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Please Be Tactful With Others
« on: May 28, 2019, 01:09:33 AM »
Hi Everyone, first of all thank you for using this forum because without you all, this site would not be anything at all. You guys all make it happen. That said, we certainly want to continue the forum and provide this place where we can meet and share our experiences, but we do have to remember that it's important to be tactful when we write about other people.

A reader is really a one-man-show. Reading is a sensitive business. This does not mean we want to write fake, positive reviews to pump them all up. No, not at all, but if you have a critique, then remember to use tact instead of just attacking the readers. Please refrain from using vulgar language or attacking other users or readers on the forum. If you want a refund for a reading, just ask for one. Most websites will give you a refund for a reading you did not enjoy. Just don't abuse the policy.

Readers are not Gods; they are just people. Are they really psychic? Has this forum proven anything about the accuracy of reading? I personally think there is magic in the universe and predictions really are possible, but the accuracy isn't much better than conjecturing. Is anyone aware of scientific studies on the topic? If we selected 100 psychics and compared them to psychologist and asked them to make predictions on a number of relationships, I bet the results would be very similar. That's just my opinion. If there has been a study done, please post it. It would be interesting to know the results.

Anyway, some people come to this forum and attack others. There are also many psychics who create multiple accounts, which also violates the Terms. Nobody is perfect, but each person that uses this forum can be the best person they can be. That's all we ask.

Finally, these readers make constant threats to take legal action because of the language people use on this forum. The Terms specifically state we do not allow profanity or defamation, etc. Please read the Terms again if you have any questions.

You can find the Terms here:
http://www.thepsychicreviews.com/forum/index.php/topic,817.0.html

We want to create a better world, not a worse one. There would not be any legal threats if people would just be courteous when they share their experiences.

Thank you all for reading this message.

Thanks again,
Admin





« Last Edit: May 28, 2019, 01:12:15 AM by admin »

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Re: Please Be Tactful With Others
« Reply #1 on: May 28, 2019, 02:33:28 PM »
I am very curious about your own psychic experiences admin! If I remember from the older posts you used to read with them and posted your reviews, but it seems like you no longer read with or believe in psychics anymore?

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Re: Please Be Tactful With Others
« Reply #2 on: May 28, 2019, 08:29:05 PM »

If we selected 100 psychics and compared them to psychologist and asked them to make predictions on a number of relationships, I bet the results would be very similar.

I agree and why I hate to give any info at all about my circumstances during a reading. I’m always left wondering how much was based on psychic talent vs. counseling / psychological advice. But I have rarely come across anyone who gives any specific details without my saying something.

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Re: Please Be Tactful With Others
« Reply #3 on: May 19, 2020, 01:55:40 PM »
Thanks for sharing this, I admit I have been guilty of creating drama and accusing a reader in the past for which I feel bad now because I recognize I was blaming the reading for my inability to make peace with what I had in front of me.

Are you talking about Anne? It's fortunate you are admitting your own mistake, I just hope that blue-whatever also comes to her senses and stop harassing Anne and other readers because she was also unable to make peace with herself.

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Re: Please Be Tactful With Others
« Reply #4 on: May 23, 2020, 07:25:50 AM »
thank you so much admin!! it's a lot of efforts and works to create & maintain a forum; much appreciated your effort.

i joined this forum to share and read other people's sharing too. it amused me to find some people just wanted to FORCE others to accept their judgement. because A reader didnt work for them, they forced you to agree that either A is a scam or A doesnt work for every single one.

i dont accuse readers scam easy; just few readings you really couldnt tell. you can say she is not the one for you coz you guys didnt connect well so the reading was not accurate but it maybe just the issues between you and her; it doesnt necessarily apply to everyone.

everyone has their own experience, everyone measure accuracy in different way; it's very important to respect each other's sharing and then just move on. 

