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My rant
allbitenobark:
hawkgirl79 - Kisha was also very firm with her prediction in my recent reading with her. She sees a permanent end to my ex and his current gf's r/s. she def sees a much needed convo taking place between us, but she adamantly feels we will not reconcile. I even asked if this could possibly be an "unknown" considering this critical conversation that is going to happen which to me seems pivotal in whether either of us, myself included, would want to get back together but she insisted that it wasn't going to happen and not to mistake us even hanging out for a while as us working things out. She also made it clear that her prediction wasn't going to change and that perhaps I should not read with her again (at least not about him) because she would have nothing new for me. I don't want this to come off as her being cold, because I certainly didn't take it that way, and I even joked with her and told her hopefully next time I call her it will be about someone new!! Haha! My point is, I don't think she's as much arrogant as just confident in the messages she's receiving from her guides. I don't like her rigid interpretation either and it does not entirely jive with what my other trusted readers say, but I think she does mean well and her intention is for me to let go and move on. Sorry, just realized I wrote a review on Kisha that would prob be more appropriate in her thread so I will prob copy this there as well...anyway, I am not defending her I am just giving perspective, promise.
hope4love:
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tjoy12:
@hawk
I will say that Kisha was probably not being arrogant. I think she was reiterating something she said in het blog. Not to confuse contact with reconciliation.
she has even told this to me too because you know, we can all get so anxious and have our minds go there.
Im in no way super defending her...I'm just saying she was probably being realistic.
She always saw us getting back together and engagement also.
But there was a time when before i walked away fron the friendship that I asked her what if i walk away. She said I could alter the outcome.
This is the point that trusting self had to come in and well, I walked.
I was interested to see what Kisha had to say a few weeks after this happened.
She still saw reconciliation and engagement. I then told her I walked and she still saw him coming back.
I have to say, even though I feel the pain of my decision, it was the best decision.
I dont regret it at all...as I know in my heart, it was for the best.
I knew I couldn't actually move on till left him behind.
You'll feel pain whether you stay or walk away, but at least the pain will subside as you walk away.
Anyway, about Kisha, I'm not hanging on to what she has said because honestly, who on here ended up reconciling with the guy in question?? And for some, she was wrong in the end.
I like her though and always felt she was super realistic.
Just because he cant let go??.I say screw that...it's just to keep a hold on you babygirl.
hawkgirl79:
Re: Kisha
I realize some of you really like her and interpreted what I said as just being defensive/not wanting to hear her. But putting myself in Kisha's shoes, if I was right most of the time, and someone was hesistant to hear or accept it, I would not insist to that person that I was right about the situation. That is arrogant.
Also, the part I find upsetting was that I at first accepted that her outcome was final without any pushback whatsoever. THEN she emailed me to change what she had said, putting it out at two years. AGAIN, I accepted this and said, oh yeah well maybe he will put it out for two years then. She responds by insisting that he won't come back........WTF? Does anyone else find this sort of ridiculous? All along I've only been trying to go along with whatever she said! With that last one, I had had enough and stood up for myself. For what it's worth, after my response she sent me an email telling me I was right to trust myself first and no psychic is always right and gave me free minutes so she appeared much more balanced after that. But I found all of this somewhat obnoxious.
I agree that letting go is always a good idea (even in committed relationships, really) and I also agree that always being available does nothing to force the other person to change. I wasn't really saying that I was wondering if I should continue to be pathetic and it was probably a poor choice of words. Really, I was only trying to respond in kind to what (I thought) Kisha was trying to tell me.
hope4love: I've also had powerful dreams associated with my guy and two visions. I think ultimately, after a lot of introspection and meditating on everything, I have come to the conclusion that the relationship will solidify at some point. For how long, I don't know. How good it will be, I don't know. But this is what I believe based on what my intuition is telling me. So I guess I don't really need psychic readings anymore, do I? ;)
hawkgirl79:
Thank you, Miracle. I feel sufficiently validated. :)
Another observation I just noticed is that psychics seem really firm on what the person in question will or will not do, but when it comes to the querent, we have the freedom to change the outcome. It seems strange to me that a psychic can know so certaintly what the guy I am calling about will or will not do, but *I* have total and utter free will, and the psychic can't tell me what I'm going to do. Anyone else's head spinning? LOL *eyeroll*
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