Thanks. I guess I was confused because she saw us getting back together but it will be when I'm not idle. I am always so busy and already dating and communicating with other people so I guess I just wasn't sure. so that's why I asked her if it meant that I will be over him and moved on when he returns and she said no, that's not at all what she meant. She seemed to get more annoyed the more I asked so I just kept quiet at that point. I guess I just need to continue to stay busy! LOL! Thanks for all the help, its always nice to get different perspectives.