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Serendipity:
Synergy - Well said! Readers have their own forums, so why can't we?

melancholia:
So I spoke with Cookie very recently who told me there were three people I was concerned with (correct). I'm not going to get into any detail about the other two, but the third one she said was a gentleman that appeared to be distant lately, but I would see improvement in communication in the immediate future.

I just got off the phone with my SM after a 20 minute conversation about just "stuff", something we haven't done in probably almost 2 months.  He has been very distant lately, and I was shocked to hear from him (though really happy to hear his voice).  So I guess she got this very, very correct. :)

stonyeye:
Ohhhh... Duh! Yes, I AM naiive in that regard! Some of you were thinking I might be a reader trying to market my services? No. lol! I just read with every dang reader on Keen and other sites for the past year or two. Some were awful. Some I liked. I have NO agenda.

This is long because I think it is worth mentioning if others join the board. I understand your suspicions but really....just use your own compass. It does seem a bit distasteful here as though recommendations or experiences are judged and fingers are pointed if someone is deemed "wrong" or not able to distinguish a reader. Let me tell  you, i am not new to Keen...and i am not a naiive newbie who fell prey to readers. i went into it with eyes wide open.  I just happened to find some readers comforting. Were some of them right? Yes with some things for sure. Did some of them give advice i thought was good? Yes! Did some sell fairy tales? yes! Were some so truthful that it hurt? Yes! Were some just plain comforting at 3 am when i couldn't sleep because i was so consumed with worry? Yes! Have I been honest with that in my posts? Yes. I have been honest in saying that ALL my BIG predictions are pending except for one. Someone told me a BIG DATE that did happen exactly as she said. The rest, i said, gave me some amazing details they couldn't have known as i did not lead them. That is why i recommended them and explained that. i did not say that their predictions came true yet. i said they were PENDING but that I thought their abilities to pick up on details were pretty amazing. I also said there are some that I found comforting and liked them. This sounds defensive but i want to be clear before anyone jumps on someone else's bandwagon when they make a suggestion. read the content of the post. Ask if their psychic's predictions worked for them or if they just gave details. And keep in mind that some psychics work for one person but not another.

As  above, my favorites may not be be considered "good" but I liked them anyway. Whether they were truthful or not as to the big picture? I haven't the slightest idea yet. Yes, I noticed many shifted dates for events to later than they said. i just took that as, maybe my own thinking or calling so many readers was somehow questioning the universe (or whatever you want to call it) too much. Regardless, some who are not considered "good" helped me through a terrible time. Some were indeed "bang on" with some crazy details. Is that me trying to "sell or market a reader" no. I was just kind of excited after seeing this board after calling reader after reader on keen for a year.

I'm well aware of the BIG names..... and I only wanted to mention some who weren't quite as difficult to get hold of who I felt were legit in some way or another FOR ME. Obviously my suggestions don't work for others or seem questionable. Anyway,  I've closed my keen account finally after a year of calling everyone...... Many of whom are mentioned here often as the BEST.  Yes, I know Kisha, and cookie and roxie etc. I don't want to share my negative experiences so thought I'd share the ones I liked. BUT, i finally realized that I don't want to spend the money anymore on what "might be" and sit around questioning the validity of a reading. So, i won't have more to contribute anyway.

I do have a psychic friend who advised me that my own gut is probably the best guidance and I agree that she is probably correct. I think I was giving my own power away by calling readers and listening to advice and "possibilities".  I'm not saying anyone is wrong for calling. I think that if it helps and brings peace, then by all means, go for it. I certainly did! For now though, I'm going to take the future in my own hands and  after that, what will be will be, as I can't possibly control the actions of another.

Obviously I've created suspicion or  hype over someone others don't like or find false. I liked them and just wanted to share in discussion. Apologies if they did not live up to my enthusiasm. I will not be suggesting anymore readers or contributing. I know that nobody meant to sound accusatory. You all are just very serious about this and want to make sure your readers are validated so this is not said defensively. I've realized through my whole one week on this board that it's more of a private matter and taste than anything. Absolutely no desire to market and in no way affiliated with Keen other than i spent WAY too much money there.

Anyway, good luck and I hope all your dreams come true and your readers continue to work for you. Take care all!

newlyPsychicAddicted:
Hey Stonyeye

I can sense that you are hurt ..... see everyone here suspects everyone else of being a readers specially if they are recommending some one new.... Dont take it personally..... it was just that you were fulfilling all the criterias of suspicions  ;D

1. You are a new member. ( me too :) )
2. you recommended someone totally unheard of ( i know everyone have their favourites :) )
3. People got excited and the reader took advantage by raising her price.
4. She was a total disappointment for most of us. ( loops like her as she caught SSV when she was psychic  ;D) The rest of us caught us when she didnt had her ability. ( I know psychics can be on and off and its not something under their control).
I am not saying that SSV is a total fake but she definitely isnt honest.

