Nobody predicted that I got cheated on

[star1]

The problem with the LOA community is that people are just heartless. Its like someone gets cancer, and then they ask "gasp! what did you do to create that?" So much victim blaming, shaming and selfishness, for a supposedly very "spiritual" concept.

Yep. I don't believe in LOA at all, what is meant for someone will come to them. You get what you are supposed to and don't get what you aren't supposed to get. Things happen in our life for a reason, there's no "if I stand infront of a mirror and say how beautiful I am, my ex will come back" like some readers have told me.. I do not believe in that at all. I think LOA is an excuse for readers to go "you thought too much into this or didn't do that".

[whskers]

@letitbe.. wow that’s so messed up. I’m very very sorry. Stay strong. You’re not the problem. Your boyfriend is.

[psychic girls]

LOA is a bunch of BS there are thousand of kids starving in Africa does the LOA help them when they are starving and wanted food?

[star1]

LOA is a bunch of BS there are thousand of kids starving in Africa does the LOA help them when they are starving and wanted food?

Lol.

[sawthelight]

Very well said. OP so sorry you are going through this.

[bstalling]

Psychics are a waste of time if you want to take anything they say seriously. We have Keen reader Satu here shirking responsibil ity that they were all wrong about what happened. Its readers like her that show you the profession isnt legitimate even though they will screech about ancient concepts that they dont understand. Telling a reader that they were wrong is "blaming them". SMH

Being a cheat is a CHARACTER issue, not a LOA issue.

[icloud9]

And this, folks, is a classic case of the law of attraction at work.

You have someone who has been in a long-term relationshi p and calling MANY psychics on Keen to get reassurance her relationshi p was fine. Over 20 psychics? If that doesn't scream insecurity and dysfunction, I don't know what does.

And then, surprise! Her boyfriend (who probably couldn't handle dealing with her constant distrust of him, her anxiety, and her constant need for him to prove he loved her) went out and did the thing she always feared he would.

And who gets blamed? The psychics.

For his sake, let's hope the new woman is much more chill and he can actually enjoy life with her.

I am a huge believer in LOA however the way you described it is just incorrect. You also sound to be lacking empathy big time.

Simply put, we only have full control of OUR lives and OUR thoughts. Just because WE think positive things, we can't always evade from being affected by what OTHER people do. Because THEY are their OWN people. IT would be a different story if we were thinking positive thoughts AND Attracted cheaters (This goes beyond the LOA, we must absolutely change the vibrations of our subconsciou sness to truly attract who we are/ want), but if during the long term relationshi p we got cheated on, using LOA as your argument is just absolutely invalid.

[icloud9]

Psychics are a waste of time if you want to take anything they say seriously. We have Keen reader Satu here shirking responsibil ity that they were all wrong about what happened. Its readers like her that show you the profession isnt legitimate even though they will screech about ancient concepts that they dont understand. Telling a reader that they were wrong is "blaming them". SMH

Being a cheat is a CHARACTER issue, not a LOA issue.

Satu is a keen reader? who is he?

[bstalling]

And this, folks, is a classic case of the law of attraction at work.

You have someone who has been in a long-term relationshi p and calling MANY psychics on Keen to get reassurance her relationshi p was fine. Over 20 psychics? If that doesn't scream insecurity and dysfunction, I don't know what does.

And then, surprise! Her boyfriend (who probably couldn't handle dealing with her constant distrust of him, her anxiety, and her constant need for him to prove he loved her) went out and did the thing she always feared he would.

And who gets blamed? The psychics.

For his sake, let's hope the new woman is much more chill and he can actually enjoy life with her.

I am a huge believer in LOA however the way you described it is just incorrect. You also sound to be lacking empathy big time.

Simply put, we only have full control of OUR lives and OUR thoughts. Just because WE think positive things, we can't always evade from being affected by what OTHER people do. Because THEY are their OWN people. IT would be a different story if we were thinking positive thoughts AND Attracted cheaters (This goes beyond the LOA, we must absolutely change the vibrations of our subconsciou sness to truly attract who we are/ want), but if during the long term relationshi p we got cheated on, using LOA as your argument is just absolutely invalid.