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Re: Please Be Tactful With Others
« Reply #5 on: May 23, 2020, 08:49:09 PM »
I have sat quiet the last few days but I am seeing other members dragging each other through the mud and it is honestly extremely discouraging to read and watch. "Being tactful" flew right out the window as of late. You can disagree and move along just fine with out calling someone everything under the sun. If you think someone is harassing or spamming, report it and move along. Entertaining their behavior it brings you right to their level. This is a PUBLIC review forum and the internet is forever but I think people tend to forget that here.

The internet is forever and I can say what I want because 1. I don’t believe in sugar coating 2. This forum doesn’t effect my real life and it never will. I agree with some of your points but at what point does it become abuse of the forum??? This is not about diva anymore this about the many people who come here every other month and flood this forum with their mental imbalance. Harassing inboxes of members here and stalking them over the internet. This is ridiculous and I’m not one those girls who is “little miss church on Sunday, too good to comment on what needs to be said because I’m a peace maker”.. I’m not that girl .... ignoring is cool but when it comes to harassment and calling the cops ( I know law enforcement a little too well by the way) and internet stalking, I’m going to speak up ... I’m more of the Malcolm X type of woman ... Sometimes in order to be understood you have to have a different approach, that peaceful notion was tried already. I said wat I said I don’t plan to say nothing more. Stalking and trying to intentionally mess up the livelihoods of members because you’re mad at a reading is ridiculous and different . This is a different type of stupid. I will not gracefully condone none of that behavior

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Re: Please Be Tactful With Others
« Reply #6 on: May 23, 2020, 09:06:32 PM »
I have sat quiet the last few days but I am seeing other members dragging each other through the mud and it is honestly extremely discouraging to read and watch. "Being tactful" flew right out the window as of late. You can disagree and move along just fine with out calling someone everything under the sun. If you think someone is harassing or spamming, report it and move along. Entertaining their behavior it brings you right to their level. This is a PUBLIC review forum and the internet is forever but I think people tend to forget that here.

The internet is forever and I can say what I want because 1. I don’t believe in sugar coating 2. This forum doesn’t effect my real life and it never will. I agree with some of your points but at what point does it become abuse of the forum??? This is not about diva anymore this about the many people who come here every other month and flood this forum with their mental imbalance. Harassing inboxes of members here and stalking them over the internet. This is ridiculous and I’m not one those girls who is “little miss church on Sunday, too good to comment on what needs to be said because I’m a peace maker”.. I’m not that girl .... ignoring is cool but when it comes to harassment and calling the cops ( I know law enforcement a little too well by the way) and internet stalking, I’m going to speak up ... I’m more of the Malcolm X type of woman ... Sometimes in order to be understood you have to have a different approach, that peaceful notion was tried already. I said wat I said I don’t plan to say nothing more. Stalking and trying to intentionally mess up the livelihoods of members because you’re mad at a reading is ridiculous and different . This is a different type of stupid. I will not gracefully condone none of that behavior

PERIOD.

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Re: Please Be Tactful With Others
« Reply #7 on: May 23, 2020, 09:32:11 PM »
I have sat quiet the last few days but I am seeing other members dragging each other through the mud and it is honestly extremely discouraging to read and watch. "Being tactful" flew right out the window as of late. You can disagree and move along just fine with out calling someone everything under the sun. If you think someone is harassing or spamming, report it and move along. Entertaining their behavior it brings you right to their level. This is a PUBLIC review forum and the internet is forever but I think people tend to forget that here.

The internet is forever and I can say what I want because 1. I don’t believe in sugar coating 2. This forum doesn’t effect my real life and it never will. I agree with some of your points but at what point does it become abuse of the forum??? This is not about diva anymore this about the many people who come here every other month and flood this forum with their mental imbalance. Harassing inboxes of members here and stalking them over the internet. This is ridiculous and I’m not one those girls who is “little miss church on Sunday, too good to comment on what needs to be said because I’m a peace maker”.. I’m not that girl .... ignoring is cool but when it comes to harassment and calling the cops ( I know law enforcement a little too well by the way) and internet stalking, I’m going to speak up ... I’m more of the Malcolm X type of woman ... Sometimes in order to be understood you have to have a different approach, that peaceful notion was tried already. I said wat I said I don’t plan to say nothing more. Stalking and trying to intentionally mess up the livelihoods of members because you’re mad at a reading is ridiculous and different . This is a different type of stupid. I will not gracefully condone none of that behavior

