Total opposite

[lovelygirl86]

Hi everyone! I don't post a lot on here but I wanted to ask if this has ever happened to anyone before. So two guys I used to call about who were complete idiots and who weren't very affectionate with me all that much to begin with, I would get 85% positive readings like he really has deep feelings, oh he will be reaching out soon because nobody compares to you like every nice thing you could think of, even the whole he'll be back BS, of course none of it ever happened and both of those dudes are completely moved on... Well why is it that now that I've met an amazing man who really genuinely tries with me, takes me on dates, texts me calls me treats me like a queen... Readers tell me they get affection cards, no love cards, he's not quiet there yet as far as loving feelings just give it time. It's like wtf? The sad part is I start to believe it but then I have to remember that 90% of the readers I read with were HELLA wrong with the first two guys I used to call about saying that they were so super into me and would come back around and didn't want to lose me when we literally hadn't spoke in MONTHS, but with the good guy most readings have been eh. Like they make me feel like he actually doesn't care for me. It's super opposite. Any one else experience this?

[lovelygirl86]

Edit: readers get NO affectionate cards. Like he feels nothing for me so far. :/

[love]

lovely girl this is my opinion and please do not take it personally. Once you find someone you are happy with and feel comfortable with than whats the point of calling these readers.? Just live in the moment and enjoy his company and time spend together. Why would someone waste their time and energy on calling  readers once they find someone who is actually not a Jerk and treats them nice. All the rest if it is meant to be comes with time. Again just my opinion.
all the best..love

[lovelygirl86]

@love I know I totally agree. I stopped calling months ago because I started finding out the truth through mutual friends and I just thought wow, what a waste of money.. I guess I was just bored/curious and I started to think how opposite it is for me I guess. With the bad guys the readings are cute and magical with the good guy it's oh he doesn't want you he hasn't developed feelings. It's just funny to me I guess.

[sagitira]

i agree with love. why calling psychics when you see the guys actions? if he is caring and nice i wouldn't even bother calling psychics.
please think about it. your previous predictions didn't come true. you think they are correct now? i doubt that. enjoy this guy and time spent with him. listen to your intuition. actions speak louder then words remember. especially with guys.
read some feedback from members who have been here for years and see that for majority predictions failed to manifest (those who promised reconciliation)
also how can psychic say he misses you, can't be without you and thinks about you and reality is that he hasn't contacted you in months? i don't wanna sound harsh but i was told same lies like many others. NOONE knows what will happen in future..if you found a guy you are happy with and who treats you right then enjoy his company and see where things take you. calling psychics and obsessing about things that might not be true might harm your relationship..

[sunandmoon]

Yes, I had the exact same issues. That the guy I was calling about still cared, yet when I started to be interested in someone else I was told to stay friends, it wouldn't go anywhere, he was dark, no commitment, etc. I only called a few times when I was interested in the new guy (trying to see where the old guy was before I cut him loose) but that was the gist of it.

Bottom line was, that was Sept 2011. I'm still with that dark, non-committal new guy (best rs EVER, he is completely devoted to me and I to him) and haven't heard from old guy since Aug 2011 (except for a random fb post over 2 years ago when he was in an accident). As a matter of fact, old guy was recently arrested for something quite shocking and I'm so glad I'm not involved with that family anymore.

Again, 100% wrong

[sagitira]

sunandmoon that's soo interesting. i'm glad you listened to your intuition and stayed with the new guy just goes to show not to act based on your readings. i used to act according to what psychics told me.

(example - when they said my ex would confess his feelings to me and when the timeframe came and passed and it didnt happen i was upset and very down. i started acting funny with him, i couldn't control it and started asking questions which then resulted in arguments and me getting more and more upset cause i wasn't getting what they said was supposed to happen. needless to say he never confessed his feelings for me and it's almost 2 years after predictions were made that he would. because i was really stuck on what psychics said i acted like a jealous woman around him which is not cool and after that we argued on a weekly basis. this up and down lasted almost a year until i let go of him recently - with me letting go of hope our relationship has improved and we are now able to talk to each other without arguments - ONLY BECAUSE I LISTENED TO MY INTUITION THIS TIME AND NOT TO PSYCHICS)

wish you all the best sunandmoon

[Bark angel]

sagitira,
I find your assessment interesting.  Are you sure that you really accepted what the psychics were telling you a year ago?  I think quite the opposite of what you suspect happened, really happened. I'll explain.  Had you thought and been sure, in the past, that the readers were accurate and that your love interest had deeper feelings for you than those he had shared, you would have been more content and less inclined to question him - knowing that he would eventually share them, but all the while knowing that because he hadn't did not indicate that those feelings weren't there. That questioning placed the relationship in a rough spot. In my opinion, it seems more a case of you having a specific expectation as to the timing of him being ready to share with you his inner feelings that caused the troubles.

[lovelygirl86]

Sagitira,

See!! I felt like I ALMOST got to that point. I know I shouldn't ever call these people again because they were so wrong with past predictions and I did lay off of them for a while. If I did call I would ask about my job only, I had 2 tell me about the 'new guy' coming into my life and I remember thinking yeah right who cares it's all baloney! Well oddly enough I feel like that prediction could've been one of the very many I've received that was actually true. I was a little scared to pursue anything with him because of my own insecurities but he's really shown me that he's 100% there for me and treats me amazing! I guess like I said I was bored and curious and felt well if these psychics felt as though the other 2 douchebags 'loved' me and yada yada this guy must actually almost be there because he puts action behind his words! Nope. So far it's just been, he cares for you a lot but I don't see romance cards.. As new guy is texting me sweet nothing's... And one reader actually almost madee crazy, telling me he's hiding something from me and that she don't trust him because he's not honest. I asked if it was a girl or And she said no, it's not a girl I can't see exactly what it is. Uggghh! So I know that I do need to trust only my intuition and just go with the flow. I almost got sucked back in that life. I don't want that ever again.

