Author Topic: Total opposite  (Read 4010 times)

Offline nikkii

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Re: Total opposite
« Reply #120 on: March 30, 2014, 12:57:56 AM »
Wow..reading the series of threads in this topic is SAD and quite depressing! I haven't pm'd Bark, but from reading these posts it does appear a lot of you are dumping a load of crap on her. I reluctantly post because of moments such as these. I happen to agree with Bark by the way.

In my opinion, readings are to be taken lightly with a grain of salt. Psychics are not God, they are human don't know everything and are apt to be wrong. It would be irresponsible of me to blame the reader, be upset with them because something a stranger told me. The tone and pace of this forum has become very negative. Predictions I'm sure have happened for people, perhaps we don't hear of them because they are happily living their lives.

My final outcome, the reason I was calling not too long ago happened for me. My big prediction that I've called about and I've posted it. But the negative outcomes seem to trump the positive ones on this forum, it is indeed sad.

Sorry to those who have not have good experiences and have been perhaps been led on by a reader. But it is not fair to assess that no one had their 'big prediction' come to fruition. Readers in the past have been wrong for me, and yet I never lived my life by whatever was told to me. Even the positive things, I just filed away and didn't dwell on them.

I now mainly call regarding other issues aside from love issues. I used to enjoy reading the posts on this forum but it has taken quite a turn since I've joined. The same members seem to go after Bark; this topic and another thread I read. Don't know the history btw the members but as an outsider looking in that doesn't post much this is what I see. I can understand why other members would be reluctant to post and would rather just read through the thread.

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Re: Total opposite
« Reply #121 on: March 30, 2014, 09:30:13 AM »
wow..this still continues....

@barkangel - i dont' know which group you are referring to when you say those outspoken. i don't belong to any group here. i found this forum alone in hope to find one psychic who would be accurate. also to share my experience. i don't understand one thing why when someone says prediction did not happen you have the need to argue that perhaps i did something wrong or that it is my mistake. i can reassure you this is NOT the case. you are upset when people analyse your experience but you have no problem trying to analyse my situation where bear in mind you have NO idea about my situation. i only shared 10percent of the actual events that took place..the rest of course i'm keeping private as it is very personal. so i can reassure you the answer is NO...there was nothing and i mean NOTHING i could have done or said that would change my situation (due to circumstances i found out later and will not share on public forum)...so when i say prediction failed i mean prediction failed. there is nothing more to it. no maybe, no what if...the reality is it FAILED..readers were WRONG..

regarding your quote:
Predictions, some predictions, are subject to change.  Not all predictions are cast in stone.  One has to bear that in mind.  My most trusted reader states it this way, "We are not oracles, but people that sense. Psychics are like meteorologists.
what makes you think that your opinion is the right one? readers i read with claimed different things - that outcome is an outcome...some things will happen regardless of what i do...but outcome is an outcome. if you wanna believe what you are writing by all means do so. i have no intentions of changing your opinion and i'm not here to analyse your experience so please stop analysing mine. only I know what happened and why..and i also stated that those predictions about which i forgot ALSO FAILED TO MANIFEST. so obsessing or not obsessing predictions failed. i don't know what is so hard to understand. and no it is not "my own free will" that diverted predictions. how can you even suggest such thing when timeframe for reconcilliation was almost 2 years ago. so 2 years is not long enough for you to understand that it is over and no he is not coming back as readers suggested?

i have absolutely nothing against you but sometimes reading your comments can be just frustrating because you refuse to see or accept the reality. i dont' mean to upset you either but i'm trying to explain to you that really if you knew the details even you would say nope, psychics were terribly wrong and no way this can be rekindled. and nobody saw this.

why can't people just state their experience without having it pulled apart piece by piece? if i was really down do you realise your posts would just really make me more sad? implying that it is my own fault for predictions not happening? i'm lucky i'm really over my period of depression and those things no longer affect me.

as syngergy stated i too had small predictions like contact happen. not within timeframe but fairly close. however we are in daily contact so this was still expected. some readers got my past and present correct so i have no doubt that there are GIFTED READERS our there who are able to pick on current or past issues. BUT even those readers were wrong in terms of reading my future. so once again i have to stress out this was NOT connection issue as i connected with most of them.

i don't pay meteorologist to read the weather for me personally. i paid for psychics to read MY future there is a difference in this as i spent huge money on psychics (yes my fault and i do not blame anyone else)but comparing  weather predictions with predicting my future...really doesn't make any sense to me. it might to you but for me is just crazy thought.

i don't need to analyse every single thing that happens. it either happens or not. if i had to analyse it everytime asking what if i did this, or should i have done that, or maybe this will work, or no i'd rather do other thing...i mean i would go mental if i kept doing this trying to make the prediction happen. i have a life to live and certainly won't waste it by analysing every single thing i do or did.

and i'm sure most of us here know life is no fairytale so why is majority of psychics selling us one? it's totally unethical from them to do so. i will definitely not sit here trying to make excuses for psychics. absolutely not! most of them are frauds and i'm saying this based on MY experience.

you say you don't insult people - calling others bunch of miserable people doesn't seem to be insulting? some people are still down and sad. how can you say this and then act like the one you have been attacked? your posts are arrogant i'm sorry to say that. if you don't want others to insult you then stop insulting others as well. it is insulting to me if someone who knows very little about my situation implies that i did something wrong. you can ask questions but your opinions will not be relevant or helpful because you don't know the full picture. i ask my close friends who are in the picture for opinion or advise.

