And just to clarify no the emotional issues were not cliche lines he loves but is scared or the emotions are too strong lol. Verifiable things he has said to me like he ones said out right you need someone to take care of you I'm not what you want to which I said excuse me I don't need anyone to take care of me. He looked at me funny and said really. Umm hello my own house three cars had all that before him I don't need a man to take care of me. 💪
I liked her too and didn’t feel she was cliche either at all. She described my POI as “moody” and basically more pessimistic than me - that I was much more upbeat and communicati
ve and outgoing (very true). She described him very well... and then she said how we are really opposite of one another. She said “but this is good .. because you couldn’t be with someone like you. You would go crazy if you were dating someone like yourself.” To which I had to laugh so hard because she was so right. She didn’t tell me some fairy tale either. When I told her there were some things I had seen someone post about him that were pretty negative she said yes, they are true. And that he felt really guilty about a lot of things. She didn’t say we would run off and get married or anything but she said we would definitely reconnect and he just needed more time to get things settled. That we would re-evaluate things and things would be better. She told me not to worry and I actually believed her. She also told me not to wait around. And I also believe that! So still keeping my eyes open! But it took me 2 years to even date him after I got divorced so ... idk. Just may be a while. I need to make time to meet new people but it’s hard with how busy I am.
Anyway I really did like her and didn’t think she was generic at all or anything. It would be nice if she ends up being right. Won’t know for a few months.