This post calls out to me to try to see if there really is a line of thinking that perhaps I see as getting in the way of having our wants and desires. Life is not fair. People die. Babies are born without limbs. People starve and suffer across the globe. Calling a psychic does not ensure pure idyllic happiness - flowers, and stars and butterflies. We call to ask a psychic is such and such a person will be in our lives. if there were problems before, why would you expect that those problems would not exist in the future? What is that phrase, "careful what you wish for"? Why do we think that if a prediction is made for us to reunite with a loved one that it will be all flowers and stars and butterflies? Maybe concessions are to be made to fashion a life with an ex. Maybe patience is required. Maybe it isn't going to be easy. Maybe, just maybe our expectations get in the way of predictions manifesting in the way we expect. I have never had a trusted advisor tell me it will be stars and butterflies. If you replay readings from trusted advisors (ones that are really ethical) you will often hear it come out loud and clear...."you may not want what you want today"; "you may find this isn't all that it appears"; "you will have to take it slow", "it will take time"; "forgiveness is required". Why do we get readings from psychics and expect a "fairytale ending". Life often doesn't present everyone a fairytale.
Maybe, just maybe an ex would return still not ready and a life with him would require some compromise. Maybe, just maybe one needs to heed the phrase, "careful what you wish for".
Bstalling's ex came back and proposed but he wasn't ready! He still has the existing issues! That's not bstalling's fault. AND a gifted reader should see, yes, he'll return but he'll still have the existing issues and it won't be in your best interest to take him back. What was bstalling supposed to do? Settle?! No way!!! She did the right thing, and I agree that the prediction is wrong if she was told she'd end up with him.
Btw, at one point when C came back around I did start thinking that maybe some readers were right and only the timeframe was off. I called Kisha and she said he'd only want sex, still isn't ready for something serious, blah blah blah. She was right. He only wanted sex. Just because he eventually came back around doesn't mean all the other readers were right. They were all wrong. He didn't and doesn't want to be with me. I'm supposed to "wait" for him to be ready? He never may be! Forget that!
The only reason I disagree with this view is because I have had readers say this person will be back but he will not be ready for what you want, or will not be in the state you need him to be in, or whatever else pointing to the fact that it will not work out. I know gifted psychics exist and there are those who have seen such scenarios.
I do agree, and have always said, that we need to be objective with out readings and accept our own responsibility and control over situations. This is exactly why readings cannot and should not be taken as reality. I've always said it's a best guess, a conjecture, a probability. The thing is many if not most of these readers give these ultimate outcomes that are impossible because of what's happening behind the scenes. They should at least see the here and now. This is why I now get readings focused on the PRESENT. Even then, many are wrong.
If a man isn't with you, there's a reason. Love yourself enough to accept that and move on. I speak only for myself but many of my own issues are due to low self esteem. I always wonder what is wrong with me. Why did this man leave me for someone ugly, morally corrupt, etc etc. I focus on that and want answers. The heart wants what it wants and sometimes it simply doesn't make sense and there aren't any answers. Psychic readings perpetuate the sadness and loneliness. They don't help.
That said, I like getting readings. It fills a void for me. I wait for the day I no longer have to fill that void. I know it will come because I've stopped with readings before. I just need to get there. This place helps me to an extent because there's comfort in knowing I'm not alone.