[lovelygirl86]

Wow... I just don't understand why it works that way. Now I know to just trust my gut. He's really amazing and it would be silly to push him away because of these people. Thank you for sharing.

Yes, I had the exact same issues. The guy I was calling about still cared, yet when I started to be interested in someone else I was told to stay friends, it wouldn't go anywhere, he was dark, no commitment, etc. I only called a few times when I was interested in the new guy (trying to see where the old guy was before I cut him loose) but that was the gist of it.

Bottom line was, that was Sept 2011. I'm still with that dark, non-committal new guy (best rs EVER, he is completely devoted to me and I to him) and haven't heard from old guy since Aug 2011 (except for a random fb post over 2 years ago when he was in an accident). As a matter of fact, old guy was recently arrested for something quite shocking and I'm so glad I'm not involved with that family anymore.

Again, 100% wrong

[Bark angel]

No psychic reading should ever trump your own intuition and gut feeling.  Furthermore, reputable psychics will be sure to tell you that up front and without hesitation.

[divine wishes]

Bark, why do you always find it necessary to clarify someone's understanding? If Sagitira feels a certain way about her readings, why not just allow her those thoughts, without interjecting what you think "really happened"? Be mindful, as you usually ask us to be, that you were not there to hear the readings, nor were you there to experience her emotions.

I am not trying to be confrontational; it is just bothersome that you tend to take this approach when others have come to accept what is.

sagitira,
I find your assessment interesting.  Are you sure that you really accepted what the psychics were telling you a year ago?  I think quite the opposite of what you suspect happened, really happened. I'll explain.  Had you thought and been sure, in the past, that the readers were accurate and that your love interest had deeper feelings for you than those he had shared, you would have been more content and less inclined to question him - knowing that he would eventually share them, but all the while knowing that because he hadn't did not indicate that those feelings weren't there. That questioning placed the relationship in a rough spot. In my opinion, it seems more a case of you having a specific expectation as to the timing of him being ready to share with you his inner feelings that caused the troubles.

[Bark angel]

Divinewishes,
I am not clarifying someone's understanding of a reading at all.  I am simply making my own observation. Just as you are here too.  I don't limit you or suggest you keep your thoughts to yourself.

All I am trying to point out, and I personally believe this is important everyone would be best to consider, and that is that no psychic prediction or reading should be heeded when and if the client has intuition that indicates otherwise. And in this case, sagitira didn't allow the psychics to trump her own intuition, even though she didn't realize it.

That's all. I have no intention nor am I commenting on others when they have come to accept what is. Actually, if you read what I was saying closely you would see that I was noticing that sagitira was not really accepting what the psychics had told her to accept.  Although she was claiming she shouldn't have listened to them, in fact, from an outsider's point of view it appeared she didn't accept those predictions anyway.
 

Bark, why do you always find it necessary to clarify someone's understanding. If Sagitira feels a certain way about her readings, why not just allow her those thoughts, without interjecting what you think "really happened"? Be mindful, as you usually ask us to be, that you were not there to hear the readings, nor were you there to experience her emotions.

I am not trying to be confrontational; it is just bothersome that you tend to take this approach when others have come to accept what is.

sagitira,
I find your assessment interesting.  Are you sure that you really accepted what the psychics were telling you a year ago?  I think quite the opposite of what you suspect happened, really happened. I'll explain.  Had you thought and been sure, in the past, that the readers were accurate and that your love interest had deeper feelings for you than those he had shared, you would have been more content and less inclined to question him - knowing that he would eventually share them, but all the while knowing that because he hadn't did not indicate that those feelings weren't there. That questioning placed the relationship in a rough spot. In my opinion, it seems more a case of you having a specific expectation as to the timing of him being ready to share with you his inner feelings that caused the troubles.

[allbitenobark]

Lovelygirl and sagitira, despite anyone else's assessment, it sounds like your psychic readings were 100% wrong. Thank you for sharing your stories with us. When you're caught up in psychic delusionment it's easy to second guess your intuition. It happens. We're human and we all have weak moments. I commend you for having the strength to rise above it and allow your relationships to develop naturally. Perhaps when you have time you could leave reviews in the other sub-topics about the psychics you read with.

Sunandmoon, I'm so happy for you! You and I split from our exes at the same time but I have not been as fortunate as you, lol. Glad to hear all is well, darlin, you deserve it. <3

[Bark angel]

The reviews have been left already!  They are in the 100% wrong sub-topic section!

Lovelygirl and sagitira, despite anyone else's assessment, it sounds like your psychic readings were 100% wrong. Thank you for sharing your stories with us. When you're caught up in psychic delusionment it's easy to second guess your intuition. It happens. We're human and we all have weak moments. I commend you for having the strength to rise above it and allow your relationships to develop naturally. Perhaps when you have time you could leave reviews in the other sub-topics about the psychics you read with.

Sunandmoon, I'm so happy for you! You and I split from our exes at the same time but I have not been as fortunate as you, lol. Glad to hear all is well, darlin, you deserve it. <3