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hawkgirl79:
So I fell off the wagon and called a couple of psychics last night. I don't even really know what triggered it. Too many days alone, I guess. I got ahold of Aries Intuition (Kisha). She said the guy I asked about would be in contact, I would see him again, but he would never offer a relationship. I asked her if she meant this was the ultimate outcome forever or if this is just what she could see for now. She said her outcomes never changed. I accepted that and asked about a job I applied for and she said I would have a 65% chance of getting it. Hmmm. OK. After that call, I was feeling kind of bummed so I called someone else (anyone else do this? ha ha) and I called Wizardmask because someone said she had gotten a date right. She told me that the guy would start dating another girl, and then told me someone new would come in *eyeroll* and I said, that guy was supposed to show up a year ago. I really don't believe that guy exists. She argued with me (in a nice way) After that call, I started sobbing. I don't know what it was. My own desperateness, I suppose. My own inaiblity to live with the unknown. My conscious acknowledgement that I've been calling psychics pretty regularly for about a year now and nothing (not even what the psychics are telling me) has changed.

Based on pyschic readings, I can tell you that:

My guy will come back and we will be together
we have a very, special, unique connection
He will never offer me a relationship
A new Mr. Wonderful will show up and solve all my problems (he's usually a dark haired businessman, but sometimes he's a social worker type)
(Funny that no one ever saw the bald guy I dated. LOL)

And around and around and around. I am really tired of putting my hope and energy into a man that DOES NOT EXIST. I used to just let readers tell me whatever they saw but from now on, if anyone starts talking about someone in the future I'm going to stop them right there and say, "I don't want to talk about someone who doesn't exist yet." And I hope hope hope that this time, I'm just ready to start trusting what *I* think and deal better with the fact that my life is not exactly as I would like it to be and just trust that somehow, someday, everything is going to be okay.

End rant

By the way, I got an email from Kisha saying that her predictions were only good for about two years out, and she couldn't see past that, so no, her outcome wasn't final. I thought that was interesting back pedaling. I wonder if she wasn't very sure about her reading, or what.

hope4love:
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tjoy12:
I like this post hope4love.

Thank you for sharing your history.
Hmmm...seems like trusting yourself works out better in the end.

Thx for reinforcing this concept!

hawkgirl79:
hope4love: I sent you a private message, but I couldn't verify in my sent file that it went through, and I wanted to make sure that you received my very heartfelt thank you for your post and that your words did resonate with me (better than any words from any psychic, I can tell you that) and that it is really good to "hear" someone say, I heard you, I know exactly how you feel because I've been through it, and here is how I came out on the other side.  Your post was such a comfort to me. I think for many of us, we so need that relationship to pull through because we've invested our own sanity at this point.  The entire process and experience is so disempowering.

I thanked Kisha for sending me a follow up email and I also added, "It's just so hard to know whether to hang on or let go, especially if the other person makes it clear they don't want to let go. It wouldn't surprise me if he made me wait two years."

Then she responded by saying: "as far as hanging on or letting go I'm not really sure how hanging on would benefit you since I didn't see you guys reconciling. But always do what you feel is right for you just be careful not to mistake reconnection  with reconciliation as they are not the same when it comes to relationships. "

SO THEN I SAID: "I don't confuse the difference between reconciliation and reconnection, but maybe you speak to a lot of clients who do. Your prediction could be right and it could be wrong. I  won't base my perspective on the reading of one psychic. I don't think that would be very wise. I appreciate your interpretation and I will let you know if you were right."

I really had an issue with her response of condescension and arrogance. Is there a point to stripping me of all hope whatsoever? I think she is kind of egoic and a bully. My apologies to Kisha fans for saying so. I don't care how accurate she is, if she doesn't have respect for her clients, I don't want to read with her.

 

allbitenobark:
@hope4love - do you mind sharing who you've consulted with? In the past and of course in the present, too! Thank you!!!

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