My reasoning is if you go general, she'll pick up what's relevant. If I ask about a POI, she (or any reader) may very well be accurate, but maybe not relevant right now. I think, and I could be wrong, that psychics are given what "spirit " wants us to know. Focusing on family or a career may be what is relevant right now to better prepare us for the future relationshi p stuff. If we always ask about POIs, we may be forcing them to get info on things that may need more time.