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AngelGuided
kirakira:
angel-
I am going to post a special message under my story after this one, and it has a message for you. I just want to type it once and want to keep it there. So please look for that...
OK! I want to add to this conversation- I would definitely not call any psychics yet about the new guy. I completely understand your excitement (I actually feel it), and I've felt it recently for myself. I had a date a couple weeks ago, first one since my heart was smashed up in January. I thought this new guy might be the one! There was just something... well, I called a couple psychics 24 hours after the date (on psychic source) and they told me (1) I found my soulmate! and (2) it was the start of a healthy relationship. I was so excited and you know how we give them the power to make that huge! Well, I texted him 2 nights after the date, and he hasn't responded in two weeks now since that!! Ok. I got over it, but...
Anyway, dating is crazy, but do have fun! Can I also share that something is going on with me?! Last week a guy I dated twice in October messaged me that we should get together and chat soon, two night ago a guy I talked to in June(?) who told me he'd rather not get involved with a woman with a kid, messaged me on dating site, I reminded him we already 'met', and last night a guy who stood me up for coffee in November emailed asking if I remember him and did I want to get coffee!!!!
They are something... men... (no offense to ours here, but...) Anyway! I can't wait to see who's next to reappear!! I know they will, I can feel it!!! Thing is, I don't care to hear from a single one I've already met! Let's get on to the new!!!
Just a funny little adventure in dating, thought I'd share since you're back in the game! xo
ok- I'm going to my story now for your other message!!!!
jb27:
Well angel its going alright. me and the new girl really hit it off last week if ya know what i mean ;) haha Shes gone this week so unfortunatley ive had sm on my mind most of the week lol
Im totally interested in this new girl, but i am still talking to a few other girls I know and i certainly didnt take my dating profile down yet....and im pretty interested...so dont worry about that. Also it might be just as new an experince for him as it is you so i imagine he is just as nervous as you are.
I really feel like this is going to go really well for you
JB
kirakira:
jb-
I don't know if you read my story above about dating... just a word of advice from a woman to a man! Don't mess up by playing it cool and for goodness sake don't appear to be exploring every option. With online dating, I've felt that guys are like, 'I like you but I need to sample everyone and be sure...' Just be honest about new feelings, even if it seems risky. Girls love to know where they stand! Games are never good, never never! Also, try to let that sm girl go, because it will most definitely interfere with your new chances. I dated several guys while I was entangled with 'the guy who nearly broke me' and I honestly think nothing sparked because he was on my mind. Although I know that's easier said than done...but if you can!
kiki155:
Girls love to know where they stand. You are so right, kirakira.
I'd rather know the harsh truth than make up my own stories of what's going on.
jb27:
Hey Kira,
Thanks for the pointers, and dont worry im not explroing every option out there i was just saying that my dating profile is still up and i am very interested in the new girl. We have already briefly talked about what we were looking for and how we felt so far about each other, so she knows that im digging her and i know that shes into me. And moving on from the sm is the whole reason i have started dating again and met this new girl so thats what im doing, or at least working on.
I dont know how much details you guys want to know about me and the new girls dates but it sure seems to be going somewhere. I didnt really post to much before cause work has been crazy and i havent had a lot of time to post, but i do know so any questions are welcome lol... its also been kind of a weird week with me seeing sm so much and the new girl being gone all week!!!
JB
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