Yona said there’s potential between us, things are improving and there will be lots movement before summer. I don’t see any of that happening, he just told me he doesn’t hate me but he won’t date me.
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I'm sorry Pear!
As an FYI "potential" is one of Yona's polite words of saying this isn't really going to be anything.
Anytime in the past she's used it on a guy they didn't work out or last very long.
Potential and ongoing connection are her oh no words lol. Thankfully I haven't had those two phrases come up in a long time.
Right. Sometimes you have to ask for clarificati
on (if she has any). She had seen all the "nice" cards for me...10 of cups, lovers, partnership
...but told me it's not like what she normally sees in a reconciliat
ion, although she thinks it is someone from the past. She said the "partnership" aspect refers to an emotional connection, as in we have fond feelings for each other. She sees an explanation/apology, a partnership, but no outcome. She said it's not the same sequence of cards where she thought it was a "reconciliat
ion", but a different type of partnership
. It could be a friendship where we still have feelings for each other, but choose to stay friends or it could be a relationshi
p where we start from scratch and not go back to the same patterns so it's completely different. Regardless, she has seen this for almost a year and nothing has happened. I'm pretty sure if takes years, then it's either someone new (I haven't been dating or anything as of yet) or if it's someone from the past, I'll most likely decide to leave it there.
