Total opposite

[divine wishes]

Bark,

I don't condone name calling, and I won't defend it.

I will be blunt here, I don't think anyone of us wants anyone else's opinion on their situation. I know you don't care for me to express my opinion on your situation. Here is my take, many of us are not friends, nor will we ever be friends. I joined this forum to learn about good psychics, not to hear some stranger's opinion of my situation -- I don't care for it, and I don't welcome it. Ultimately, I feel my problem with your post to Sagitira was that it came off as judgmental and preachy, as you took the effort to explain to her the reality of HER situation.

There is a difference between commenting on a psychic reading and commenting on how someone has handled their life.

[bstalling]

Ultimately, I feel my problem with your post to Sagitira was that it came off as judgmental and preachy, as you took the effort to explain to her the reality of HER situation. There is a difference between commenting on a psychic reading and commenting on how someone has handled their life.

Quoted for emphasis. This is what is disrespectful about it. I'm not sure why you understand this when it comes to you, but not anyone else.

[Bark angel]

Divine,
Please don't counsel me on proper decorum.  Why not counsel others on theirs? I commented on my opinion of what sagitira had shared publicly on this board.  That's not awful.  She does not have to accept my opinion at all. It is only that, an opinion on what she had written.  However, Kicking commented and arrived at her own conclusion on MATTERS THAT I HAD NOT shared on a board.  How reasonable is that? And yet you allow it and support it.

Preachy?  Listen, that's your impression.  Read my comment again,  I was simply saying I think at the end she should not denigrate herself for having relied on psychics predictions, because in the end she had the courage to take matters in her own hands and forge her destiny without relying on what psychics had told her.  Of course it takes an open mind to be able to read that in my comments.  So, I am not surprised that it was lost on some of you.

Finally, anyone that resorts to name calling, insults, mud-slinging, accusations - sorry I won't stoop to your level.  This is how it goes on here.  You have to have stamina to swim against the current on here and that is sad.  There are so many members that have reached out to me to explain that this is why they don't participate on here anymore.  And that goes against the whole reason a board like this exists.  It is a sad situation.

I am done.  I choose not to engage with people that have such a distorted view of what is right and wrong.  And to ALL of people that PM'd me your support during this attack. Thank you. I appreciate your support.  I feel for all of you.

Bark,

I don't condone name calling, and I won't defend it.

I will be blunt here, I don't think anyone of us wants anyone else's opinion on their situation. I know you don't care for me to express my opinion on your situation. Here is my take, many of us are not friends, nor will we ever be friends. I joined this forum to learn about good psychics, not to hear some stranger's opinion of my situation -- I don't care for it, and I don't welcome it. Ultimately, I feel my problem with your post to Sagitira was that it came off as judgmental and preachy, as you took the effort to explain to her the reality of HER situation.

There is a difference between commenting on a psychic reading and commenting on how someone has handled their life.

[divine wishes]

I see that you have taken it upon yourself to subtly insult me: "Of course it takes an open mind to be able to read that in my comments.  So, I am not surprised that it was lost on you."

I have had many blessings in my life, and continue to see them pouring in; I am far from being close-minded.  For instance, I have never commented on the unwavering faith that you have in your relationship reconciling, which I think is interesting; and I have not done so because it is none of my business. Also, I bet you don't care for my comments/opinions.

[Bark angel]

Divine,
The correct quote is Of course it takes an open mind to be able to read that in my comments.  So, I am not surprised that it was lost on some of you." No personal insult intended.

I see that you have taken it upon yourself to subtly insult me: "Of course it takes an open mind to be able to read that in my comments.  So, I am not surprised that it was lost on you."

I have had many blessings in my life, and continue to see them pouring in; I am far from being close-minded.  For instance, I have never commented on the unwavering faith that you have in your relationship reconciling, which I think is interesting; and I have not done so because it is none of my business. Also, I bet you don't care for my comments/opinions.

Divine,

[divine wishes]

Anyway, thanks for helping me kill some time as I waited for my flight. It's been tons of fun!   

