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flora0250:
--- Quote from: AnxiouslyWaiting2012 on December 25, 2018, 02:59:06 PM ---There is no right to this reader. An apple is an apple no matter how you slice it. I asked her about my situation. Let her give her answer. Then I asked her when we would see each other. That means lay eyes. No matter if time is spent or I am looking at him at an event. She responded she did not see that. In regards to hear from him, that means some type of texting, calling, e-mail. The reason I asked the question of when I would see POI is because I felt like she was wrong from the beginning. We all are intuitive some of us know how to tap into it and others don’t. I am very skilled at tapping into my intuition. I can tell if a reader is somewhat right meaning they get the concept but, may be having a hard time putting it together or, are straight up wrong. She was incorrect. Didn’t work for me, may work for others.
We were together for 5 days. She didn’t see that. Everything was wrong.
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I was half considering giving her another try. I’m reading people’s reviews and taking them to heart but I went back to my chat transcript again... and between rereading it, your experience, and how much she charges... I just can’t bring myself to take another chance with her. Thanks for sharing your feedback.
Penelope:
I thought I’d give her another try and I am not sure what to make of the second reading. She said “I am questioning if this man is on a sociopath level”. She felt “ZERO” empathy from him. I first read with her in September. At that time, I had to pull back and walk away. My POI was mad so her reading indicated that he’s moved in a different direction. The thing is, my POI could never fully let go, but he won’t step up, so I had to be the one to pull away. He’s been “lurking” so I wanted to get an update on him. Her description of him having no empathy was both absurd and true. My POI admitted that he can’t emphasize with others. He doesn’t know how. But at the same time, he also admitted strong emotional attachments and care for certain people in his life. So, she picked up on one aspect of his personality and said that he’ll never change. I am left feeling that her reading only captured a small part of the big picture. I felt she was able to pick up on specific points and based conclusions off that. I am not saying she is wrong. I am just don’t feel as though she connected with all the other parts. Or if she did, she didn’t think they were relevant.
jhuskindle:
--- Quote from: Penelope on December 27, 2018, 09:10:14 AM ---I thought I’d give her another try and I am not sure what to make of the second reading. She said “I am questioning if this man is on a sociopath level”. She felt “ZERO” empathy from him. I first read with her in September. At that time, I had to pull back and walk away. My POI was mad so her reading indicated that he’s moved in a different direction. The thing is, my POI could never fully let go, but he won’t step up, so I had to be the one to pull away. He’s been “lurking” so I wanted to get an update on him. Her description of him having no empathy was both absurd and true. My POI admitted that he can’t emphasize with others. He doesn’t know how. But at the same time, he also admitted strong emotional attachments and care for certain people in his life. So, she picked up on one aspect of his personality and said that he’ll never change. I am left feeling that her reading only captured a small part of the big picture. I felt she was able to pick up on specific points and based conclusions off that. I am not saying she is wrong. I am just don’t feel as though she connected with all the other parts. Or if she did, she didn’t think they were relevant.
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If she was a bad reader she would have told you he has feelings for you etc. sounds like he might be a narcissist, you may want to look up YouTube videos about them and see if it fits the pattern. All bad readers would never have said he doesn’t have empathy, they would have told you the opposite. I know it’s hard to hear but it sounds like she was closer than most if he has already told you he lacks empathy.
icloud9:
--- Quote from: jhuskindle on December 27, 2018, 09:33:15 AM ---
--- Quote from: Penelope on December 27, 2018, 09:10:14 AM ---I thought I’d give her another try and I am not sure what to make of the second reading. She said “I am questioning if this man is on a sociopath level”. She felt “ZERO” empathy from him. I first read with her in September. At that time, I had to pull back and walk away. My POI was mad so her reading indicated that he’s moved in a different direction. The thing is, my POI could never fully let go, but he won’t step up, so I had to be the one to pull away. He’s been “lurking” so I wanted to get an update on him. Her description of him having no empathy was both absurd and true. My POI admitted that he can’t emphasize with others. He doesn’t know how. But at the same time, he also admitted strong emotional attachments and care for certain people in his life. So, she picked up on one aspect of his personality and said that he’ll never change. I am left feeling that her reading only captured a small part of the big picture. I felt she was able to pick up on specific points and based conclusions off that. I am not saying she is wrong. I am just don’t feel as though she connected with all the other parts. Or if she did, she didn’t think they were relevant.
