6 mo is a good run. I’d definitely be down.
I agree - that is another 1/2 year, but at that rate what is the point of getting invested again only to be let down? Then this cycle would repeat itself once again. Plus, I know she's been with other men. That is the biggest turn off for us, when we know our POI has been active at the indoor olympics with other men. It's one of those things we cannot seem to get out of our head. We start to compare ourselves to the other men and wonder if we are A) bigger B) better C) stronger, so-on-and-so-forth.
If I just keep moving forward and don't entertain anything if/when she resurfaces then that pretty much seals the deal that she won't break my heart again. However, if I let her back in and we reconcile, who really knows what could happen? I mean, we could have a traumatic experience where it brings us so close that she may decided she never wants to leave. Or perhaps something else happens that is so significant that she wants to stay with me and not leave again.
It's going to be a real tough decision. At least I have awareness that this MAY happen so I can be best prepared for if it comes to fruition. Going into the situation with a clear head and no emotions will give me the best opportunity to make the correct decision for myself.
Has Leo ever predicted a POI coming back that did indeed come back while at the same time he predicted they would not stay, which manifested and the POI did not wind up staying?