[Bark angel]

I hope you will now retract your insult of me as I was not directing that comment to you.  Additionally, you were in chat one day and participated in a discussion with others that I sensed was a little more than an opinion.  I would be wrong, but I left chat that day and chose not to return while those people are in there.  It is my prerogative to do that. Furthermore, while I appreciate your interest in my unwavering faith, you and others have no idea of the disposition of my relationship at this time and it is my prerogative to keep it that way.  For reasons that should be, by now, quite obvious.

I see that you have taken it upon yourself to subtly insult me: "Of course it takes an open mind to be able to read that in my comments.  So, I am not surprised that it was lost on you."

I have had many blessings in my life, and continue to see them pouring in; I am far from being close-minded.  For instance, I have never commented on the unwavering faith that you have in your relationship reconciling, which I think is interesting; and I have not done so because it is none of my business. Also, I bet you don't care for my comments/opinions.

[allbitenobark]

Bark,

I don't condone name calling, and I won't defend it.

I will be blunt here, I don't think anyone of us wants anyone else's opinion on their situation. I know you don't care for me to express my opinion on your situation. Here is my take, many of us are not friends, nor will we ever be friends. I joined this forum to learn about good psychics, not to hear some stranger's opinion of my situation -- I don't care for it, and I don't welcome it. Ultimately, I feel my problem with your post to Sagitira was that it came off as judgmental and preachy, as you took the effort to explain to her the reality of HER situation.

There is a difference between commenting on a psychic reading and commenting on how someone has handled their life.

Whew, eight pages so far. Wow.

Bark, I have no issue with you and you can accuse me of being someone's henchman all you want. Ultimately, I do see what you are saying. It is just a prediction, just like the weather. Energies shift, actions cause motion, inaction is static. I get it. If you, or anyone for that matter, were to read many of my earlier posts about this subject I have a very similar sentiment as you. I just wish with that intelligent and eloquent worded brain of yours that you could for just a moment see past your ego and be open to other's opinions as well. We are not a ship of fools that your enlightened words are lost on and to keep driving that home IS insulting.

I've read through all of these pages and have read through many of the pages of other posts that you commandeer. You come at others as tho you are being "helpful", are offering guidance or a different perspective, that all of this is just your opinion, etc. Yet, when others counter your analysis and dissemination of their own experience you call it an "attack", a "witch hunt", or a "blood bath". That's a bit dramatic for someone that sets up the bullseye to begin with.

You say no one "dares" post here because of kicking or others but I'm afraid most of us don't post our experiences here anymore because of you. No one wants to have their personal experience dismantled and used "as an example" for eight pages by a stranger that ultimately blames the person sharing in the first place and then has the audacity to cry it's just my opinion and I'm entitled to it. You say this is like HS, but the dramatic way you handle rejection and opposition does remind me of my 14 year old niece. I don't mean that in a mean spirited way, it's just that you act like everyone is attacking you when many are asking you to stop being disrespectful to them. It's a back and forth argument that you engage yourself in time and time again. Why not just let others post their experiences and let them be?

For all of the "supporters" that are PMing Bark during this blood bath do you mind speaking up? I'd love to hear other's opinions about this, too, and I certainly am open to hearing why many of us are evil and negative just because we don't want to face a challenge or an acute analysis of our readings every time we post a review.

[Bark angel]

Decibel,
I commented on sagitira's report.  There are literally hundreds ad hundreds of posts on here and you are claiming that I am raining on everyone's parade?  I have an opinion, just as you have yours.  I don't blast you with attacks and insults when you write what you wish, and I epxect the same in return.  I have no problem debating theory or whatever.  That is my problem with this whole thread.  If I don't share my personal nitty gritty details I am considered wasting time on this board.  I am sorry, I did not think I had to do what a select few think I should in order to be a member here.

