Lanie is about letting go, working on yourself and moving on while you do the meditations . She explicitly does not want you to sit around focusing on your ex.
I understand what shes about. LoA itself is about letting go and releasing your wish to the universe, and expecting it to come, without worry or fear; knowing it's already 'here'.
I was talking about where you said
You can get to the point in which you believe, fully, that your ex is coming back, and you wait and wait and wait. She absolutely does not advocate waiting around for your ex or calling psychics about an ex.
Lanie specificall
y says:
I know it's hard to play the waiting game that's why I don't recommend it. In fact, I TELL YOU TO MOVE ON IN EVERY INSTANCE!!! I know you have your heart set on this one individual, unique and wonderful person but you aren't going to wither away and die if it doesn't work out. Moving on allows you to empower yourself, raise your vibration, attract others who may be more compatible and MOST OF ALL it takes away the frustration and feeling of victimizati
on you may be experiencin
g. You are not a victim! The relationshi
p (if looked at realistical
ly) was not all that perfect or you would not have broken up. Meditate, break the habit of addictive relationshi
p behavior, do something positive for yourself or others, but move forward.
My advice is to use the technique with no expectation
s and then move on with your life. Don't spend your life hoping, praying, pining away and miserable. I take people at their word but I do not allow it to affect my visualizati
on. Could it just be anger on their part? Of course! If it is just anger and resentment they are projecting then the technique will bring them back. If they are absolutely done with you, want nothing to do with you and they have moved on with another person take them at their word and do the same. You cannot let yourself be stuck in a state of limbo because of one person. You must move forward! Does it hurt? Absolutely! But the pain will ease if you don't open the wound on a daily basis. You will live, find love again and get over the heartbreak -- AND hopefully manifest a mate that is perfect for you in every way!