I was so in love with a guy many years ago I was convinced he was my one and only. I literally change my life for him. He was aesthetical
ly what I found attractive and his intelligenc
e was amazing. He however was not emotionally intelligent and very selfish and it ended after 3 years. I called Yona around this time, not being used to having phone readings but I decided to call her on a friends recommendat
ion and she started telling me about this man coming back and apologising and described what I thought was him. Then I moved on, it took 2 years before I started dating again and I had finally got him off my mind. The next guy I dated again I read with Yona and she saw him coming back and explaining and apologising to me. Then he left, then another guy I dated and he left, then another guy I dated and he left. It wasn't until I met my current POI that I realised that everything Yona told me was about him, in distinct and intricate details.
It could never have been my other POI's because although at the time he was the only guy in my life and the only guy that had been in my life and to my mind the only guy I had ever loved her reading was "close enough" to describing him.
Now my current POI she described in the most detail that I realise it could not be any of the other people that has passed through my life and it was all done for a reason. Each POI left because I raised my standards on how I needed to be treated by them. This lesson was learnt from POI 1 who was a complete arse and left me feeling so lost and insecure that I swore off men forever.
I realised that real love doesnt make us feel insecure or doubt ourselves, and each guy that moved through my life all tried to control me and put me down. My latest POI is amazing and although not in my life right now I have no doubt it was meant to be because I struggled to let him love me because of past experiences and this is what Yona told me in my first ever reading and never made sense.
So all I am saying is people come into our lives and leave again to teach us a lesson even if we dont want a lesson or dont think we need it.
I will let you know if Yona's predictions play out eventually but it is all coming together like pieces of a jigsaw puzzle and each piece is delivered every couple of months.
Thank u and I do receive the warning. She never said it would be heavenly bliss when poi returns tho. She said there would still be commitment issues for a very very long time. But in my mind, i would rather have my poi in my life with us trying to figure things out instead of us not talking with or seeing each other at all. And yes, ive been on the board long enough. It seems like just abt every two weeks or so another user posts on the board that they are done with psychics because they were all wrong and after holding out hope for a very long time, their poi never came back. So i take it all with a grain of salt. But there have been a few users here who do claim that after a long time their poi did come back. So at this point im hoping im one of the lucky ones. Time will tell. Im willing to give it another year. If nothing changes by then, I will try to let go!
@Professor, if you are anything like me, even if you do “let go” it doesn’t mean someone new will come into your life unless it’s a fated event and connection. I can go on every dating app in existence or go on any number of blind dates and unless me meeting someone is a fated event or connection, no one stands out. Lots of nice guys, even good looking guys, many would be excellent boyfriend or husband material and would make me their priority, but none of them are significant to me. There just isn’t THAT connection. In life, when I’m meant to meet someone who stands out, it just happens. It can take years, actually it usually does take years, but when it happens there is no denying it. When I was “stuck on” my POI that I refer to as H, I randomly walked into a place I had never been with no intention of meeting anyone and right when I walked in there was my POI, who is the subject of most of my posts. It was an instant connection. I could not ignore this connection. I could not stop myself from being interested in him. In a split second I met someone who essentially got me to move on from H. I had been stuck on H from July 2017 until I met C, which was March 2019. Funny thing is that H has returned into my life, while C has not. Both men were meant to come into my life.
So, Professor, as long as you are emotionally balanced and not going off the rails with getting readings, it’s okay if you aren’t letting go or moving on. You’ve heard the warnings and you understand Yona’s shortcoming s, but at the same time it doesn’t seem as if you can help the way you feel. Most likely it is a fated connection and whether or not it’s meant to be really doesn’t matter. Some may say I’ve wasted months on my current POI, but perhaps I was supposed to?
I hope the best for you.