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If she was a bad reader she would have told you he has feelings for you etc. sounds like he might be a narcissist, you may want to look up YouTube videos about them and see if it fits the pattern. All bad readers would never have said he doesn’t have empathy, they would have told you the opposite. I know it’s hard to hear but it sounds like she was closer than most if he has already told you he lacks empathy.
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I agree. That sounds pretty specific to me honestly, as to why she ultimately sees you guys going in opposite direction. I find her to be great at outcomes especially if they are shown very clear to her, even if the person may not want to believe it. I didn't believe it either at first when she gave me a negative reading on my other POI whom I thought I was going to have this perfect relationship with. While she may not mention other factors that we know about our situation (I don't know if it's because she cant see it or because she feels it's not relevant/significant like you said) and one might think that it is because she isn't fully "connected," or that she is assuming based on minor details she gets...But after reading with her for awhile, I found that even THOSE other things she didn't mention wouldn't even have mattered because her outcome was right. And the parts that she did pick up on turned out to actually play a role in the outcome. At least she doesn't EMBELLISH and add fluff. That's huge to me. I don't like it when someone makes something more significant than it actually IS and that actually does more damage to our emotions because we find ourselves holding on. Somebody could tell you all they want that this guy has feelings for you, he loves you etc...but if he is not stepping up, then what is the point? Definitely check out some videos on narcissists.
Fidget1028:
--- Quote from: icloud9 on December 27, 2018, 09:51:56 AM ---
--- Quote from: jhuskindle on December 27, 2018, 09:33:15 AM ---
--- Quote from: Penelope on December 27, 2018, 09:10:14 AM ---I thought I’d give her another try and I am not sure what to make of the second reading. She said “I am questioning if this man is on a sociopath level”. She felt “ZERO” empathy from him. I first read with her in September. At that time, I had to pull back and walk away. My POI was mad so her reading indicated that he’s moved in a different direction. The thing is, my POI could never fully let go, but he won’t step up, so I had to be the one to pull away. He’s been “lurking” so I wanted to get an update on him. Her description of him having no empathy was both absurd and true. My POI admitted that he can’t emphasize with others. He doesn’t know how. But at the same time, he also admitted strong emotional attachments and care for certain people in his life. So, she picked up on one aspect of his personality and said that he’ll never change. I am left feeling that her reading only captured a small part of the big picture. I felt she was able to pick up on specific points and based conclusions off that. I am not saying she is wrong. I am just don’t feel as though she connected with all the other parts. Or if she did, she didn’t think they were relevant.
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If she was a bad reader she would have told you he has feelings for you etc. sounds like he might be a narcissist, you may want to look up YouTube videos about them and see if it fits the pattern. All bad readers would never have said he doesn’t have empathy, they would have told you the opposite. I know it’s hard to hear but it sounds like she was closer than most if he has already told you he lacks empathy.
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I agree. That sounds pretty specific to me honestly, as to why she ultimately sees you guys going in opposite direction. I find her to be great at outcomes especially if they are shown very clear to her, even if the person may not want to believe it. I didn't believe it either at first when she gave me a negative reading on my other POI whom I thought I was going to have this perfect relationship with. While she may not mention other factors that we know about our situation (I don't know if it's because she cant see it or because she feels it's not relevant/significant like you said) and one might think that it is because she isn't fully "connected," or that she is assuming based on minor details she gets...But after reading with her for awhile, I found that even THOSE other things she didn't mention wouldn't even have mattered because her outcome was right. And the parts that she did pick up on turned out to actually play a role in the outcome. At least she doesn't EMBELLISH and add fluff. That's huge to me. I don't like it when someone makes something more significant than it actually IS and that actually does more damage to our emotions because we find ourselves holding on. Somebody could tell you all they want that this guy has feelings for you, he loves you etc...but if he is not stepping up, then what is the point? Definitely check out some videos on narcissists.
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I have to chime in to say that sociopaths can have affection, even love for specific individuals. This is an awful example, so I apologize in advance, but the mob hitman "the Iceman" was a diagnosed sociopath who didn't have empathy (which made him a great hitman), but very much loved his wife and children. He wasn't a fantastic husband and father (there was abuse), but he did feel love but only for them. And narcissism is completely different from sociopath.
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