Dont try to reason with her. Shes a Keen reader and is probably best buds with msdream228. Shes spouting this BS to make her profession look way better than it really is. She will twist and bend any concept to make her and her crew feel better about what failures they are in their line of work.

ETA: Dosent matter what reader she is. Check her posting history and the ignorant attitude she has for readers that have failed.

[jas]

Here is my story (lived every bit of it) between LOA and "you get what you are supposed to get":

I lived with the CEO of a Billion Dollar a year corporation for ten years.  Two homes, primary residence, and vacation home, when I went into the garage I would have to decide if I wanted to drive the big Mercedes, the little Mercedes, the Porsche Carrera, or the fully decked out Crew Cab Diesel Truck (I had horses so needed it for hauling) or Lexus SUV, members of "The Club", maids, cocktail parties.... you get the picture.  I started daydreaming about a different life.  A good ol' country boy.  For 9 months I couldn't stop thinking about a different life.  I finally walked out and moved back to the 100 acre farm I grew up on.  Within four weeks he showed up.  19" Biceps, 36" waist and ruggedly handsome as all get out.  CLASSIC EXAMPLE OF LOA.

A year and a half later my life fell apart.  I called Keen for the first time in July of that year.  A psychic told me that in September a tall, dark eyed man with broad shoulders was going to show up and get me out of there.  I thought "yeah, right!! tall, dark and handsome is going swoop me off my feet.  I blocked her and gave her one star for the fairytale.  In September he showed up and got me out of there.  No manifestati on on my part.  CLASSIC EXAMPLE OF "YOU GET WHAT YOU ARE MEANT TO GET".

That was ten years ago and I still don't know what to believe.

[icloud9]

Hi everyone. I’ve been a keen fanatic for about a year. I’ve read with just about every advisor worth reading with. I’ve had a boyfriend for 2 years and it’s been very up and down. I’ve read with Yona, Aries, zidalia, Queen of Cups and atleast 20 others. Today I found out my boyfriend has been cheating on me FOR MONTHS! I’ve asked every single advisor if I have any reason to be worried about infidelity, they all told me no! He’s a good guy, loves me, has a hard time showing love, but no cheating. I am not only devastated that my boyfriend broke my heart, but also that not one psychic saw this! Nobody. That’s my story, thanks for reading.

I'm quite surprised at this list tho because those readers are-from what I heard- very well known for being accurate. Good example of how not every reader works the same for everyone.
From my experience Lady P and Shaman Kira are great at picking up third parties. I started reading with them only this year, and they are two of my favorites and go-to's. These are the only people who brought up my current POI's ex who was/is "STILL" around trying to cause drama, WITHOUT me saying a word. Kira also picked up on my EX (he is NOT in my life but he IS technically still around because he is making himself VERY present on purpose, to sabotage my current relationshi p lol) who is causing an interferenc e into my current situation. Sincerity also said there is someone from the "past" trying to cause a scene, but that is only when i had to specificall y ask..

[ladya]

Here is my story (lived every bit of it) between LOA and "you get what you are supposed to get":

I lived with the CEO of a Billion Dollar a year corporation for ten years.  Two homes, primary residence, and vacation home, when I went into the garage I would have to decide if I wanted to drive the big Mercedes, the little Mercedes, the Porsche Carrera, or the fully decked out Crew Cab Diesel Truck (I had horses so needed it for hauling) or Lexus SUV, members of "The Club", maids, cocktail parties.... you get the picture.  I started daydreaming about a different life.  A good ol' country boy.  For 9 months I couldn't stop thinking about a different life.  I finally walked out and moved back to the 100 acre farm I grew up on.  Within four weeks he showed up.  19" Biceps, 36" waist and ruggedly handsome as all get out.  CLASSIC EXAMPLE OF LOA.

