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Miller1336:
Oh I feel ya! I’m in that spot too. Now I’m finding stuff to do around the house. I’m glad I’m working late tonight!!!

For me I’m just trying to breathe. I feel like an addict going into withdrawals cept this time I’m going to meditate and keep busy and just thank my lucky stars that I am alive and healthy.

During this whole process I am learning about my own self-worth. Why do I keep going down the path where there’s no reward. I want the damn cheese and not the mouse trap if you know what I mean. It’s time to try some new and it’s called focusing on myself which is very strange for me because I’ve never done that.

Sending you some positive vibes. Push through. Get that damn cheese!!!

Jili1945:
@Fidget: Thanks for sharing your story. I'm in the same situation and totally understand you. I admit that it's a really hard place and waiting is painful. Frequent readings add confusions. Time frames come one after another and nothing happens. I heartily understand you and I'm experiencing the same exact. Stay strong and I am sure it will crack one day ... hopefully very soon.

KotaSwan:
Sorry Fidget that you are feeling this way. I know that pain and have been feeling the same. One thing that did help is knowing what is meant for me will happen...if you are religious you can say God will give it to me no matter what and if you are not I know the universe will fulfill my desires at the right time when I am ready. I have been trying to not read right now and just see how things pan out from the past readings and stay hopeful about the future. I am trying to keep myself busy with tv, long work hours and friends. It does help sometimes....sending you love and hugs <3

Miss Philosopher:
I totally feel your pain and struggle with this. Something I began doing in the beginning of December that worked for me was that I just got completely frustrated and just had a real desire to be done with this whole situation as it's gone on for so long. I then started telling myself "It's done. It's over. I don't even care anymore. This is ridiculous. I don't have time for these games. I'm letting go of all hopes and expectations now. I'm tired of feeling this way. I want to let go of the situation now." I seriously repeated this to myself over and over each time I'd cry, or felt myself becoming angry about it all, or started thinking about him and the situation. It started to work for me a few days later. The hopes began to fade at a rapid pace. The emotional attachments did as well. It really does work but I think one has to get to that place where they are just so sick and tired of feeling the way they do and just waiting and waiting while the other person is just living their life NOT waiting for us.

It's like after I started doing that, a few weeks later this (expletive) begins communicating a lot more often, basically daily, asking me all kinds of questions like if I'm seeing someone etc. Then just last week asks me if we can mend things. And now, it's back to hardly any communication at all. Now I'M REALLY REALLY sick and tired of it and I will begin telling myself the same things as I did before and add in there "HE IS NOT EVER GOING TO CHANGE! NEVER!"..........and the next time the prick comes around filling me up with more empty words I won't even CONSIDER the words.

So yeah, repeating something to yourself sort of like trains your emotions and subconscious mind and honestly, it feels so freeing. If our predictions are to come to pass, they will either way, but at least you can be free from the emotional attachments to the situation that tend to slowly eat us up inside over time. Each time I feel like I need to get a reading or an update........I just ask myself "Is this dude REALLY worth all that? Not so much. I could be using this money on myself or saving it instead of squandering it on him." Essentially, that's what we are doing. We are spending money on these POIs and exes. Might as well just give them the money directly lol. It would be the same exact thing. I understand getting updates every 3 or 6 months, but I'm talkin about the binges and weekly and even monthly updates. We could be using that on ourselves instead of spending it on them. They don't appreciate it anyway LOL. They'd never appreciate the fact that we stressed so much over them that we called psychics. They'd just think we were lunatics. LOL.

ZZ2112:
Attachment is the root of suffering - Buddha

I'm in the same place right now. I keep telling myself to wait out the predictions but every other day I find myself scrolling through the available psychics then talking myself out of another reading
Even if I try to keep myself busy, there's still a constant battle in my head of "What ifs". Big hugs to everyone, let's all stay strong and rant here instead of succumbing to another reading ❤

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