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Amaranth:
Well, here I am on the day of my first official timeline.  I know it's only 1 pm my time, and I technically still have 11 hours for contact to happen before it's just a bust, but I can't help but feel like it's not going to happen.  At least not today.  Today was my earliest for contact.  The other days told to me by other psychics are March 20, March 21st, and one sweeping one, who gave anywhere between the 18th and 22nd.

I have bounced everywhere from hopeful and believing it's going to happen to being doubtful.  At times I zero in on it like the Laws of Attraction state- to trying to distract myself and forget all about it, like other 'laws' state, in order to prove to the Universe I can first live without it.  I really do not know which I should be doing, lol.

So while I'm sitting here all antsy today, I'd like to hear what you guys think about situations/wants/people in general.  Should a person be focusing on what they want and willing it to happen, or should they be 'letting go' in order to receive? 

There is probably no wrong or right- I just want to hear your guys' opinions and what you personally believe ^^

guesswho:
Hi Amaranth!  I know the feeling of waiting.  Once upon a time (2009 - early 2011) when my psychic Abrielle worked great with timelines, I would sit and wait for the call when the date that she gave came.  One day I was so distraught that I called another psychic on CP - Lucrecia and she told me not to worry that the day wasn't nearly over and I would get contact.  My ex called me that night at like 7 PM and I was waiting from like 11 AM, so they were both right.

This happened another time and I was confident that she was right and he called on that date at like 5 in the morning and woke me up out of my sleep.  This is after months apart each time.  Now, her timelines no longer work for me.  :(  I know the anxious feeling and it's the worst.  I hope you get contact tonight!  I focused on it on the date and it happened, but I know everyone says to let go.  I did let go up until the date though, I was comforted by dates of when to expect things so I was able to not worry until that date.  She was also right with dates a few times after that for other things, so it sucks that she isn't working for me anymore.

Keep your head up!!

When I let go in general, it doesn't really work out for me.

sunandmoon:
I still think it's luck of the draw and here's why.

Last year, hah! 2010 actually, I had called a few psychics in early Nov/Dec that gave me timelines. (withouth looking I do think it was Abrielle that surprised me with specific dates). OK so I called a lot of them. In Jan 11 or so, I went back through my notes and saw some of the contact dates had actually happened! I was so thrilled that of course I called those same psychics back. Now you can argue that the first ones happened because I forgot about them, and the second ones didn't because I focused on them.

But I also called through summer of 2011. I started to see someone new the end of August. I can say with certainty that I have no idea of the contact dates given from September on when I started to get serious with my new guy.  (I know there were some for this general timeframe but I'd really have to go back and look to be sure). The last time I looked though, I had many who said 2-3 weeks after I had called them and this was back in JULY-AUGUST and those never ever happened.

So I don't know that anyone can really say for sure what's going to happen nor can we say the psychics know. (and yes I spent many thousands learning this)

Amaranth:
Holy Crap.

So although I wasn't wild about my reading with her because it was more advice than a reading ( I think she was madder at my friend than I was, lol ), Therese so far has been the only person who was accurate with contact timeline for me.  So I decided to get one last reading before I hang it up for awhile and await all these timelines to pass, so I got in her line.  NUMBER 111!!!  They must have changed how the line callback system works on PS.  When I last read with her, only up to 6 people could be in line at once, and I had to refresh her page over and over again while she was on a call to get the empty spot first. 

Geez, by the time I get the callback, all my timelines for March and April will probably have passed anyway!  LOL.

Anyway- continue with your thoughts, people.  I love hearing them!

positivethoughts2:
What I've learned  - the hard way - is to keep sane forget any contact dates given. Sometimes they happen, sometimes they don't. If you go into it with high expectations, well, you all know what happens.

I remember being told over and over from my trusted psychics that SM was going to contact me and we would get together. I would spend an entire weekend alone waiting for the call  that would never come. Finally after doing this 100 times I decided I would never live my life like that again.  I have learned so much over the last year so if someone reading this can learn from me - don't expect a prediction to happen when they say it will. Be thankful they see it happening at all then let the prediction "go". Because unfortunately things change, circumstances happen and then the prediction changes. So what is the point of knowing in the first point I guess. I don't know.

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