A year and a half later my life fell apart.  I called Keen for the first time in July of that year.  A psychic told me that in September a tall, dark eyed man with broad shoulders was going to show up and get me out of there.  I thought "yeah, right!! tall, dark and handsome is going swoop me off my feet.  I blocked her and gave her one star for the fairytale.  In September he showed up and got me out of there.  No manifestati on on my part.  CLASSIC EXAMPLE OF "YOU GET WHAT YOU ARE MEANT TO GET".

That was ten years ago and I still don't know what to believe.

i believe life is a mix of both. you've lived an interesting life lol. how did you get a billionaire? did you manifest it or did it just happen? life of the elite is like a whole different world and can be very empty for people who don't really care for all of it. 

[psychic girls]

Psychics are a waste of time if you want to take anything they say seriously. We have Keen reader Satu here shirking responsibil ity that they were all wrong about what happened. Its readers like her that show you the profession isnt legitimate even though they will screech about ancient concepts that they dont understand. Telling a reader that they were wrong is "blaming them". SMH

Being a cheat is a CHARACTER issue, not a LOA issue.

Being a psychics you have to be heartless or you won't last very long.

[icloud9]

Psychics are a waste of time if you want to take anything they say seriously. We have Keen reader Satu here shirking responsibil ity that they were all wrong about what happened. Its readers like her that show you the profession isnt legitimate even though they will screech about ancient concepts that they dont understand. Telling a reader that they were wrong is "blaming them". SMH

Being a cheat is a CHARACTER issue, not a LOA issue.

Being a psychics you have to be heartless or you won't last very long.

Some of them are like that, but the ones who are really sweet and caring last a long time too. They just never face up to what they are doing because they are delusional.

I agree. I've met real sweet, ethical, genuine ones who are humble and who truly want to HELP you. It's those ones who take their psychic abilities as GIFTS, and not as TOOLS to take advantage of people- that I absolutely have so much respect for. Psychic abilities ARE real. But what makes it fraudulent is the PEOPLE's intentions. We gotta understand the foundation of being a psychic is all different for everyone, and THEIR OWN perception of it. Some psychics LEARN these gifts -i.e: tarot, while others are BORN with it. (sometimes both) Actually I wouldn't even call TAROT readers psychics... they just know how to use divination tools, able to give READINGS, but they themselves are not quite psychic (clairvoyant etc).  Not to say that those tools are DEAD ON sometimes, if the "guides" they're working with are powerful.

I like to read people's website,page, or profile to really get the FEELING of who they are as a person. The thing is, being a "psychic" isn't something that people go to school for, so their true character is usually shown through their style of reading. When I read their profile, usually I can tell  by the language they use and their attitude about their work what kind of person they are. I don't like egoistical psychics who think (or least that's how it's perceived) they're better than you and they're never wrong - example: dollwitch lol. I also don't like those who claim they can make something "happen" by their prayers or candle work.

I personally like NATURALLY gifted ones who are SPIRITUAL. THOSE, I find, are the best ones.
But also I feel it is because I myself am spiritual, so I guess, in this case, LOA? lol it works for me.

[LetItBe123]

Thanks everyone, well mostly everyone lol my intent wasn’t to say that i think all the keen advisors are frauds. And when I said I spoke to over 20 that might have been an overshot. I tried out a few, but then stuck with about 5 that I felt really connected. And they are the big names that I see on this site, and I’ve gotten what I thought was really great readings from this. This cheating just really felt like a punch to the stomach because I didn’t suspect it and no advisor saw it. I think going into a deployment you kind of fear infidelity, so perhaps I have baggage from other relationshi ps but also deployment can bring out insecuritie s, so yea I would always ask if I have any reason to worry about infidelity happening while he’s gone. And maybe I’m absolutely crazy but I spoke with one of my advisors to ask why the hell this wasn’t found out months ago when he did it and what I’m hearing is that there was no physical cheating, and it was merely downloading (tinder, so gross) just to look around but he never acted on it. I don’t need excuses made for him, I have a very thin line for what is and is not cheating and the fact that he was “window shopping” is enough for me. But anyway I appreciate the nice people who understand what a traumatic shitty feeling it is to find any type of betrayal in a relationshi p.