Yona Farrell

[SagiGoddess]

Stuck listening to my recording again…

 How would one interpret Yona’s dreaded “At this stage (when we’re back in contact), it's an ongoing connection”“ comment but then she says “because of the fear of loss, I think it's worth trying to get things back on track at this stage. I think there's enough of a connection if you have vision, because I think that they lack vision, but it won't happen all at once. It's not instantly rewarding. With this, I think it's worth one more shot. It’s not finished yet.” But says he’ll drag his feet on thr partnership aspect even though he has feelings, but that’ll be the decisive factor for me.

[Domichan]

Stuck listening to my recording again…

 How would one interpret Yona’s dreaded “At this stage (when we’re back in contact), it's an ongoing connection”“ comment but then she says “because of the fear of loss, I think it's worth trying to get things back on track at this stage. I think there's enough of a connection if you have vision, because I think that they lack vision, but it won't happen all at once. It's not instantly rewarding. With this, I think it's worth one more shot. It’s not finished yet.” But says he’ll drag his feet on thr partnership aspect even though he has feelings, but that’ll be the decisive factor for me.

Sounds like the connection is there on some level, he does have feelings to a point, and it can continue on like this but it's up to how much you're willing to put up with while waiting for him to fully commit. That's how I'm interpreting it. If he's dragging his feet long enough you might just get fed up and put an end to it.

[SagiGoddess]

Yea, I see that. But then she keeps repeating that it’s ”not an end outcome”. Ugggh I just want it to happen already so this can all stop but then I don’t want to go through all this pain again 😫

[Domichan]

Yea, I see that. But then she keeps repeating that it’s ”not an end outcome”. Ugggh I just want it to happen already so this can all stop but then I don’t want to go through all this pain again 😫

That sounds quite frustrating! What is your gut feeling telling you to do?

[SagiGoddess]

Yea, I see that. But then she keeps repeating that it’s ”not an end outcome”. Ugggh I just want it to happen already so this can all stop but then I don’t want to go through all this pain again 😫

That sounds quite frustrating! What is your gut feeling telling you to do?

I’m not sure yet, because I haven’t reached this point in time that Yona is referring to where he comes back. But as of now, I’m still all over the place. My heart still has emotions, but my brain is telling me that this isn’t right. That love shouldn’t feel like survival. I want to see how this plays out, but then I don’t even want to entertain him when he comes back so I can save myself the heartache now.