this doesn't need to be any blood bath or witch hunt. this is about experience. if some members don't agree with other members opinion they can say so but to analyse the actual events without having much information is not right. i like reading other people's experience - good or bad but i find it rude to imply to someone that it is their mistake. i'd rather say i'm here if you need to talk because i know how you feel or i post my experience so the reader doesn't feel alone and helpless. i also like to discuss different theories why things happen or they don't, or generally about psychics. i don't mind. as long as i'm not being told by strangers that perhaps i did things wrong. it's not nice. yes maybe i did things wrong we all make mistakes and learn from them. but i know if my predictions manifested or not.

thank you everyone who defended my post about stating my experience. it meant a lot to me. i know guys we all went through heartache or pain and last thing we need is for people to state how we might have affected the outcome and how it's not the readers fault.

decibel diva i'm sorry about your situation with your ex looking for a flat. i remember your posts in fact i tried some readers you recommended as well. i really hope and wish that all of us find our happiness and hope our experiences make us stronger and we can better pick our guys next time :))

people shouldn't be afraid to post their experience. is this not why this forum was created? i have been told this by a few people that they don't want their posts analysed so they rather not post. this is just wrong. this forum is about finding legitimate psychic, someone who can predict the future. how are we going to find such person if people are being attacked for posting their opinion? or just have their post analysed from top to bottom so they eventually feel even worse then before they post?? (not talking about me now but i know some people do)?

there is page after page of arguments where it shouldn't be this way. this post was originally started by lovelygirl asking about other people's experience. not meant to be arguing how my own predictions didn't manifest because i said or did something.

i'm quite busy now, so i won't be responding to anymore posts on this thread. if someone wants to know something please pm me. when i can i will respond.
anyway thank you all for your comments. i will end by saying and agreeing with most of you = if you have readings dont' take them too seriously or don't base your decisions around what psychics told you. yes there are some gifted readers out there i'm sure of that. just i haven't been able to find one who was accurate for me yet.

i didn't meant o upset or insult anyone by this post and i use CAPS to emphasise certain things and not meaning to shout (i rarely shout anyway) so if me using caps offended anyone then i apologise.
also wish everyone nice weekend. i hope this arguments stop. i do not wish for my experience to be analysed or anyone else implying that i caused my outcomes not happening simply cause nobody has enough facts to be able to make opinions about my situation. i apologise for any typing mistakes i was rushing.
thank you.



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Re: Total opposite
« Reply #122 on: March 30, 2014, 10:45:52 AM »
Sagitira, you are too kind and thank you for thinking about me while being so busy yourself. My plate is also full with my own things right now and I have a feeling when I do meet my Mr. Right it's gonna be unexpected and hopefully at the perfect time, lol!  ;)

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Re: Total opposite
« Reply #123 on: March 30, 2014, 10:57:32 AM »
sagitira -
I never meant to imply or say that you did anything wrong nor did I mean to say or imply that your prediction was accurate when it was not.  I could only comment on the 10% you shared, so of course I do not know the rest.  I am sorry it came out that way to cause you to feel you were being analyzed. That was not my intent.  Of course, it is your choice whether you believe me or not.

Now, I believe I have apologized. So, I don't wish to be addressed anymore.  This matter is closed as far as I am concerned.

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Re: Total opposite
« Reply #124 on: March 30, 2014, 10:59:47 AM »
@decibel diva - i'm hoping for the same that i'd meet the one when i least expect it. i know good men are out there. my sis is the proof of this. she too met her husband over 2 years ago totally unexpectedly and this guy is best she's ever had. after many failures she managed to find a man who is caring, honest, funny and loves her so much. fingers crossed for us :)

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Re: Total opposite
« Reply #125 on: March 30, 2014, 11:01:51 AM »
thank you barkangel, i appreciate it very much. it's ok. got heated a bit but thank you. i'm not at all angry with you, was just upset about a few comments but it happens sometimes, don't worry about it. and i also apologise if any of my comments insulted you. have a nice day/evening.

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Re: Total opposite
« Reply #126 on: June 25, 2016, 04:09:17 PM »
This is a bump....hope everyone reads this thread...even if it is a few years old.

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Re: Total opposite
« Reply #127 on: June 25, 2016, 08:46:32 PM »
This is a great thread Bella with a lot of excellent views being expressed on all sides.  I'm glad you bumped it, and the other one also.  I read through these and many others before I started posting here.  Seeing the bickering that has gone on in the past really made me hesitate to start posting on this forum.  I got the impression there are still some hurt feelings about things that have gone on here. 

I gotta say whether others like it or not, I thought Bark Angel shared some really great words of wisdom in this thread.  And to me it looks like others misinterpreted what she wrote and ganged up on her. 

And Bark Angel if you are still around, I hope you don't mind that I brought your name back up.  But I thought one of your posts really bears repeating.  Now for me it would be ideal if I had a neon sign over my telephone saying this:

No psychic reading should ever trump your own intuition and gut feeling.  Furthermore, reputable psychics will be sure to tell you that up front and without hesitation.

Now I wholeheartedly believe that is true.  It is more important to trust ourselves than to trust any reader or place their words over what you know or feel to be true. 

And this is exactly where things have gone wrong for me in my worst experiences with having readings.  What the reader said conflicted with my own intuition, and I felt torn between believing them and trusting myself. 

I do believe the actions we take after a reading can definitely affect the outcome.  I also believe the underlying energy of that action can have a strong impact...in other words if I feel calm and right about what I'm doing it is likely to have a very different outcome, than if I feel upset and conflicted and torn. 

I have thought a lot about how participating in a forum like this might affect things for me and for others who read this or could even ripple out in ways I would never guess at.  I want to be honest about my experiences with readers, but I don't want to cause anyone to doubt themselves or lose faith in something they feel is right. 

I know I probably sound like a real downer at times, but my underlying intent is to discourage people from putting faith in readers to the extent that it is harmful to themselves.  I hope by sharing some of the bad experiences I've had, it might help others.