POI won't come back?

[moonlight412]

Has any reader ever told anyone that their POI doesn't love them or like them?

All the readings I have got, some say POI will come back, some say he won't, but all of them say 'he likes you and thinks about you', which is soooooooooooooo far from what I see..but it made me wonder does any reader ever say that your POI doesn't like you? Or doesn't care anymore?

Would love to hear from people who have read with Judis, Suecreate, and other empaths?

I never see these readers (the ones mentioned here for channeling) online, and honestly I am scared to do a reading with them because what if they say that your POI hates you lol!

[moonlight412]

Would love to hear from people who have read with Judis, Suecreate, and other empaths?

one time I asked Judi about someone that I used to have interest in. At one point we were dating but it was very casual. Months after it ended I asked her what this person thought of me and if he'd be back. She said that while he doesn't have any negative thoughts about me and sometimes wonders what I'm up to, he wasn't interested in getting in touch or dating again.

that's interesting!

[stargazer]

Yeah, shes very honest. Definitely not a fairy taler

[HopefulHeart]

I once had a "psychic" tell me that he was gone for good,  never coming back, would never talk to me again and that I had no real friends and was alone in the world. (B*tch literally told me I would never have any real friends and that I needed to just accept that I was going to be alone and asked if I'd considered adoption and said theres "no shame in waiting until I'm 45 and just being a single mother"). She was at a psychic fair and I don't know if she was just fed up for the day or strongly projecting something onto me but she straight up did a cold read and literally pulled tarot cards until she got the one she wanted (like, laid out some cards, turned them around to make them upside if thats how she wanted them, and then literally flipped thru about 10 cards until she got the devil and was like "yep see! gone for good! he hates you". ....three days later maybe he was texting me and we still  hang out to this day sooo... she was wrong lol.

But i have had readers tell me he either will never come back or that he doesnt even care anymore. besides that one lady i just mentioned, I think theres only been 2 that have straight out said no or that he hates me. (all others have said yes he will but that it will take a while and that we would work back up into it. Sure I had my fair share of fairy tale readers who gave me b.s. that he'd come running back.. But looking at it all as i have been recently, many predicted it taking a while with many giving me (at that point) a year or so for it to happen... 2017 should be my year so here's hoping!

Anyway Im getting wayyy off track.  I went back back waayyy back into my notes because I remember having a few readers that were so cold it just hurt! Susan 100 and Nicodemus Hillaire (sp?). Susan was just like "nope. You'll hear from him and get along but only for a little while". (that was over a year ago and like I said, we're still friends and talk and hang out so.... yep theres that lol). And Nico went off the wall with me. He seemed to be doing okay at the start, seemed friendly but maybe a little hyper. Started saying my POI didnt want to hurt me and was thinking about me but was stubborn but that he would contact me. Then it was like a switch flipped. He started SCREAMING at me about how my POI is stupid and awful and how he doesnt ever think of me and doesnt want anything to do with me and that I needed to just find a guy to have sex with and literally propositioned me for sex!! He literally started hitting on me one second and then screaming and insulting me the next. I got out of that reading so fast and actually reported him to keen. I see he's still reading but they gave me a complete full refund to my card for that one.

[moonlight412]

I once had a "psychic" tell me that he was gone for good,  never coming back, would never talk to me again and that I had no real friends and was alone in the world. (B*tch literally told me I would never have any real friends and that I needed to just accept that I was going to be alone and asked if I'd considered adoption and said theres "no shame in waiting until I'm 45 and just being a single mother"). She was at a psychic fair and I don't know if she was just fed up for the day or strongly projecting something onto me but she straight up did a cold read and literally pulled tarot cards until she got the one she wanted (like, laid out some cards, turned them around to make them upside if thats how she wanted them, and then literally flipped thru about 10 cards until she got the devil and was like "yep see! gone for good! he hates you". ....three days later maybe he was texting me and we still  hang out to this day sooo... she was wrong lol.

But i have had readers tell me he either will never come back or that he doesnt even care anymore. besides that one lady i just mentioned, I think theres only been 2 that have straight out said no or that he hates me. (all others have said yes he will but that it will take a while and that we would work back up into it. Sure I had my fair share of fairy tale readers who gave me b.s. that he'd come running back.. But looking at it all as i have been recently, many predicted it taking a while with many giving me (at that point) a year or so for it to happen... 2017 should be my year so here's hoping!

Anyway Im getting wayyy off track.  I went back back waayyy back into my notes because I remember having a few readers that were so cold it just hurt! Susan 100 and Nicodemus Hillaire (sp?). Susan was just like "nope. You'll hear from him and get along but only for a little while". (that was over a year ago and like I said, we're still friends and talk and hang out so.... yep theres that lol). And Nico went off the wall with me. He seemed to be doing okay at the start, seemed friendly but maybe a little hyper. Started saying my POI didnt want to hurt me and was thinking about me but was stubborn but that he would contact me. Then it was like a switch flipped. He started SCREAMING at me about how my POI is stupid and awful and how he doesnt ever think of me and doesnt want anything to do with me and that I needed to just find a guy to have sex with and literally propositioned me for sex!! He literally started hitting on me one second and then screaming and insulting me the next. I got out of that reading so fast and actually reported him to keen. I see he's still reading but they gave me a complete full refund to my card for that one.

Wow is all i can say! One is already upset or going through something emotional when calling a psychic, and to top that listening to them scream at us or be rude, that would just throw me off!

