This isn't a spell - it's not going to 'make' anyone do anything they don't want. It's more along the lines of LOA. It manifests only what already exists between 2 people. The universe gives us doors and windows to go thru, and whether we CHOOSE open them or ignore that they exist is completely up to us. LOA isn't about breaking down a wall, it's about opening a window, a door. There's nothing creepy about it. Sky's the limit.
Yes, her meditation works. I'm not going to use it though on someone who I know in my heart doesn't want me at all and has made it VERY clear - that's just a waste of time. So I guess self-honesty is the first stop before going on to this meditation.