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Looking for Validations
stonyeye:
Many thanks Newly Psychic Addicted and Scorpiogirl. I really had no plans to even check back but was just curious and pleasantly surprised by your sweet posts.
From where did you move NPA (if you want to say)? I've also moved countries several times and know that it is not easy. I hope you are feeling at home!
I must say, that for a website about metaphsyical and love and light and all of the above, I've been quite surprised by the anger here. It does seem counterproductive to have a board where people are encouraged to recommend psychics and then people are slammed or considered "suspect" when they offer their choices. We all have free will and hopefully the smarts to do a little research (Google the name of the psychic) for instance to see if they have their own website or reviews from other sites) before just diving in on one recommendation and then getting angry at the person who recommended when you don't like the reader. That is why I am no longer interested in participating here on this particular "keen" page. I also don't like the bandwagon slamming that's going on right now regarding the reader I suggested. Fine. She didn't work for you. Point made. Live your life. Move on.
I'm getting all "pshych 101" here but I wonder if the drama, fear, worry and anxiety of having hopes and dreams validated by other people and the constant search for "good psychics" who work for them is somewhat trying, stressful and a negative cycle? I'd never count on a psychic to rule my life. They can act as a guidance or comfort if you like them but to spend so much time obsessing over every detail seems sort of sad.
I learned that the hard way in the last year as many dollars flew out the window but as i said, it did help me through a tough time. Regardless of whether other's approve of my "naive" choices or not.
I am now taking the route of believing in myself now and the power of positivity and living life without fear of predictions and time frames. It's pretty liberating.
Thanks again for your very kind replies though. I do thank you. If you'd like to chat about non-negative subjects, I'm most happy to do so. However, i'll move along to another section of this board where there are hopefully some happier, more gentle people. I'm quite frankly shocked by the level of hostility and suspicion I've noticed here so far. It's too bad. I thought it would be fun.
Take care. xo
blessed:
Dear stonyeye: I guess we have quite a few things in common other than being new on this forum.. I have also moved countries /continents several times and that is how I look at it.If I am capable of doing all that than I can get through anything in life..with or without a psychic they don't run my life.
But sorry if some on this board has hurt your feelings...You are always welcome to say and write what ever and however you feel.
best regards....blessed
stonyeye:
Hi Blessed, Continents? yep, me too! If we can do that? C'mon , we can take on anything!! :) No feelings hurt. I don't know anyone here from Adam so my feelings can't be hurt by people I don't even know! I just was loooking forward to fun with like minded people. Kind of a downer of a beginning though. Wa waaa! lol! Anyway, I prefer interacting with positive people like you and some others here who have been very kind. Thank you so much for your note. xox
Miracle:
While I do believe this is an open forum and everyone should be able to voice their opinion, out of personal experience I would say, we as members of this forum, have a huge responsibility and need to be very careful about anyone we recommend on this site. The reason I say so is because I am sure a lot of people read our posts and as soon as we recommend someone, I am positive others would be enticed to try the new reader. I made a few mistakes as well and recommended a few readers much sooner than I should have. I should have waited for a few more predictions to manifest before recommending anyone but going forward, I will exercise more caution in doing so. All I am saying it is wonderful to recommend readers, after all that’s one of the primary purpose of this forum; however, in doing so we must remember the tremendous responsibility we shoulder. The last thing I am sure anyone of us wants to do is unintentionally mislead another person, all the more reason we must be cognizant of all our recommendations.
Disclaimer: Please note this is not a personal attack on anyone but more so a reflection of my own personal experience.
newlyPsychicAddicted:
hey stonyeye
Its gud that you are not feeling hurted anymore... although i know it must be feeling bad but believe me being new and recommending someone new is risky ;D.
I am from asia and as i mentioned before i dont even remember that i am from a totally different continent. I love America and I love the people here.... its just that i experienced some of my most bitter life experiences here so m terribly missing my home country :(
But anyways, regarding the slamming, i didnt found any post slamming anyone ???
We are here for honest feedbacks and like you said that we should be telling our experiences about psychics whom we like and whom we dont ;D. So please dont take it as slamming :)
@Grat
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