Please also note that I just don't resort to hyperbole.  I don't make black and white statements.  I commented on one post.  Not all posts. Not all threads - just one thread.  However, the reason this one has gone on as long as it has is because it long ago departed from being a discussion on sagitira and it resorted into a blood bath.  Which, by the way is quite common on here.  Furthermore, I won't be insulted.  Just as you should expect to be either.  That is what I have defended.  The insults.

There are plenty of PMs that I've received stating the same.  people witness the witch hunts and just don't want to be the next prey.  It's a theme around here.

[sunandmoon]

So at this point, I am fine with the failed r/s. I have one I never could have imagined now. I wouldn't want to go back to someone that has no boundaries, someone who's so hard to work with.

I agree that there are many reasons that this man is not with me BUT it doesn't change the fact that just about every psychic I talked to told me otherwise. They fed me the same lines that many here are fed. And they were wrong.

Are you saying that all readers render a positive outcome to callers that are inquiring about reconciliation? Because, there are readers that give negative outcomes, why on this forum there are dozens of members that have shared that a reader has said someone won't come back.  Perhaps you just never connected with any of those.

Way to twist words. You can see clearly above that I was talking about my own situation. You also deleted the part where I said "my case specifically"

[allbitenobark]

Decibel,
I commented on sagitira's report.  There are literally hundreds ad hundreds of posts on here and you are claiming that I am raining on everyone's parade?  I have an opinion, just as you have yours.  I don't blast you with attacks and insults when you write what you wish, and I epxect the same in return.  I have no problem debating theory or whatever.  That is my problem with this whole thread.  If I don't share my personal nitty gritty details I am considered wasting time on this board.  I am sorry, I did not think I had to do what a select few think I should in order to be a member here.

Please also note that I just don't resort to hyperbole.  I don't make black and white statements.  I commented on one post.  Not all posts. Not all threads - just one thread.  However, the reason this one has gone on as long as it has is because it long ago departed from being a discussion on sagitira and it resorted into a blood bath.  Which, by the way is quite common on here.  Furthermore, I won't be insulted.  Just as you should expect to be either.  That is what I have defended.  The insults.

There are plenty of PMs that I've received stating the same.  people witness the witch hunts and just don't want to be the next prey.  It's a theme around here.

I genuinely have no problem debating theories and such either, and there have been many posts you have written that have opened my mind to how to use readings, etc. I also do not think your input is a waste of this forum's time so do not lump me in that category if you had. I just think that why others, including myself, get upset is that many times you don't just let a dead dog lie. If the outcome was wrong it just plain is sometimes. We are all here because we have some sort of faith and I will not knock you for yours. All I am personally asking is to not dismantle everyone's experience as they perceive it. You don't have to agree with it.

And this witch hunt and blood bath as you keep calling it seems to only be evident to you and others that are not speaking up. I've seen nothing in these pages that reads like an attack. It's a forum and things get heated, yes, but I don't think everyone is being cruel just because they don't agree with you.

To update everyone on my situation: many of my trusted readers all saw my ex splitting with horsey in April of last year. They moved in with each other instead. Keeping an open mind, I thought, "maybe the meant April of 2014 instead?" Well, guess what? Not only are they still together but they are now looking for apartments this month of April to just live with each other with no roommates. I saw him last night and we chatted for a bit. He's happy and he loves her, etc. Am I permitted to safely say my predictions were wrong? Please? Can I just have at least that? (This is meant to be funny, lol!)

[chrys]

I am tired of Kicking being picked on. Grow up

[chrys]

I joined this this forum because I wanted to have people to relate to that where going through similar things. I was not expecting the crap that has been going on. People are afraid to post afraid to chat.. it has become a dead forum really

[sunandmoon]

Decibel, ya, I think you can say they were wrong! 

[copperhead]

I joined this this forum because I wanted to have people to relate to that where going through similar things. I was not expecting the crap that has been going on. People are afraid to post afraid to chat.. it has become a dead forum really

Likewise ... I haven't checked in for a couple of days and what I find when I return is pages of useless arguments and insults. Grow up, people. And, well, psychics are not really psychics. Once you have all figured it out, you'll feel better and will behave like adults.