Theres a guy thats been in and out of my life the past several weeks, basically he will text one day, disappear for a few days, be nice and text again, then disappear. I called Christina a few days ago and just asked a general question about my love life. At that time, this guy and I had text the night before and things were okay. When i spoke with her she said she saw conflict/arguing, and that "theres a guy that is going to be in and out of your life", basically he doesn't want anything serious but doesn't want to let me go the way she described. I told her nothing and thought, hmmm theres not really any conflict right now. And that night after my call with her he and I got into a big argument via text as he was being a huge jerk, and I haven't spoken to him since.