences . This helps calm subconsciou s fear and anxiety.