Ugh...that sucks Coco.
I know that we call to hear the truth...but I think there are times when things need to be filtered.
Saying that he is talking to a girl is so random and they don't have enough information to follow...as women...when you say that to us...it triggers the "over analyzer...omg! a girl? wtf?...crazy girl" part in our brain and we focus on that and it drives us nuts LOL...so they should know better.
I have had some say that...and then later saying a sister or friend or mother...etc...well...why bring that up at all? how is that relivant?
When I call Winter I get upset...she mentions a girl...then she tells me its nothing etc...why mention it?
When I had dinner with my ex 2 weeks ago...I found out that he hasn't dated in over a year. October will be 2 years that we broke up...but I also found out that he hasn't been into it since we broke up...so there was never anything serious or anything worth mentioning.
When I read with Seha and Nina and I had asked them...they told me exactly what my ex told me and they both basically said "he is a guy...he is not a saint...but there is nothing that was serious or that would pose a threat to the outcome so why talk about it ?" I think its little things like this that makes a great reader. Being mean and rude is more about the reader than the caller and that is just poor business manners.
I'm glad you hung up on her
