Mattie said he would reach out in 3 weeks or 3 months on April 22nd and propose getting back together by June? July 22nd would make 3 months. The vague 3 followed by specific months that don’t match up is questionabl e.
To be honest, it was about 4:30am when she called, so the phone ringing woke me up so I was probably half asleep when she called me. It is entirely possible that my notes are missing some pieces of information
. If I remember correctly, she did say, "Your ex is not in a good place right now, she is feigning happiness. On the inside, she is extremely sad and depressed..
. she has recently started to genuinely regret leaving you. She will come back - not necessarily to immediately rekindle the relationshi
p as her tail will be between her legs, in a way, but over time you (me specificall
y) will have the choice of choosing her. She will be there if you want her." Moreover, Mattie stated in different statements that 1. My ex would make contact within 3 weeks or 3 months. 2. My ex would be the one to propose us getting back together and she would have to convince me to give the relationshi
p another chance. 3. There is a celebration coming up, and the timing of the celebration is significant - as I stated earlier, I graduated with my Masters yesterday and my ex's birthday is next month. EDIT: I just found out five minutes ago that my ex's sister got engaged tonight. My ex's mother told me while congratulat
ing me on my Masters through facebook. While I may not necessarily remember how each of these points were connected, I do remember that Mattie said them.
I also specificall
y remember Mattie stating that "August-September would come with me considering other work, and several new opportuniti
es. [My ex] will be there, and things will be easier." To me, this insinuates that my ex and I, by this point, are either in a formal relationshi
p or are at least vocally considering it. Now, if I am not mistaken, I also believe it was Mattie who stated that either my ex, or myself, would be moving some time this summer/fall. I bought my house last fall, so I doubt it would be me - and my ex's room-mate is practically engaged so I would imagine the one to move would be my ex. However, Mattie did insinuate that the move would involve both us... truthfully, if marriage were on the line, I would move back to her city with relatively little hesitation.
Sigh... I wish I could have recorded the phone call. It's been rather frustrating trying to remember little details that I know I did not jot down.