You are most welcomed to share your opinions and experience with us anytime !!!! Believe me without this forum i would have had a nervous breakdown by now. I am from a different country and this is my first time in USA) but with so much support I dont even remember that I am from a totally different land.

Once you become a part of this forum , the support is unbelievable.... i know you started on a wrong note and I am both sorry and guilty for that( even I doubted at first but then realised that you can be just naive!!!!) ......but please dont take it personally... anyone who would have satisfied the above criteria s would be under the gun... I know it hurts and m again sorry that your entry into the forum was not welcoming....

I would definitely invite you to chat so that you can mix up more with us and share our experience......

Once again welcome to the forum  ;D

scorpiogirl:

--- Quote from: stonyeye on April 26, 2012, 08:02:04 PM ---Ohhhh... Duh! Yes, I AM naiive in that regard! Some of you were thinking I might be a reader trying to market my services? No. lol! I just read with every dang reader on Keen and other sites for the past year or two. Some were awful. Some I liked. I have NO agenda.

This is long because I think it is worth mentioning if others join the board. I understand your suspicions but really....just use your own compass. It does seem a bit distasteful here as though recommendations or experiences are judged and fingers are pointed if someone is deemed "wrong" or not able to distinguish a reader. Let me tell  you, i am not new to Keen...and i am not a naiive newbie who fell prey to readers. i went into it with eyes wide open.  I just happened to find some readers comforting. Were some of them right? Yes with some things for sure. Did some of them give advice i thought was good? Yes! Did some sell fairy tales? yes! Were some so truthful that it hurt? Yes! Were some just plain comforting at 3 am when i couldn't sleep because i was so consumed with worry? Yes! Have I been honest with that in my posts? Yes. I have been honest in saying that ALL my BIG predictions are pending except for one. Someone told me a BIG DATE that did happen exactly as she said. The rest, i said, gave me some amazing details they couldn't have known as i did not lead them. That is why i recommended them and explained that. i did not say that their predictions came true yet. i said they were PENDING but that I thought their abilities to pick up on details were pretty amazing. I also said there are some that I found comforting and liked them. This sounds defensive but i want to be clear before anyone jumps on someone else's bandwagon when they make a suggestion. read the content of the post. Ask if their psychic's predictions worked for them or if they just gave details. And keep in mind that some psychics work for one person but not another.

As  above, my favorites may not be be considered "good" but I liked them anyway. Whether they were truthful or not as to the big picture? I haven't the slightest idea yet. Yes, I noticed many shifted dates for events to later than they said. i just took that as, maybe my own thinking or calling so many readers was somehow questioning the universe (or whatever you want to call it) too much. Regardless, some who are not considered "good" helped me through a terrible time. Some were indeed "bang on" with some crazy details. Is that me trying to "sell or market a reader" no. I was just kind of excited after seeing this board after calling reader after reader on keen for a year.

I'm well aware of the BIG names..... and I only wanted to mention some who weren't quite as difficult to get hold of who I felt were legit in some way or another FOR ME. Obviously my suggestions don't work for others or seem questionable. Anyway,  I've closed my keen account finally after a year of calling everyone...... Many of whom are mentioned here often as the BEST.  Yes, I know Kisha, and cookie and roxie etc. I don't want to share my negative experiences so thought I'd share the ones I liked. BUT, i finally realized that I don't want to spend the money anymore on what "might be" and sit around questioning the validity of a reading. So, i won't have more to contribute anyway.

I do have a psychic friend who advised me that my own gut is probably the best guidance and I agree that she is probably correct. I think I was giving my own power away by calling readers and listening to advice and "possibilities".  I'm not saying anyone is wrong for calling. I think that if it helps and brings peace, then by all means, go for it. I certainly did! For now though, I'm going to take the future in my own hands and  after that, what will be will be, as I can't possibly control the actions of another.

Obviously I've created suspicion or  hype over someone others don't like or find false. I liked them and just wanted to share in discussion. Apologies if they did not live up to my enthusiasm. I will not be suggesting anymore readers or contributing. I know that nobody meant to sound accusatory. You all are just very serious about this and want to make sure your readers are validated so this is not said defensively. I've realized through my whole one week on this board that it's more of a private matter and taste than anything. Absolutely no desire to market and in no way affiliated with Keen other than i spent WAY too much money there.

Anyway, good luck and I hope all your dreams come true and your readers continue to work for you. Take care all!

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Yep this board is very "Clique-y" and a bit of a mob mentality. And a lot of drama. Whether it's a recommendation for someone or accusing someone else of being fake. Don't blame you for not wanting to post anything again. I don't post a lot either but want to tell you I agree with you!

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