I felt it is my DUTY to update my current situation with regard to my story.
Currently I have 2 guys around me: my POI (the one referenced in the topic of this thread) and the “New Guy”
So just an update - while most of my positive predictions came true through March as predicted (things getting better) - the reality is, NOTHING has happened since the end of March.
While I’ve been in contact with my POI, I have not seen him in a month. There are some reasons why this has happened (1: he stated he wasn’t ready for a relationshi p, which is fine, but some things he said threw me off and, 2: I said something that threw him off for a while) - however I didnt think that those things would keep us in this “separation” as long as we have now.
Now, I will say - when readers say things will get “BETTER”, yeah it means exactly that (if it comes true). Better doesnt mean forever. It’s like a weather front that comes through and doesnt last. It just like being “happy”, no one is happy consistentl y, content maybe, but not necessarily happy. Basically this term is as vague as SOON and MAYBE.
Anyway, in the meantime I met the new guy. No real updates there yet, as he is still new.
Basically given the weather of emotions I’m dealing with now (not necessarily a Thunderstor m because I’m not torn up about it now, however I’d call it a Thunderstor m about 3 weeks ago when it was all fresh when we had our tiff), but now I’d say my emotions are more or less like Partly Sunny skies. So I’m good.
I say this to say here are what my readers have predicted - yet at this point, I am over the POI. Maybe the new guy will be the new POI who knows. But I’m good on him.
Now that I’m “good” meaning “I’m done”, I dont see how in the world any of the following predictions will come true. I know, I know I thought it was THE END before, but this time, I’m so over it lol.
- Yona - Specificall y said I would be offered a commitment from him at the end of the year and I would sleep on it and think “is this the right choice” - she says I will say yes and stick with it. This was a very detailed prediction (over 20 mins long) describing the POI exactly and how it would happen
- Kisha - Specificall y saw POI getting better and improving his life to where we would have a solid relationshi p in the fall - Companionsh ip, Relationshi p and Partnership she said all of the above
- Cookie - Now she flipped on me - she said all these positive things would happen between us after I knew him a year. Here we are and nothing. She also mentioned him inviting me to things, meeting family (clearly she saw the wrong person) and me feeling complete and in a good place at the end of the year. Now, she doesn’t see me in a relationshi p with him or anyone else this year.
Indio, Tajah, Venus, etc all of my other readers saw this moving forward, however they DID warn me about his inconsisten cy. ALL OF THEM. Lol. I’m just done with the inconsisten cy for this long, I mean, its just retarded.
So, I’m good! I’m not sad or disappointe d (he has disappointe d me enough). I do not see how Kisha and Yona could be right because the POI has gone far beyond no return. We could possibly still be friends, but thats it.
And no I don’t want to “hope”....actually I’ve never “hoped” in this situation, I took it as it came. So no need in mentioning not to lose hope, because it was never there
Again, if anything changes, I’ll update. Some predicted events that happen between me and him may happen, but I doubt I’ll be in a committed relationshi p - he isn’t ready for one and I dont even want one with him after all this anyway (I questioned it the entire time but, yeah I’m good)
