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AngelGuided
positivethoughts:
JB - what I find interesting is that you meet someone you actually like and suddenly you see SM a bunch of times in one week after not running into her in 4 months. Don't know what it means but I think you are heading in the right direction my friend.
jb27:
Yes i find it pretty interesting myself lol...Just wish i knew what it meant haha. I sure would like something a little more concrete to tell me things are moving along other then just some random times of me seeing her, but you are right it is kind of a strange coincedence lol
I think something that may be bothering me a little about this new girl is i am kind of worried of scaring her away, like how forward and open i should be with her. I know i didnt really hold anything back from sm and it kind of scared her....I dont want to do that with the new girl....ya know.....lol
AngelGuided:
Thanks Kira and JB! I appreciate the info and perspectives, I couldn't agree more Kira.
JB, my advice would be to take it slow, especially for you, you're still healing. Don't worry too much about scaring her off. Maybe open up in a slow, evolved fashion to test the waters. See how she responds to the baby steps then you'll know how honest and open you can be and whether she's ready.
AngelGuided:
JB, one other note the fact that you are seeing sm now is no coincidence. Maybe it has do with the shift of you moving on, as was explained to me?
kirakira:
jb-
I know everyone's gonna say take it slow because you're healing, but I personally love jumping on the wild ride of new love! I love nothing more than a guy I like being really honest and open and courageous about how he feels! I honetsly think it attracts me to him more -to feel a man isn't too proud to wear his heart on his sleeve and be romantic and run with it. I don't know what she's about, but don't you really want to be with someone you can just go there with? Know what I mean? I totally can't wait to feel that again, the unabashed shameless flow of adoration!!!! sigh..... oh man!!! That's just me. Imagine losing someone because you DIDN'T tell them what you really felt! That would be far worse than scaring someone with your love, right? Anyone who's scared either isn't ready or isn't for you anyway!!
Now I'm all excited for you too!! When is she coming back? Do you have plans to see each other?
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