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Tjk197901:
Thanks Joy and Jacky. I a moving. I made the plunge and leave Sunday one way to another. I am guessing why I like the way she treats me is because I’m an addict, an alcoholic, in recovery with a year and a half but always will be an alcoholic. Sad but true. Truthfully I’m an addict period. Whether it be smoking, gambling, drinking whatever it maybe if it’s unhealthy I like it. I am hoping we can figure it out but it’s gonna take a long time or we’ll be divorced. I’m ok with either. I’d rather her just be mean or nice. Not both. It’s so hard, I truly think she maybe a narcissist. Her first husband most certainly was and this is almost like payback for what he’s done to her.

maroonlight:
I will be 100% honest with you. I recently walked away from a very controlling and manipulative relationship like how you described. It wasn’t the first time that I tried to walk away and then he did the same thing - all lovey and I miss you, let’s work it out etc. but then when we got back together the first time things went back to how they were. People 9 times out of 10 do not change. They say they will, and may for a short while, but old habits die very hard, and when they get comfortable again, the toxicity returns. He would always tell me to get the fuck out and leave but when I wanted to do just like he wouldn’t let me.

It’s all about control and manipulation. We broke up for good in November. At first I was sad, but I reminded myself that we broke up for a reason and I focused on everything that went wrong in our relationship. If you don’t see yourself in a situation for the rest of your life, do something now and change it.

I’m very proud that you did not call the psychics. I struggled with the psychic addiction several years ago and now I am free. Once in a blue moon I will call one but I don’t spend more than probably $50 on them a year now. The less you call the better.

Please do your best to move on from her and although times are tough and the transition is hard, one year later you will be very thankful you did it. I can promise you that. Don’t make the same mistake that I did and let her suck you back in over and over again. Narcissists are extremely manipulative and are very skilled at guilt tripping and playing victim when you don’t want to put up with their BS anymore.

Tjk197901:
Thank you. I continue to keep on keeping on as they say. It’s probably driving her crazy that I am not reaching out to her begging or pleading for something. I won’t do it. I am just going to keep moving forward. As Jacky said if it is meant to be it will be. Thank you so much for your insight.

jackY:
You GOT this. Nothing changes if we keep doing the same things. We don't need psychics to tell us that. Addiction is tough and I am so happy to hear that you've been taking the steps to get your life figured out. Keep us posted!!

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