Exactly that's why I said if I meet his daughter he's serious like marriage serious. She already has enough shit show from her mom and her many men in and out which is why he wants custody. The kids are always before the man or woman or you aren't doing it right.
Exactly. It wasn't directed at you, just situations with kids. I learned it the hard way, but I thought for sure that we were committed. It will be hard to take that leap of faith again.
And what I’m trying to say, and I’m sorry if it comes off unkind, but you may never meet his family (kids). Cookie just says that. All the time. To everyone. She peddled that line in 2011 and she peddles it now.
She makes these vague generalizat
ions feeling they could happen. I don’t think she’s malicious. But a friend of mine and I who read with her a decade ago were just talking this week about how she strings people along by getting just enough.
I would just worry about it if and when that happens.