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Focusing or Letting go...

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Synergy:
So if things are ever changing, then we're basically calling for nothing, right? I hate that I've fallen into this trap of wanting to call psychics every time something happens. It's unhealthy. Just once, I want the big, positive outcome predictions to start manifesting for at least some of us on the forum. Seeing everyone waiting is really discouraging and it makes me quite sad. Everyone here deserves a lot better than this.

Synergy:
Maybe we're just not supposed to know.

4everhopeful:
I say the psychics are all full of it. Nothing of significance ever came true for me and some things that did come true were not what I expected. And also the thing about "Change your future" really hits home with me right now because if they had told me what was going to happen in detail I would have changed it since it has really screwed up my life right now. So why didnt they tell me what was ahead of me instead of feeding me fairytales? I am in such a pickle right now because they didnt tell me what was going to happen in detail. Only one told me of what was to happen but it was so vague that I didnt connect it to me. Would take too long to explain but it makes me think about the advertisements to "change your future". This is something that I would absolutely have changed if they had told me. But they didnt, only vague hints. So what good did all the readings and all that money spent do me anyway or the woman that lost her life. I wish I had never even gotten the first psychic reading. Thousands of dollars down the drain and still wound up in hell.

GLK73:
Hi Everyone,

It's been close to a year since I've posted on here, but I do check in quite regularly.  My situation (that I'm calling psychics about) has yet to resolve itself and I'm not entirely sure what or who to believe anymore.  I typically call a handful of readers on CP.  About six weeks ago, when I was in a pretty anxious state because my SM had not contacted me in awhile, a customer service rep on CP had me talk to Yvonne.  She said I'd get a text from him within 24 hours.  Needless to say, I didn't believe her.  But I got a text from him about two hours later.  Since then her predictions on contact from him have been to the day.  It's been very eerie.  It didn't seem to matter if I obsessed over it (which I usually did) or let it go.  She also seemed to know what he was doing if I texted him and didn't get a response right away as well as how he would respond.  As far as a few other predictions (I didn't ask for much other than contact dates) I wouldn't say she was 100% on - although one thing she did predict I know would have happened if had I responded in a different way (which goes to show that we do play a hand in whether or not a prediction pans out) - and sometimes I'm not sure if she's giving me advice more from the standpoint of a life coach/counselor or a psychic.  But the fact that she's predicted contact to the day numerous times for me has had me in awe.  You have to ask your question to her guides in a yes/no format.  I would ask, "Will I hear from SM in 7 days?"  If she said Yes, I'd ask 4 days?  If she said no, I'd ask about 5 days and so on.  I know it seems a little ridiculous but everytime the contact has ocurred for me the exact number of days out that I was told.  It is bizarre - but a resource I am glad I have found.

Other than that I typically call Ginger.  Her reading style is a bit different and takes longer than other readers.  I'm still not sure if her outcome will happen for me as she sees it but many, many things she has seen for me over the past few years appear to have come to fruition.

lotusflower:
I wanted to give my opinion on focusing or letting go.  This is more about love or relationships.
I think that focusing on an outcome will only delay the outcome.  I was telling a friend of mine earlier today that if you put too much energy on the outcome, doubting, or worrying about the outcome, it’s like holding on to that energy with a tight bear hug and not letting it go or strangling the energy to be able to do what it needs to do to go forward and work on getting you what you desire.  It will continue to delay it.  If it’s part of your path and you put too much thought or energy in it, it will delay the time it was supposed to happen.
Letting go is not the same as cutting the ties from that energy.  When you decide that you no longer want that outcome, you cut that energy from you and it will no longer work to get you that outcome.
 Letting go to not worry about it but still wanting the outcome, well that a different story.  If you believe or know it will happen, you can just file it away and not think about it too often.  The energies, guides, and/or the universe will work at your outcome to bring it forward easier and quicker if it’s part of your path.  If the outcome is part of your path and  you are not worrying, then it will happen on  time.
Sometimes we want something but it’s not meant to be so no matter what you do, it won’t manifest for you. 
Psychics or seers each have their own gifts and what they can bring to the table.  If they are truly gifted and they tell you that it will happen, then know it will happen. Go on with your life and do things for yourself and don’t worry about it. Don’t do things to try to make it happen. Just know it will because you got the inside information. 
It has always been said:  When you least expect it, that’s when someone special comes into your life.  (When you’re not looking for it)  It’s because you’re not holding onto it too tightly.  I hope this makes sense and it’s just my opinion.

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