I understood where you were coming from til the middle when you mentioned little miss Sunday school or something... I don't really know how to take if it was either a direct comment about me or not but either way I can only speak from what I can see. DM's are DM's that not everyone can see. It appears that this site probably A LOT more help in the admin department at the end of the day to moderate some of the issues on here with spamming and potentially harassing situations. I think if they had the resource to moderate better then issue like this would be mitigated quicker.


I clearly said “I “ that means I’m referring to SELF. I don’t know u personally so how could I be referring to you ? 🤔 relax some. That statement means I’m not to good to check someone if need be and my nose is not stuck in the air. Maybe admin is sick or death in the family who knows but yes there needs more moderation on this site . The trolls are lasting too long . The multiple accounts shouldn’t be permissible among other things. How is it the admin is gone but ppl here have numerous accounts back to back ... weird

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Re: Please Be Tactful With Others
« Reply #8 on: July 25, 2020, 02:59:01 PM »
I have sat quiet the last few days but I am seeing other members dragging each other through the mud and it is honestly extremely discouraging to read and watch. "Being tactful" flew right out the window as of late. You can disagree and move along just fine with out calling someone everything under the sun. If you think someone is harassing or spamming, report it and move along. Entertaining their behavior it brings you right to their level. This is a PUBLIC review forum and the internet is forever but I think people tend to forget that here.

The internet is forever and I can say what I want because 1. I don’t believe in sugar coating 2. This forum doesn’t effect my real life and it never will. I agree with some of your points but at what point does it become abuse of the forum??? This is not about diva anymore this about the many people who come here every other month and flood this forum with their mental imbalance. Harassing inboxes of members here and stalking them over the internet. This is ridiculous and I’m not one those girls who is “little miss church on Sunday, too good to comment on what needs to be said because I’m a peace maker”.. I’m not that girl .... ignoring is cool but when it comes to harassment and calling the cops ( I know law enforcement a little too well by the way) and internet stalking, I’m going to speak up ... I’m more of the Malcolm X type of woman ... Sometimes in order to be understood you have to have a different approach, that peaceful notion was tried already. I said wat I said I don’t plan to say nothing more. Stalking and trying to intentionally mess up the livelihoods of members because you’re mad at a reading is ridiculous and different . This is a different type of stupid. I will not gracefully condone none of that behavior

I understood where you were coming from til the middle when you mentioned little miss Sunday school or something... I don't really know how to take if it was either a direct comment about me or not but either way I can only speak from what I can see. DM's are DM's that not everyone can see. It appears that this site probably A LOT more help in the admin department at the end of the day to moderate some of the issues on here with spamming and potentially harassing situations. I think if they had the resource to moderate better then issue like this would be mitigated quicker.


I clearly said “I “ that means I’m referring to SELF. I don’t know u personally so how could I be referring to you ? 🤔 relax some. That statement means I’m not to good to check someone if need be and my nose is not stuck in the air. Maybe admin is sick or death in the family who knows but yes there needs more moderation on this site . The trolls are lasting too long . The multiple accounts shouldn’t be permissible among other things. How is it the admin is gone but ppl here have numerous accounts back to back ... weird
Totally agree. This forum for me has been a great place of sharing and learning! But sometimes people get crazy.. still not sure what troll is? No longer so naive..

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Re: Please Be Tactful With Others
« Reply #9 on: June 30, 2024, 01:29:52 PM »
This thread, some of your old members need to read, people attacked be for giving a review, even to the point of accusing me in being the reader self promoting. It's awful that people do this but after reading this response I see howany people here don't follow this advice.

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Re: Please Be Tactful With Others
« Reply #10 on: October 10, 2024, 06:12:00 AM »
Hi is there a way to block members on here?