So a couple of weeks ago I thought one of Yona's predictions happened in regard to POI going quite but it was only for three days. Well I misread it and that precision id happening now. When POI went quite for three days I told him the importance of communicati ng. I don't expect us to be in contact everyday but if thats the behavior you were having in the beginning I expect for that momentum to continue and on top of that we are 3 hours away so I only seee him once or every two months when he comes to visit his family. After the conversatio n POI expressed that I was right and he will communicate . Well this time its different because last week I responded to a text POI sent me and he has not texted me back in a week. He is not busy, he is working from home. In January, Yona gave me prediction of filter off and that I will not be holding back and speaking up for myself she expressed how this will have a good effect on the relationshi p (idk). I honestly feel like POI has a lot to prove to me especially since he is the one putting limitations on us being a relationshi p (Yona predicted). I am worth too much for a guy to think that he can treat me any kind of way and I should just accept it and he can just come over hang out have sex with me and go home. NO! When he pops up I will definitely let him know that communicati on is key and its something that works for me and I will not sit around for someone to disappear or ignore me and pop up. If he continues to do that then I will just walk away because this behavior doesn't work me and I kn ow my worth. I will also let him know that I feel like I can no longer be vulnerable with him and that if he wants to hangout it will be outside of the house and there will be no sex. I can't give a man a prize when he has even shown me anything. I feel like I was giving him a chance because we dated before and he would spoil me and make me feel important but now I'm seeing another side to him and I need to match that energy. I have given this situation till June 1if nothing progresses I'm done, even against Yona's advice . Nov-June is enough time. I get what Yona is saying he's lost blah blah but thats not my problem and I no longer wanted to be understandi ng an empathetic that has gotten me nowhere. I refuse to be taken advantage of again and treated like I'm insignifica nt when I am important.