Thanks everyone for sharing their experience!

[JasonSharpe]

if someone does not come back its time to move on.

[Amb]

Mine usually come back whether I like it or not.  Sometimes many years later. But yes, move on and don't sit and wait. Live life, love life. Meet someone new, whether they are long term or just casual dating. Open yourself up to new experiences.

[Littl30ne]

My darling I was on the same boat as you. For 9 months I've been on autopilot and getting a reading every few days to see when he was coming back. Some saw no reconnection and some saw he would be contacting me in a few months.. those few months turned into MANY months. I avoided contact like they suggested.. some days I couldn't take it anymore and I contacted him anyway but I'm glad I did because I saw reality. He was always angry when I called and was so uncivil.. even after everything I did for him it's like he didn't remember who we once were.

Finally I got a reading with Kisha (I'd say she's everyone's favorite on here lol but I wasn't a fan it's just me) because I saw a picture of him with another woman at a wedding and they looked close!! She said she saw no reconnection and that was because he was upset about something w a 5 (in the month of May coincidentally we had a major argument because I told him I missed him but he didn't care so I lost it.. and even returned the phone he was paying for). She said he was casually dating for 2 months... but I remember when I spoke w him in May he said he moved on 3 months ago which means he has moved on for 6 months now! No one told me that.. not even Kisha.. and believe me reality is exactly as it seems!

I'm glad I read with her because I said let me be the bigger human being and apologize for the past hurts because I still care about him.. I messaged him on social media apologizing etc and guess what no response! I'm still blocked on his phone too! Lol!!! I'm a fun, loving, caring and loyal person.. what does he not see in me?!! He's an idiot for putting so much effort into keeping me out of his life when I have SO MUCH love to offer!!

So long story short, it doesn't matter if a psychic tells you he loves you or not.. just look at your POI's reactions to you and you will know. You're smarter than that, don't give your power to a stranger you never met before who doesn't know your story. Most of these psychics aren't real or accurate any way.

I read with Suecreate and she said my ex was regretting our break up.. ok if that's the case why hasn't he reached out? A man will always react to his thoughts, he won't wait & plot like we women do... if he misses us, he WILL call! So I wouldn't believe what Suecreate told you. Finally if he really missed me who is this uglier and older (no offense to my golden girls here) woman holding him? He knows I love and miss him, he knows I have so much passion to offer .. why isn't he back? Because he's an idiot and no psychic will tell you that. Follow your gut instinct and take these readings with a grain of salt sorry if it seems like I'm giving unsolicited advice but I'm so fed up with these "readers" ruining someone's day with heartbreaking stuff.

[Littl30ne]

Oh wow I saw this thread went back to March lol!!! I don't know why I saw 'new' next to it.. how are you doing now?

[Bostongirl]

Well said... Very few psychics have gotten my situation either. I've read with Aries twice... and yes, she is bang on. So many readers giving people false hope. Thanks for posting. I hope you meet someone that cherish you and wants to be with you. 

[knel27]

yea i totally agree with the above, i waited months and months for my POI to come back. Literally and embarrassingly had readings every couple of days for a year about this guy while broken up. The year mark passed the end of July and that's when reality hit me hard and I hit a turning point. Kisha along with one other reader out of the hundreds of readers who told me she did not see a reconnection over the course of the next 6 months (this was back in April when I spoke to her), and she has so far been right. I had avoided calling her for so long because i know when Kisha says something isn't happening...it really ISN'T happening, and sometimes we don't want to face the truth. But you reach a point where you feel life is just passing by and you're not really living, you're just calling psychics, spending too much money, and hung up on some person who is never coming back. Yes I still think of my ex, but I do feel like I've made progress. Only time can heal the wounds.

[Littl30ne]

Thanks BostonGirl! Yeah I'm so tired of the ones that give false hope, I think they just want their callers to keep calling back for updates. That's clever but messed up lol!

Hi Knel27 it sucks to be living under a rock basically right lol! Always being alone and calling these "psychics". I'm glad to hear you made progress it's going to take time but it starts with us. I don't think Kisha is right for me because she didn't give me anything to look forward to.. she basically hinted my life will have no real romance everything will be casual (I'm not a casual dater) but whatever I intend to make the most of my life right now and focus on happiness:)

[morland1]

When a reader says " I don't see a reconnection at this time" does that mean at this present time or long term?

I had another reader say "I don't see a reconnection right now but that connection is not severed and I feel like you will hear from him again"

Also confusing. Thoughts?

[sodapopcharm]

When a reader says " I don't see a reconnection at this time" does that mean at this present time or long term?

I had another reader say "I don't see a reconnection right now but that connection is not severed and I feel like you will hear from him again"

Also confusing. Thoughts?

i take that as- at the present time there's no sign of reconnection when looking forward. however if the reader were to check again a few months from now, the future might show something different.

[Dreamer23]

Phoenix Rising told me bluntly that my ex just stopped having any feelings for me. She was totally wrong about it though. He has made it obvious that he still has feelings for me, even now. It doesn't mean he will ever do anything about it though.

Stuff like this makes me angry...when a psychic is dead sure about a negative thing. I wouldn't deliver it like that, that means being so certain about it and in your situation, it proved to be the opposite. It means they don't know how to deliver the information in an empowering way and also how to admit that they could possibly be wrong. Ugh.